I noticed that In Nigeria guys are always the one doing the wooing, though is not just about Nigeria i have seeing that outside Nigeri too, but i advice that our guys should  learn to stay back let ladies do this chasing , guys have tried, for many centuries they have been going on the offensive, is time the dynimism is changed, gals should  start the chasing,

To do that is not realy difficult, exbit confidence, self reliance,self respect, contempt,neatness, intelligence,even occosional nonchalancy,give gals hope, assistance and pleasure and withdraw it at its peak, conceal your sexual urge, show her that other girls are crazy for you, insunuate and arouse sexual desire in her and stay back,avoid showing desperation and haste and overbearing willingness to care and always appear good and tasteful in dressing.

Most Nigerian girls are helpless and dependent on men for their welfare and financies, i still wonder why they turn these same men to their slaves,

If you learn to withdraw and stay back, you will be too suprised to see how insecured most of those girls are.


  Playboy*

who send you message? did 9ja men tell u they have any problem being the chaser?? ur post has made not one bit of sense! ger-outt!!

@ Playboy!!! i agree with u, more grease 2 ur elbow ma broda, this is the koko!! i hope guys would learn from this!

Shola2009:

who send you message? did 9ja men tell u they have any problem being the chaser?? your post has made not one bit of sense! ger-outt!!

I am not here to make any sense to you as i do not owe you that, in essence i am here to have fun an nothing more, if you think Nigerian men no send me message ,that is ok, but they should stop their pathetic habit of running to nairaland to cry for help and advice in getting a girl that is dificult or an assistance and idea to bring back an ex and other pathetic complains they bring here.

Any way i just wasted time replying.

So countin, How many gals don woo u so far, u must realy b a fineboy wit kudi.
(Wake up, day don break)

U dont have to be a guy with excess kudi , but rather ur charisma .

I dont think there's anything wrong in trying to toast a guy , but the society is definately against it, a girl has toasted me before because it was obvious i was shy and she knew it .

It wont really work hear in this part of d world our mentality is different 4rm d western world. But i advise guyz should adobt dose strategy nd get galz easily

Count me out of this, the chasing,wooing and toasting is fun, since you have decided to wait for gals to come and woo you, bro,you go old there.

Count me out of this, the chasing,wooing and toasting is fun, since you have decided to wait for gals to come and woo you, bro,you go old there.

You have a point though. But I love the trouble of wooing. I dont value things that comes to me so easily. I have experience the wooing thing from a gal before,but it never last long. I only enjoyed the f**king.

amb_asue:

You have a point though. But I love the trouble of wooing. I dont value things that comes to me so easily. I have experience the wooing thing from a gal before,but it never last long. I only enjoyed the f**king.

abi ooo, spot on!

Guys love the chase.

Ebonyeyes:

Guys love the chase.

Please tell them, Ebonyeyes

amb_asue:

You have a point though. But I love the trouble of wooing. I dont value things that comes to me so easily. I have experience the wooing thing from a gal before,but it never last long. I only enjoyed the f**king.

You can still achieve the same hard dynamism by not giving yourself so easily, it is still the same, i am not actually saying that we should be dormant and too passive, no, that is selfishness, what i am actualing saying is that guys should learn to present themselves in away that gals will stop taking thm for a ride,

Most times when i visit this romance section, i normaly get pissed off and bored by the kind of issues guys bring in here, imagine a guy saying that he has been caring for this girl just for the girl to leave him for another guy, or that he has been asking this girl out for two years now and the girl keep saying no and other pathetic issues they bring here, after reading them i just wonder , Girls they should be playing like card are now the one riding them the way they want,

Ebonyeyes:

Guys love the chase.

Is that why you gals take some of them for a ride ?

Playboy*:

Is that why you gals take some of them for a ride ?

Oga if you want to do it then do it no one is stopping you.

Ebonyeyes:

Guys love the chase.

Not all guys o.

Playboy*:

Is that why you gals take some of them for a ride ?

Could be. But if you have a ride, they'll gladly enter your ride without much talk .

Dr. Lorenz:

Not all guys o.

But most of you guys do.

Ebonyeyes:

But most of you guys do.

Personally i don't, but that doesn't mean that if she does the wooing, i'll treat her badly or won't respect her

Playboy*:

I noticed that In Nigeria guys are always the one doing the wooing, though is not just about Nigeria i have seeing that outside Nigeri too, but i advice that our guys should learn to stay back let ladies do this chasing , guys have tried, for many centuries they have been going on the offensive, is time the dynimism is changed, gals should start the chasing,

Omo where you dey? For where I dey live nah fifty fifty ooo. Both gyals & guys do am nowadays. Welcome to the modern world .

Dr. Lorenz:

Personally i don't, but that doesn't mean that if she does the wooing, i'll treat her badly or won't respect her

Thats you personally other guys here and in real life have said otherwise.

Ebonyeyes:

Thats you personally other guys here and in real life have said otherwise.

Thank you for agreeing. . .dats 10 points for me already . That's y am not among the "other guys' but these guys.

Its just you doing you I guess.

Ebonyeyes:

Its just you doing you I guess.

Yea thats me

I am sorry for not been around to talk issues on this thread, i was banned because of tpia, i have requested Mukina to unban my Playboy* ID, once this is done ,  i will start commenting on the thread and properly address issues here , i can see some  people got silly and started misunderstanding the idea of this thread.

great post,
@ poster, spoken like a true great man (udeme)
@ first replier, losers like u belong in posts strictly for females

kpolli:

great post,
@ poster, spoken like a true great man (udeme)
@ first replier, losers like u belong in posts strictly for females

Thanks, u need not mind what people actually say over the net, it is as a result of Lack of censorship , it is natural for some silly guys to always want to feel among even if it will require them to talk and act senselessly .

once my Playboy* ID is unbanned, i will continue commenting to bring out the real lesson i want to teach some guys about ladies, so they can learn how to get ladies easily and have a great relationship and fun.