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Re: Advice Needed, My Fiancee Removes Our Engagement Ring by Tolexander: 1:12pm On Oct 23, 2016
ezehisaac:

Thanks for your wonderful contributions. I must confess, I'm inspired.
you are welcome bro!
Re: Advice Needed, My Fiancee Removes Our Engagement Ring by Richiy(f): 1:23pm On Oct 23, 2016
ezehisaac:


I Think she's your kind of person, she sees her friends wearing them and shows them to me. But when I buy them for her, they would end up becoming inventories.

Women are just what they are. undecided

Don't mind us, my brother. Just find the one you can manage her wahala and the one that can manage your own wahala.

Abi? grin
Re: Advice Needed, My Fiancee Removes Our Engagement Ring by firstking01(m): 1:26pm On Oct 23, 2016
And who told you that engagement ring is a symbol of loveundecided…nigerians and erroneous conclusion....and btw, it seems you are forcing her to always wear the ring...this is why i included in one of my thread that there's nothing like engagement in the bible...


Only God knows for how long you 've put her in that imprisonment called "engagement"...atleast she's wise by always removing the ring and keeping her options open cos tomorrow you might ditch her...

Marry her at once or she will continue to keep her options open and i support her on this.
Re: Advice Needed, My Fiancee Removes Our Engagement Ring by nagodesmile18(f): 1:31pm On Oct 23, 2016
Tolexander:
you are welcome bro!
egbon miii ooo
Re: Advice Needed, My Fiancee Removes Our Engagement Ring by Tolexander: 1:39pm On Oct 23, 2016
nagodesmile18:
egbon miii ooo
lol! Aw u dey jare?
Re: Advice Needed, My Fiancee Removes Our Engagement Ring by nagodesmile18(f): 1:43pm On Oct 23, 2016
Tolexander:
lol! Aw u dey jare?
I dey fyn oooo...patiently waiting for 4pm
Re: Advice Needed, My Fiancee Removes Our Engagement Ring by Tolexander: 1:48pm On Oct 23, 2016
nagodesmile18:
I dey fyn oooo...patiently waiting for 4pm
oh that one?

I no even get time for am.
dem go draw nani jare.
Re: Advice Needed, My Fiancee Removes Our Engagement Ring by nagodesmile18(f): 1:50pm On Oct 23, 2016
Tolexander:
oh that one?
I no even get time for am. dem go draw nani jare.
na HT draw
Re: Advice Needed, My Fiancee Removes Our Engagement Ring by ezehisaac(m): 4:01pm On Oct 23, 2016
firstking01:
And who told you that engagement ring is a symbol of loveundecided…nigerians and erroneous conclusion....and btw, it seems you are forcing her to always wear the ring...this is why i included in one of my thread that there's nothing like engagement in the bible...


Only God knows for how long you 've put her in that imprisonment called "engagement"...atleast she's wise by always removing the ring and keeping her options open cos tomorrow you might ditch her...

Marry her at once or she will continue to keep her options open and i support her on this.

Calm down jare, the ring in question was just bought in June. I was even planning to do that by December but she wouldn't allow me.
Re: Advice Needed, My Fiancee Removes Our Engagement Ring by Originalsly: 5:11pm On Oct 23, 2016
Bro.... maybe she just doesn't like the ring. She kept showing you her friends ' rings on fb.... most likely the rings she love... did you ever pay attention?...maybe she likes big rings...mainly gold.. and you bought small diamond ring. She is about the look... you are about the value.. not on the same page. You see upset not mainly because she doesn't wear it...but because of the cost... if it were not expensive I doubt you would be here.
My only advice.... is to ask her if she doesn't wear the engagement ring... why should you believe she would wear the married ring.
Re: Advice Needed, My Fiancee Removes Our Engagement Ring by Annie939(f): 5:31pm On Oct 23, 2016
engagement ring doesn't make sense to her maybe she is tired of wearing it, just give her wedding ring
Re: Advice Needed, My Fiancee Removes Our Engagement Ring by ElsonMorali: 5:43pm On Oct 23, 2016
ezehisaac:


My man, no be lie o.

This is a true story.

BTW, it's past 2pm here. I don't know why you're still telling me to go to church again. shocked

Please start preparing yourself for a spectacular heartbreak. Seems she isn't that much I to you and probably just enduring her association with you.

Ladies that I know and have met actually can't stop flaunting their rings at we hapless bachelors.

They flaunt it online (posing with their hand positioned like person wey get crooked hand just in a bid to make sure the camera catches the ring) and offline (probably waving their hand close to your nose If you do not get their subtle hints).

I don't think she really wants to be married to you and it's best you sit her down and discuss this before you go on.

Tell her If she doesn't wear the ring the engagement is over. Simple.

There's a reason why we give our girls engagement ring. It's to mark our territory. To tell other guys that this here is a no-go area, keep off! Etc.
Re: Advice Needed, My Fiancee Removes Our Engagement Ring by rosieluv(f): 6:02pm On Oct 23, 2016
engrelvis:
@op.yr fiancee is deceiving u.this is nt issue of nt liking jewelries.is symbolic.she is nt serious.except their r other issues.a woman DT loves u will put on yr ring.
i simply agree with you,if she loves him,she will put it on irrespective of the fact that she doesnt like jewelries
Re: Advice Needed, My Fiancee Removes Our Engagement Ring by Titilayooni(f): 6:05pm On Oct 23, 2016
ezehisaac:
Hello Nairalanders, I need an urgent advice.

My fiancee will never wear her engagement ring. Each time I asked why she'd either say she forgot or could not find it.

This had lingered to an extent that I threatened to give it to another person, that was the only time she wore it consistently for some time and stopped again.

When I tried finding out why she always removes it from her finger for the first place, she said she doesn't want it to wear out. But this is a special ring I picked for her in an exclusive malasyian mall, diamond for that matter.

Just this morning, I was looking for something in my drawer and I saw the ring. When I asked her what the ring was doing there, she claimed that she's been looking for it for ages.

I don't know what to do right now!

Mind you, this lady loves me and would do anything for us to be together. And that's exactly what confuses me.

Though I bought the ring very costly, but that's not the issue. The issue is that I want to always see her wearing the ring everywhere and at all times, because in my opinion, it is the symbol of love.

Please advise me, ma good pipu?
U just wan turn the babe to lord of the rings abi,instead of you to do the needful...so one guy would just put one ring asking me to rock around abi,,na so now....guy wife the babe and stop disturbing ur head
Re: Advice Needed, My Fiancee Removes Our Engagement Ring by Tolexander: 7:19pm On Oct 23, 2016
nagodesmile18:
na HT draw
Na God talk sey make I no watch am. lol
Re: Advice Needed, My Fiancee Removes Our Engagement Ring by Zirah: 9:15pm On Oct 23, 2016
I'm a woman. I can tell you certainly that she doesn't love you like you think she does. She's bound to leave you.

ezehisaac:
Hello Nairalanders, I need an urgent advice.

My fiancee will never wear her engagement ring. Each time I asked why she'd either say she forgot or could not find it.

This had lingered to an extent that I threatened to give it to another person, that was the only time she wore it consistently for some time and stopped again.

When I tried finding out why she always removes it from her finger for the first place, she said she doesn't want it to wear out. But this is a special ring I picked for her in an exclusive malasyian mall, diamond for that matter.

Just this morning, I was looking for something in my drawer and I saw the ring. When I asked her what the ring was doing there, she claimed that she's been looking for it for ages.

I don't know what to do right now!

Mind you, this lady loves me and would do anything for us to be together. And that's exactly what confuses me.

Though I bought the ring very costly, but that's not the issue. The issue is that I want to always see her wearing the ring everywhere and at all times, because in my opinion, it is the symbol of love.

Please advise me, ma good pipu?

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