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Re: Should I Marry A Man With A Low Sperm Count? by upuphim(m): 1:43pm On Oct 06, 2016

That's a trust worthy fellow. With such confession, miracle can happen. I encourage you to go ahead if all other areas are okay by you but provided both of you agree to adopt a child, like three years after wedding. Meanwhile, find out from him, he has used our swissgarde products.

Re: Should I Marry A Man With A Low Sperm Count? by shegzeal: 1:47pm On Oct 06, 2016

JerryTemi:
Speak to God in prayers,He can change everything I mean it.locate winners and sow a seed on this.

. FROM GLORY TO GLORY

Re: Should I Marry A Man With A Low Sperm Count? by omololagirl: 2:02pm On Oct 06, 2016

please dont quit...i can help u out on this matter by seeing a specialist on ur husband to b case...if u dont mind...DR TOJU +234 803 558 3806

Re: Should I Marry A Man With A Low Sperm Count? by olakan22: 2:18pm On Oct 06, 2016

aluk:

Really? Nigerians and their religion overzealousness! Is prayer a medicine, doctor or hospital? Everything in Nigeria is about prayers. What a gullible, brainwashed and short sighted lot!

egbon kilode?

Re: Should I Marry A Man With A Low Sperm Count? by gemale(m): 2:43pm On Oct 06, 2016

finestcholatey:
I am planning my wedding with the love of my life , and he just made it known to me that he can't father a child , so I don't know if I should go ahead with the wedding , or call it quit with him, I need advice

Sista no offense bt wt u just said, dt dude is wicked. He didn't tell u when u pple were dating casually, he didn't tell u when things got serious, he didn't tell u b4 he opened his mouth 2 propose 2 u. It was when u hv started planning d wedding dt he suddenly rmbrd somtn ds important. he's nw tryn 2 manipulate ur emotions because he knows dt it wld b hard 4 u 2 call things off nw dt u hv started planning d wedding. Ds is a red flag dt shld make u question seriously whether u wnt 2 spend d rest of your life wt ds kind of person. Only u can decide dt. Anyway it is obvious dt he has 2 c a medical specialist in infertility treatment. In fact, follow him 2 all those places & find out personally if his condition is 1 dt can be remedied. Pls make sure dt he's treated successfully b4 marrying him. Shift ur wedding plans if u hv 2. If it's sometn beyond medical science, u hv 2 decide whether u can live d rest of ur lyf wt out biological children. U hv 2 decide if u wld b satisfied wt adoption or even (ds is extreme) being impregnated by anoda man. Those r d choices available 2 u. Choose carefully cos u wld bear d consequences squarely.

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Re: Should I Marry A Man With A Low Sperm Count? by whoisuche: 2:59pm On Oct 06, 2016

mama777:
Since you said you love him stick with him because love is all about taking care of each other both in hard times.low sperm count is the cause of infertility in most homes.you have 3 option
1.believe in God.
2.go to fertility center for ivf which is not for the poor because you might end up trying more than ones before it can be successful
3.you cheat on your husband to get pregnant.if your conscience will allow you.
I wish you well

Why will you suggest she cheat her husband that is not good. the Lord is against that.

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Re: Should I Marry A Man With A Low Sperm Count? by jabojafa(m): 3:19pm On Oct 06, 2016

Bookiemart01:
Please I'mm not concerned about church..I'm bothered that people thing God dwells in a building. God is OMNISCIENT and OMNIPOTENT he knows all and will do all things in his set time.

You saying God is in winners is poor reasoning cos God cannot be caged to a particular church. God is everywhere and I do not have to attend a particular church to receive God's blessing.

He says where 2 or 3 are gathered in my name I Am there. Remember we are not to forsake the congregation of brethens.

Re: Should I Marry A Man With A Low Sperm Count? by jabojafa(m): 3:23pm On Oct 06, 2016

johnsonjosbles:
good marketer if u ask me. oledepo have them plentty

yes oh i have to keep marketing this Jesus till my time up here on earth.

Re: Should I Marry A Man With A Low Sperm Count? by nkechiben(f): 3:25pm On Oct 06, 2016

finestcholatey:
I am planning my wedding with the love of my life , and he just made it known to me that he can't father a child , so I don't know if I should go ahead with the wedding , or call it quit with him, I need advice

SO PUBLIC MUST KNOW THAT UR BOO HAS LOW SPERM COUNT? IT IS WELL WITH U O!

Re: Should I Marry A Man With A Low Sperm Count? by jabojafa(m): 3:31pm On Oct 06, 2016

engrshakespeare:

Dont be a slave to religion, God is in every other church besides what does church have to do with this. Even if he will revert to the church isn't only sane for him to seek medical care first. This is how some churches encourage diseases at early stages to become chronic or encourage spread of communicable diseases by delaying people in churches instead of referribg them to specialists.

i didnt say he shudnt seek medical care. Even d bible isnt against medicines. But note dt drugs are burdens to a child of God becos He has made provisions for healing.

Re: Should I Marry A Man With A Low Sperm Count? by johnsonjosbles(m): 3:31pm On Oct 06, 2016

jabojafa:
yes oh i have to keep marketing this Jesus till my time up here on earth.

marketing jesus? yaba left u belong

Re: Should I Marry A Man With A Low Sperm Count? by jabojafa(m): 3:33pm On Oct 06, 2016

Bookiemart01:
Please I'mm not concerned about church..I'm bothered that people thing God dwells in a building. God is OMNISCIENT and OMNIPOTENT he knows all and will do all things in his set time.

You saying God is in winners is poor reasoning cos God cannot be caged to a particular church. God is everywhere and I do not have to attend a particular church to receive God's blessing.

God's habitation is zion and zion signifies church

Re: Should I Marry A Man With A Low Sperm Count? by jabojafa(m): 3:35pm On Oct 06, 2016

johnsonjosbles:
marketing jesus? yaba left u belong

that cnt be my portion.

Re: Should I Marry A Man With A Low Sperm Count? by Tee2902(m): 3:47pm On Oct 06, 2016

southernbelle:

My dear, you are so right.
If it had been the woman who admitted to a man that she has no womb, the man will most likely call it quits immediately however this is where you need to evaluate how much you love him.
Of course, you can pray but if it comes down to adopting a child since you can't have your own, will you be comfortable?
You should also consider his emotions before you make your decisions like if you decide to call it off for example, hope he won't harm himself?
Just take out time to really think this through, okay?
God is your strength.
Goodluck.

LSC and absence of a womb are not same please. low sperm count can be corrected while I am yet to know how a womb can be inserted into a woman who may have lost hers, unless by God Himself. The OP should seek medical tests and advice, the challenge could be temporary. All the best.

Re: Should I Marry A Man With A Low Sperm Count? by Nobody: 4:53pm On Oct 06, 2016

mama777:
Since you said you love him stick with him because love is all about taking care of each other both in hard times.low sperm count is the cause of infertility in most homes.you have 3 option
1.believe in God.
2.go to fertility center for ivf which is not for the poor because you might end up trying more than ones before it can be successful
3.you cheat on your husband to get pregnant.if your conscience will allow you.
I wish you well

And You "believe" in God?

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Re: Should I Marry A Man With A Low Sperm Count? by engrshakespeare: 11:30pm On Oct 06, 2016

jabojafa:
i didnt say he shudnt seek medical care. Even d bible isnt against medicines. But note dt drugs are burdens to a child of God becos He has made provisions for healing.

And where is that in the bible. And who told u drugs are not a provision of healing. keep deceiving yourself

Re: Should I Marry A Man With A Low Sperm Count? by gentleagu(m): 6:14am On Oct 07, 2016

Eesha:
my dear friend, you can get married. We had same issue but I'm expecting my 2nd child. If u need d name of the med we took, lemme know biko.

Madam. Plz share your med

Re: Should I Marry A Man With A Low Sperm Count? by gentleagu(m): 6:20am On Oct 07, 2016

LynnPetra:
Something as little as sperm count can never deter me to marry the man I sincerely love. For the fact he told me sef, I will tell him, "Go back and tell that demon of negativity that I said he is a lair"

I love you.
Agape wink

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Re: Should I Marry A Man With A Low Sperm Count? by nuelyoyo(m): 8:51am On Oct 07, 2016

finestcholatey:
I am planning my wedding with the love of my life , and he just made it known to me that he can't father a child , so I don't know if I should go ahead with the wedding , or call it quit with him, I need advice

first of all, to eliminate the issue of him playing pranks or wanting to test ur love for him, I suggest u take him to a fertility clinic of ur own choice & have him examined. If the result comes out and it reveals that he has low sperm count, listen to what the specialist has to say, coz from what I know low sperm count can be fixed, except his own case is severe and beyond redemption. Aside that, there is the option of In - Vitro - Fertilization (IVF), where his sperm can be taken and inserted into you for fertilisation.
All u need now is for u to verify his claims medically, and all the options laid on the table for you, then make a logical decision.

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Re: Should I Marry A Man With A Low Sperm Count? by josite: 9:19am On Oct 07, 2016

dat guy is just testing u or wants to drive u away or simply telling u the truth.but be true to urself.if u want kids and he cant agree to getting another sperm do it for u,then let it go.

Re: Should I Marry A Man With A Low Sperm Count? by josite: 9:25am On Oct 07, 2016

omololagirl:
please dont quit...i can help u out on this matter by seeing a specialist on ur husband to b case...if u dont mind...DR TOJU +234 803 558 3806

that is dr toju in summary.somebody that study marketing is now a fertility specialsist on nairaland.lol

Director at Nature Plus Lawn Care & Irrigation
Leader/Trainer at BF Suma
Studied Marketting at LAGOS STATE UNIVERSITY (LASU)
Went to Community High School
Lives in Lagos, Nigeria
Married to Precious Toju Ukusanjuya
From Warri, Nigeria

Re: Should I Marry A Man With A Low Sperm Count? by Nobody: 10:04am On Oct 07, 2016

JerryTemi:
Speak to God in prayers,He can change everything I mean it.locate winners and sow a seed on this.

What rubbish!!!!!

Locate winners? Sow a seed?

STOP MOCKING GOD. SO SOWING SEED NOW SCATTERS GOD'S HEAD OR BRIBES HIM TO START PERFORMING MIRACLES.

WHATTTTTTTT RUBBBBIIIISSSSSHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!

Re: Should I Marry A Man With A Low Sperm Count? by Eesha: 10:07am On Oct 07, 2016

FERTILITY BLEND. It is encouraged to use double dose for first 1 or 2 months then switch to single dose. You might not hit 5 months before scoring

gentleagu:

Madam. Plz share your med

Re: Should I Marry A Man With A Low Sperm Count? by Nobody: 6:55pm On Oct 07, 2016

finestcholatey:
I am planning my wedding with the love of my life , and he just made it known to me that he can't father a child , so I don't know if I should go ahead with the wedding , or call it quit with him, I need advice

[b]Nairaland has turned to a lobby for kids with no fvking life experiences, Just because they have access to the internet they come here and post all sorts of rubbish in the name of remedies (what is Akamu angry

) . Listen dear, low sperm count is a term for low sperm volume in general. If you really love him like you said you need to understand what your getting yourself into, low sperm count get grades, some could be temporal as a result of wrong medications, poor diet or even smoking. Some could be permanent as a result of tesculer damage, inactive pituitary gland etc. Forget all these religious dogma you read here, only you will feel the loneliness in that house. Your husband loves you and can't watch you cry all day wishing you had kids, the worse is the society will point fingers at you not your husband. The best I suggest you do is take him to see a doctor and find out how bad his case is. If olegospermia or azospermia it's bad already, further test could review the cause if hypogondaism secondary or primary. Possible solutions that could help are HCG monotherapy injections alone or HCG monotherapy with TRT, TRT alone could decline his sperm count even further but will boost his sexual performance significantly. The truth is you can get lucky and have one child from him, this could take years and I mean decades or luck might smile at you few years after your wedding or never at all. But be warned if you can't accept adoption keep off, if you are too emotional keep off, if he is not financially capable of trying ivf over and over keep off. The choice is yours don't blame anyone after reading this. [/b]

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Re: Should I Marry A Man With A Low Sperm Count? by Nobody: 7:55pm On Oct 07, 2016

mandax:
Yes.
Low sperm count is no reason to leave the man if you truly love him.

All that your eggs need is just one of the millions of sperm he ejaculates to make you pregnant.

If he is unable to impregnate you, all that is needed is a medic collecting his sperm - which can easily be collected - and inject them into your fallopian tubes to fertilize your egg.

There are cases so bad no sperm can be collected and a sperm donor would be required.

Re: Should I Marry A Man With A Low Sperm Count? by gentleagu(m): 7:32am On Oct 09, 2016

Eesha:
FERTILITY BLEND. It is encouraged to use double dose for first 1 or 2 months then switch to single dose. You might not hit 5 months before scoring

Thank you

Re: Should I Marry A Man With A Low Sperm Count? by makelove2m(m): 9:34am On Oct 12, 2016

Akinz0126:

Bro are you very sure Banana'll work?cause some one close to me also has same problem

Very sure, banana and ground nuts........... have you ever ask this simple question, how do you think the northerners manager with manages wives and still remain strong, vibrant and as well active in the performances

Re: Should I Marry A Man With A Low Sperm Count? by makelove2m(m): 9:44am On Oct 12, 2016

jfroyale:

Like how many weeks..?

Avoid se'x for 21 days a must and ensure you eat matured banana and groundnut at least once or more a week for the three weeks, preferable on Fridays only. that means you eat thrice for the three weeks, avoid any form of smoking, hard drugs, hot bath after this go and chjeck your sperm count, you will be surprise to hit millions, this is true and reliable

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