Pro Anti:

During my service, I met this pretty Hausa girl and we struck an uncommon friendship. She was so nice and open and had lots of very friendly siblings. I met the mum, who was equally nice, and also the dad. The family was an educated bunch.
We fell in love, but as an apostle of d fight against pre-marital sex, we didnt hv sex. I finished my service and got an O&G job. We eventually discussed marriage but the response wasnt so nice. She was ready to do anything for me but told me her Family would never support her marrying a Christain especially a southern one. I did all I could to convince her parents all to no avail.

Right now I'm all alone still praying for the parents to change their mind. Please somebody, join me in prayers.

mikeansy:

U never want to marry

I no go waste my prayers

tpia.:

well, the ones I know (my relatives) have hausa mothers. Like I said, I dont know how the marriages happened. I guess my peeps got charisma or something j/k

Also, there are Hausa Christians as well though the "disinclination" to marry southerners might be irrespective of religion- I'm not sure.

notwithstanding, there are quite a lot of northern women/southern men marriages- they dont get a lot of publicity most likely for safety reasons.

I think generally, in the north, southerners arent seen as trustworthy partners maybe. Simply guessing. Religion aside.

gadogado:

umm, do you not think it has something to do with the way hausa/fulani people feel they are somewhat superior to southerners, isint that why they get so over protective of their women especially if it involves southern men coz they feeel hausa girls are simply too precious. for example, kola abiola, a yoruba muslim wanted to marry aisha babangida (IBB's daughter) at some point but the IBB people were vehemently against it, why?even though they are the same religion,well maybe politics was involved too, but name one "big man" from the south who is married to a hausa fulani woman, im sure you'll not be able to give names, but there are many hausa men who are married to southern women, like IBB who is part fulani part gwari. or atiku who is fulani and many others!!

gadogado:

umm, do you not think it has something to do with the way hausa/fulani people feel they are somewhat superior to southerners, isint that why they get so over protective of their women especially if it involves southern men coz they feeel hausa girls are simply too precious[b]. for example, kola abiola, a yoruba muslim wanted to marry aisha babangida (IBB's daughter) at some point but the IBB people were vehemently against it,[/b] why?even though they are the same religion,well maybe politics was involved too, but name one "big man" from the south who is married to a hausa fulani woman, im sure you'll not be able to give names, but there are many hausa men who are married to southern women, like IBB who is part fulani part gwari. or atiku who is fulani and many others!!

becomrich,:

Who ever started this thread, thinks we care if atiku married a yoruba woman,. Who cares. I would never vote for him.

If anybody most lead a person, we most look at what he as done. What have think done for the Yorubas. Nothing.

Who care who is manipulating your genital part. If you like marry 1000 yorubas women. And dont think that would hold yorubas downs . So if 1 yoruba person marry a northerner. Should we because of that risk the life of our people.

Only stupid people think that way. Wise people dont.

Many nigerian are married to white. And thier wife have a different citizen. So it is not bad when we remove the yorubas, edo,delta and bayelsa into benin republic. that thier wife have a different passport, what is the big deal. most nigerian abroad thier wife have a different passort, so atiku wifewould be have to do the same.

Does atiku wife have four head on his head, what make her so special than nigeria would are married to people from other countries.

Aloy~Emeka:

Is IBB a polygamist?. If no, what makes you think he will like his first daughter to marry Kola who already has one wife and 3 children?.  You talk of superiority yet your men run down south to marry southern women. If it's superiority issue, then the men will not be marrying from the south. My cousin is a physician and did his housemanship in Maiduri. He came home with a christian Hausa girl and they  have 3 children now.

african american men couldnt even look at white women in the 40's and 50's otherwise they'd hang them

i have never seen a hausa or fulani christian, they just dont exist and im from the north

gadogado:

cheif emeka, a few points of correction for you
1) IBB is not a monogamist, the daughter in question (after her marrigage with abacha's nephew fell apart) married the zamfara state governor and she's the third or fourth wife.
2) i have never seen a hausa or fulani christian, they just dont exist and im from the north, your cousin married someone from a small tribe in the north, there are many of them there and they are treated as 2nd class citizens like katafs from southern kaduna,they speak hausa with funny accents and have their own languages. hausas are about 98% muslim

3) you can tell when a group has feelings of racial superiority by how protective they are of their women.case in point.african american men couldnt even look at white women in the 40's and 50's otherwise they'd hang them but whites had regular sex with black female slaves freely and even after slavery. example.emmett till

gadogado:

cheif emeka, a few points of correction for you
1) IBB is not a monogamist, the daughter in question (after her marrigage with abacha's nephew fell apart) married the zamfara state governor and she's the third or fourth wife.
2) i have never seen a hausa or fulani christian, they just dont exist and im from the north, your cousin married someone from a small tribe in the north, there are many of them there and they are treated as 2nd class citizens like katafs from southern kaduna,they speak hausa with funny accents and have their own languages. hausas are about 98% muslim

3) you can tell when a group has feelings of racial superiority by how protective they are of their women.case in point.african american men couldnt even look at white women in the 40's and 50's otherwise they'd hang them but whites had regular sex with black female slaves freely and even after slavery. example.emmett till

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Lets just say I agree with your 3rd point for comments sake; now, white girsl just cant have enough of blackmen di-cks, it therefore means a time is comming when hausa girls pu-ssy will be cheap and easy all over the south of Nigeria. Not that it is not available or cheap now, it's just not open yet I did my NYSC in Sokoto, and I cannot count how many fully blown hausa/fulani girls my guys fu-cked, especially the very young ones that threw away thier virginity at us just like that. So get the superiority complex out of ya head. 

gadogado:

cheif emeka, a few points of correction for you
1) IBB is not a monogamist, the daughter in question (after her marrigage with abacha's nephew fell apart) married the zamfara state governor and she's the third or fourth wife.
2) i have never seen a hausa or fulani christian, they just dont exist and im from the north, your cousin married someone from a small tribe in the north, there are many of them there and they are treated as 2nd class citizens like katafs from southern kaduna,they speak hausa with funny accents and have their own languages. hausas are about 98% muslim

3) you can tell when a group has feelings of racial superiority by how protective they are of their women.case in point.african american men couldnt even look at white women in the 40's and 50's otherwise they'd hang them but whites had regular sex with black female slaves freely and even after slavery. example.emmett till

nuzo:

*Reasons why you may not have noticed many southern men/northern women marriages are:

1. Southerners may not be interested in such marriages.

2. You will have to convert to Islam before her family will fully accept you as a son in-law.

3. Cultural and religious differences.

4. Distance.

5. Most southern men, Igbos especially dont like marrying outside their locality, coupled with the memories of the Biafran war.

*Reasons northern men marry southern women:

1. A supposedly big reward awaits muslims who converts an "Infidel" to Islam.

2. Love.

3. Location and convenience.

4. Complexion.

5. Stability in marriage.

6. Literate southern women.

7. The secret desire to explore the open mindedness of southern women.

8. Good sex (unconfirmed).

Pro Anti:

We fell in love, but as an apostle of d fight against pre-marital sex, we didnt hv sex.

udezue:

Pro anti,
Just move and find you a southern girl for some southern hospitality. Why are u wasting your time with ppl who don't want you? Keep it up and they will turn you into Suya during the next Sharia riot. I will pray for you.

tpia.:




^^ that was America.

The same didnt always hold for parts of Europe, including the UK. In any case, does it really matter.



they exist.


no they dont

udezue:

5 igbo whores ofcourse we got whores and thank your gworo eatin friends for taking our garbage. We love em for that.

udezue:

Pro anti,
Just move and find you a southern girl for some southern hospitality. Why are u wasting your time with ppl who don't want you? Keep it up and they will turn you into Suya during the next Sharia riot. I will pray for you.

Emeka,

You are a big dunce. Marrying blood thirsty moronic uncircumsized Hausa-Fulani bow and arrow wielding men is still an abomination that can only be committed by bonafide Igbo whores.

nuzo:


I see most Nigerians like you as shameless bastards and I have no single respect for them!
Can you imagine how a foreign religion has turned you into a beast?

Once again, read this:

gadogado:

no they dont