Hi Bella, your blog is really nice; it took a lot of courage for me to send this email.

So it happened that the person my friend is married to now was once my lover, we weren’t really serious but we had fun together a couple of times before I left for the states.

But before I left we started developing feelings for each other and promised to keep in touch, when I got to the states I decided to forget about him.

I got back a couple of months ago and wanted us to hookup, I didn’t even know he was married and not just married but to a friend, we have met, nothing’s happened yet, but I feel guilty each time I get to hangout with them, I feel my friend should know I used to sleep with her husband or what do you think?



Talk2Bella



No honey your friend doesn’t need to know anything, and the best thing to do for yourself and your friend with her husband is to distance yourself far from them as possible.


It’s obvious you still have feelings for this man, why do you want to torture yourself by hanging out with them? Seeing him all the time and reminiscing on the past? You’re just hurting yourself and one day spoil your friend’s marriage.


I am sure you have other friends, even unmarried ones, hang out with them, forget about this man and his wife who happens to be your friend, move on, and find someone else or something else to keep your mind busy.


Lingering on is just going to spoil things for you both, you once had something that wasn’t just a fling, being around him is going to arouse those feelings and he might cheat on his wife with you, and he definitely won’t leave her for you, so honey the same courage it took you to send me this email, apply it to your self-esteem and leave alright?


Good luck.

http://www.talk2bella.com/2016/10/do-i-tell-my-friend-i-had-affair-with.html

The best advice is what you've given her @Op..

There's no need whatsoever to spill, let it just remain in the past. Unless she now wants to put asunder ooo and pour sand in her friends garri otherwise i can't fathom why she would contemplate such in the first place.

My 50 kobo.

Got no fvcking time Bella am on mah duty dis night.......

#military

Lol I think u"v posted dis before

tell and wait for consequences

talk2bella cn lie ehn

Cutehector:
Lol I think u"v posted dis before

Nah

finalboss1:
talk2bella cn lie ehn

I de learn where u de

Realhommie:
The best advice is what you've given her @Op..

There's no need whatsoever to spill, let it just remain in the past. Unless she now wants to put asunder ooo and pour sand in her friends garri otherwise i can't fathom why she would contemplate such in the first place.

My 50 kobo.

Exactly

OK now. Tell your friend. In fact demonstrate d style u guys did on bed to her and scatter d marriage

In case u need to know, its her hubby duty to tell her. She's not supposed to hear it from you. If theyve both being truthful to each other its not supposed to be a problem at all. Many spouses see their past flingmates and still cal each other names like ...my ex, runaway bf, my sweetheart b4 b4... And so on in d presence of their hubbies and wives. And it doesn't cause any issue

If you want to spoil your friend's marriage please by all means go ahead

ItsQuinn:
If you want to spoil your friend's marriage please by all means go ahead

RadicallyBlunt:
OK now. Tell your friend. In fact demonstrate d style u guys did on bed to her.

RadicallyBlunt

Talk2Bella:


I de learn where u de

bella i dnt lie . ..lols

na everybody they talk to you, you be program

finalboss1:
bella i dnt lie . ..lols

Hahahahahah
Indeed

efcc keep following me

She's ur friend and she deserves to know d truth. Go ahead and tell her, if she truly loves her husband she'll forgive him.

What if she finds out from someone else. What would be your defense? The truth would surely turn up some day.

Na wa for you oh! ...enemy of progress

Chrisrare:
She's ur friend and she deserves to know d truth. Go ahead and tell her, if she truly loves her husband she'll forgive him.

Women palaver I'll say shut it and end the friendship with her or distance her. that's what i will likely do . women no dey react normally to this kind things