jabojafa:
am nt sure he met dt. He wz only stating a church he is sure God is and his faith can be fired up to produce his desired miracle. Moreover Living Faith Church Aka Winners Chapel doesnt need any advert for ppl to come. Remember d eagles will always gather wher d carcas are. Sheep wud always lie whr dey see green pasture. And winner chapel is one of such becos God of Wonder Double is still with us.

Dont be a slave to religion, God is in every other church besides what does church have to do with this. Even if he will revert to the church isn't it only sane for him to seek medical care first. This is how some churches encourage diseases at early stages to become chronic or encourage spread of communicable diseases by delaying people in churches instead of referring them to specialists.

Irreplaceable48:
Sis, u did nt have to be specific bout d church; Winners is nt d only Place where God answers prayers!!!

Who told you that ?

my dear sister do not quite ur wedding u can still help him,just tell him to start eating banana and grounut, water melon, coconbar, and avoid taking sweet tins also to avoid excess love making wit all dis u will see De other side of him.

makelove2m:
That can be treated, if only he agrees to submit his self to medical doctors, better still, Bananas and groundnuts may do wonders........... new research from my newly invented lab, not joking , this is real, no sex for weeks of treatment,

Bro are you very sure Banana'll work?cause some one close to me also has same problem

Having a low sperm count does not mean (completely) inability to father a child. The quantity of the sperm wasn't just enough for reproduction. Let him visit a doctor for a possible solution and stop portraying it as if it's a zero sperm case. Go to God in prayers too. God still listen to prayers

Who says a man with low sperm count can't father a child? As long as he produces sperm no matter how little he can the only problem is that it might be by IVF.

Dyt:


You mean you are sure if the tables were to turn
He would leave?
And you say he loves you?


The things I read on NL is amazing

Sisisioge
What do you say?

I already advised that she marries him. Low sperm count is not a death sentence neither is it a no-baby sentence. They might still go on to have babies albeit expensive. By the way, once they have gotten all the babies they want via fertility treatment options, she won't have to bother about family planning. They could go on with the whole dance jamboree without a care in the world! It would terribly hurt if the tables were turned and the guy is asking this question.

finestcholatey:
I am planning my wedding with the love of my life , and he just made it known to me that he can't father a child , so I don't know if I should go ahead with the wedding , or call it quit with him, I need advice

the love of ur life has no duplicate...that condition myt just be to test ur faith in God and ur man. Go ahead girl.

neocortex:


Who told you that ?

be ye not dcvd...winners ain't d only church SCOAN, RCCG, MFM, ASG, Christ Embassy, Deeper Life, GNMC bassa, Dunamis....... d list is endless

JerryTemi:
Speak to God in prayers,He can change everything I mean it.locate winners and sow a seed on this.

Why must it be winners?

Is his family aware of this predicament ?. If yes good there will be no pressure. They will support you in working it out. If no, i agree God is a miracle worker but when the pressure comes you will blame yourself. Tell both families and then look for solution. Good luck to you.

Dshocker:



Winners dey sell sperm

Guy ur wicked o.

VikingsOO7:

I totally agree with this. Don't make any decision based on some silly love fantasy. You've got facts. He cant father a child. Can You live with the possibility of not having a child of Your own?
If yes... Safe journey.

Low sperm count is LOW sperm count,NOT INFERTILITY.
A drop of sperm has about a 1 million sperm cells,each capable of fertilising an egg.
He should see a doctor,can't consult on nairaland.

Don't leave him because he had low sperm issue.
You should leave him if he is not ready for solutions i mean mefication solutions.
Life stly changes and the right meals can help.
Check my blog for some health solutions
www.yourhealthandmy..com

southernbelle:

My dear, you are so right.
If it had been the woman who admitted to a man that she has no womb, the man will most likely call it quits immediately however this is where you need to evaluate how much you love him.
Of course, you can pray but if it comes down to adopting a child since you can't have your own, will you be comfortable?
You should also consider his emotions before you make your decisions like if you decide to call it off for example, hope he won't harm himself?
Just take out time to really think this through, okay?
God is your strength.
Goodluck.

Huh your comparism is flawed! have no womb is equivalent to a guy being sterile. low sperm count isn't same as being sterile. haba na y'all should at least google before posting

Please I'mm not concerned about church..I'm bothered that people thing God dwells in a building. God is OMNISCIENT and OMNIPOTENT he knows all and will do all things in his set time.

You saying God is in winners is poor reasoning cos God cannot be caged to a particular church. God is everywhere and I do not have to attend a particular church to receive God's blessing.

jabojafa:
am nt sure he met dt. He wz only stating a church he is sure God is and his faith can be fired up to produce his desired miracle. Moreover Living Faith Church Aka Winners Chapel doesnt need any advert for ppl to come. Remember d eagles will always gather wher d carcas are. Sheep wud always lie whr dey see green pasture. And winner chapel is one of such becos God of Wonder Double is still with us.

Maybe winning sperm

Dshocker:



Winners dey sell sperm

if you love him go on with the marriage there are many health options today for that even the case of a woman with womb problems her eggs are taken husbands sperm taken and fertilized in a conducive artificial environment till 9months and the child has genes of both father and mother dont let ignorance rob you of joy

Low sperm count is 100% curable,there are good medications that can boost his sperm before the wedding date,so many of it. am talking from experience.

https://www.nairaland.com/3241579/husband-refused-get-cure-low-sperm#47771649

*modified* cos OP knows what she wants to do already. May God make your TTC journey easy and short.

finestcholatey:
I am planning my wedding with the love of my life , and he just made it known to me that he can't father a child , so I don't know if I should go ahead with the wedding , or call it quit with him, I need advice

Nice info. alot of persons in ur shoes wont b bold to share wit people cos of shame. See, go to a Catholic Church that has a 'Pax Herbal' shop in it. Tell dem to give u ferilos and some oda drugs for solid and thick sperm and u ll c the miracle. i suggested same to my friend, he tot it was nothing. today the guy is a father and still aiming corect goals. Try it and back it up wit prayers.

What is the specific problem? Impotence or low sperm count, Low sperm count can be rectified as long as he didnt sell his kongi for money.

How did u know that your husband to be has got low sperm count?? Ehhh tinager

hmmmm, so what some of you guys say is that , if its has been the other way round, you will not stay with the woman,

I bring this issue to nairaland , cause of the story of a Lady I read sometimes ago at the front-page , where she admits to her boyfriend of her past mistakes , and the guy condemned her for it , and was also kicked out of the relationship just like that....., I believe there should also be means of her giving birth too, but how many can men stand the test of time with a woman .

Its a good thing he opened up to you. It can be cured anyway, i wonder what caused his. Its up to you though just make a good decision.

Low sperm count doesn't spell infertility/inability to father a child. Its like every normal ailments like arthritis, dysmenorrhea, cardiovascular defects etc. And the truth is all these ailments have one thing in common; depletion of Glutathione in our Cells. Science has advanced today that almost all chronic ailments can be adequately managed and you can indeed raise your quality of life.

While I can't decide what you decide to do with respect to marrying him or not, I strongly advice you go for options that can improve his condition and get medical reports to affirm this. This link will prove helpful http://www.countboost.com/how-it-works.html

Boosting cellular Glutathione levels has been the main stay of managing & treating associated ailments caused by damaging free radicals, which is implicated in Low sperm count.

I can guarantee you that he will see markedly improvement in weeks to three months max, if the right glutathione enhancing supplement is taken and at the right dose. The revolutionary medical technology for enhancing glutathione in our cells is called RiboCeine®, which is combination of naturally occurring sugar and amino acid in our body. Its natural and free of synthetic chemicals. Do more research on it and I believe this will help and prayer to make right decisions too cannot be ignored. I wish you all the best.Pharm Lamina Afolabi

JerryTemi:
Speak to God in prayers,He can change everything I mean it.locate winners and sow a seed on this.

NIGERIANS,PEOPLE, COME AND SEE THE REASON WHY PASTORS KEEP GETTING RICHER AND RICHER WHILE THE ECONOMY KEEPS GETTING POORER AND POORER,IDPS IN DIFFERENT PARTS OF THE COUNTRY ARE GETTING HUNGRIER because THESE PEOPLE THINK BY PACKING EVERYTHING TO CHURCH {PASTOR} GOD WILL GIVE YOU ANYTHING YOU WANT EVEN SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS.and when the americans shun the church to go and greet sultan you guys will complain, and when Muslims are helping each other, the next thing you hear is islamising Nigeria. "locate winners..so seed" no wonder, may be thats what gej was doing "sowing seed" you are mocking us all with this selfish ideology of "sowing seed"

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My dear, you are so right.
If it had been the woman who admitted to a man that she has no womb, the man will most likely call it quits immediately. Madam when u want to suggest a solution to a problem jst do so wit all ur heart instead of bringin up an irrelevant issue up.anywayz if i wer u @ op its all up to u if u want to countinue wit d wedding or nt.and wat eva dcision u make make sure u dnt regret it on d long run cos trust me dear it wuldn't be easy.nd alwayz know deriz natin like impossible with God.so...do wah u want nd dnt regret it.gudluck anywayz.

finestcholatey:
I am planning my wedding with the love of my life , and he just made it known to me that he can't father a child , so I don't know if I should go ahead with the wedding , or call it quit with him, I need advice

If u love someone and u really want to be with him I see no reason why a low sperm count should make u rethink.Nigeria is highly populated.....God wil make his sperm count after the recession

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See advert o....sorry!Evangelism

It is work first and pray towards it. So please don't mislead the guy with your over religious.

JerryTemi:
Speak to God in prayers,He can change everything I mean it.locate winners and sow a seed on this.

cuteralph101:
be ye not dcvd...winners ain't d only church SCOAN, RCCG, MFM, ASG, Christ Embassy, Deeper Life, GNMC bassa, Dunamis....... d list is endless

My earlier post wasn't about the number of churches that exist.
Please check again.