what do I do?i have spent money preparing for the wedding

marry her frnd

What happened?

don't have time for bad news...

What should you do?.
Okay holdup... Why is she opting out?.
Walking out of a wedding that has been planned for is a very critical decision that couldn't have been easier for her as well.

No one is a victim here. We should all look out for our own lives right? She is looking out for hers.

Just don't force the marriage.

livyhorsy:
what do I do?i have spent money preparing for the wedding

Since you have brought this issue here, why not spill the beans here.

What exactly happened?

How did you offend her to make her change her mind?


Or was it a case of falling out of love with you?

Provide enough details....

she said she saw my chat with ladies and she do had a dream where we divorced

livyhorsy:
what do I do?i have spent money preparing for the wedding

Just commit suicide, kill yourself or die

My brother, a failed relationship is better than a failed marriage.
Just count your losses and move on for life has more for you than you have experienced.
Hard luck

My brother, In all situation, jst keep thanking your GOD.


a wedding plan in which she walk away is far far better than a broken marriage.

pls jst over look the spending and thank your GOD.

you never knw the plan she have for you, if eventually the wedding take place.

probably your life might never remain the same after the wedding. frustrations, anger will not be your portion

livyhorsy:
she said she saw my chat with ladies and she do had a dream where we divorced

does this mean that you are still seeing other ladies?

What is/are the content of the messages she saw in your phone? Are they lewd messages with other ladies?

If your answer to the above questions is Yes, then my friend, she has the right to call off the wedding.

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Pathetic!

Why do people often think marriage is the end of it? Marriage is just the beginning and if she can't deal with your cheating ways (chatting up random girls online) while you guys are courting, how do you think she will be able to cope after you guys get married. Straighten your ways my friend. Besides, a broken courtship is better than a broken marriage

livyhorsy:
what do I do?i have spent money preparing for the wedding

Tell her "okay"... Delete her number... Don't ever call her (If she calls, dont talk like you care), dont chat her up, or visit her again... Tell your people that you have postponed the wedding... If that your fiance loves you, she will come back begging after 3 weeks of silence from you... If she doesn't, start a new relationship and cancel the wedding... You are a man, therefore don't beg for love.

livyhorsy pls answer Uboma's ques