Sex is important in a relationship,sex makes a relationship fun and exciting. Sex creates a romantic bond between two people, sex is beautiful. It speaks even without any word being spoken, it is magical. I can go on and on regarding sex but…..

Sex shouldn’t be a prerequisite to a relationship. It has become so crazy lately that what most guys look for in a relationship is sex, whether the lady is sexually active or not. Sometimes I ask a lot of guys to justify the reasonability of their decisions when they clamor for outright sex and they claim that sex shows a sense of devotion and intimacy between parties involved in ‘Roman’Dating’.

I am particularly concerned in this world now where almost everyone think the main crux of a relationship is sex. Where what is expected of a lady is to have sex with her partner at will and same is even expected of men too. It is so bad and heart wrenching.

I personally believe there are and can be sex free relationships irrespective of the pressure evidenced all around us. It is wrong for a guy to think it is his right to be sexually served by his girlfriend or the girl believe she is so very active that she needs to have sex every other day

Gone are the days when most people stand on their principle of no sex till marriage but now, ‘who celibacy epp’ is the latest jingle on everyone’s lips. The most annoying thing is when one partner breaks up because the other party refuses to indulge in premarital sex or worse still check for sexual compatibility.

Sex is good, trust me, but it leads to a lot of complications when it is not done at the right time. Sex should be consensual, not enforced. You need to understand what your partner wants and be ready to give it a go when he/she is ready or when not

http://deedeesblog.com/2016/10/05/sex-important/

Boring AF

Abeg!

You're on point.

And tomorrow u will go to church and read Bible too. Oniranu. Premarital sex is a sin

ednut1:
And tomorrow u will go to church and read Bible too. Oniranu. Premarital sex is a sin

You don sneak enter my thread abi?

Agbaya Oshi!

Thanks @ op. Sex is not a prerequisite for love... I just wish we can start all over from the beginning, when all these things were not acceptable... and when done, done in secret and left there. Now we celebrate "Baby mama and Baby dada"

We ladies should stop putting ourselves in situations where we "just" have to compomise. The men also should learn to appreciate a lady's decision.

#Gracias

Savvy2:
Thanks @ op. Sex is not a prerequisite for love... I just wish we can start all over from the beginning, when all these things were not acceptable... and when done, done in secret and left there. Now we celebrate "Baby mama and Baby dada"

We ladies should stop putting ourselves in situations where we "just" have to compomise. The men also should learn to appreciate a lady's decision.

#Gracias

Believe me ma'am....It is very true we hope for things to go back to the way they were, but it is really difficult now. People celebrate sex as if it is a must in every relationship. But then, I believe sex must not be pressured, it must be consensual. While I would not preach total abstinence, I would say in a world of ours, we need to thread delicately in issues bothering on sex and the need for it to be consensual and not pressured!

Thanks a lot for your comment!

necosla016:
Well said op!

I hope my people of today will always understand that relationship is not all about S3X

deturla:


While I would not preach total abstinence, I would say in a world of ours, we need to thread delicately in issues bothering on sex and the need for it to be consensual and not pressured!

Thanks a lot for your comment!

Yes... wonderful point.
You're welcome