Everyone's not lucky to start big. I remember my then boyfriend now hubby's room. His room wasn't dirty like this one but he had just the bed and a chair. No electronic gadgets may be just his guitar and keyboard but thank goodness I stayed. It's a 360 degree turnaround now. Story don Change! Many girls are not patient to endure. l don't blame them for their decisions though, different strokes for different folks but mine paid off.