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Re: My 29-Year-Old Fiancee Wants To Dump Me by Mypeople2(m): 9:56pm On Oct 26, 2016 |
My friend,if she wants to leave,allow her. There are so many ladies out there that are ready to wait for you.Pls forget those trash of " suitors are coming for her ".Na trash be that.Leave her and let's see if she will get married in one year.All na wash! Na today? 1 Like |
Re: My 29-Year-Old Fiancee Wants To Dump Me by NwaKanu: 10:00pm On Oct 26, 2016 |
From what I read, it seems like YOU ARE NOT READY YET and there's nothing wrong with that. The decision to marry is a CONTRACT between TWO LIKE MINDED people. If your gut instincts is telling you to wait, then wait and let her go. The last thing you want to do is marry and have your feels hurts or your ego bruised because you don't make enough money to support your family. Many "poor" people marry all the time and live happily ever after. If you don't marry with absolute peace of mind, your marriage will be in trouble even before it starts. My two kobo. 2 Likes |
Re: My 29-Year-Old Fiancee Wants To Dump Me by Jewelbaby01(f): 10:03pm On Oct 26, 2016 |
Hmmmm, bros, are you fear fear? Am sure you're a christian? What happens to "he that finds a wife finds a good thing?" Well, here's my testimony. I met my hubby when he was earning just 50k a month, as the first son of the family he had several responsibilities, the money could barely feed him and his family in a month, but he was ready to settle down, at the same time he was scared. I kept on encouraging and challenging him, it may just be the devils little trick to delay your destiny, wake up and take the bull by the horn. It wasn't easy, but with prayers and encouragement, he decided to proceed with the wedding. As at when we started the plans, he had nothing in his account. About 2 months to our wedding, he received a call from a friend, and that's how a miracle job came, without interview. He was just asked a few questions on phone and the next thing we knew, he was called to come pick up his appointment letter. My hubby emptied his account for our wedding, and less than a month after our wedding, he had close to million naira sitting in his account, in less than 3 months, my sweet sweet hubby bought me a car. And just last week, we attended a seminar where there was a raffle draw and I won us a plot of land. We got married on the 16th of April this year. Is God not wonderful? There are many other things I wouldn't want to bore you with. So, I would advice that first, you follow your heart. But on the other hand, if you know you really don't wanna loose that lady, then get married ASAP. Stop giving excuses, the most important thing should be that you both love and understand eachother like crazy and can cohabit or live together as husband and wife for as long as Jesus tarries to come. Trust me, everything will fall in place, just leave the rest to God. All the best. 7 Likes |
Re: My 29-Year-Old Fiancee Wants To Dump Me by daclemx: 10:11pm On Oct 26, 2016 |
yusufogrin: I do not normally comment on post but I want to advice u...If u wait till u will have money, when the money comes u will find it hard to see a girl that has all the qualities she posses..bro..I think she likes u..and to crown it all, she even know ur financial status...wait...u wan be dangote before u marry? my friend..if u love her..then get her....he who finds a wife has found a good thing and will obtain favor from God.....a word is enough... 1 Like |
Re: My 29-Year-Old Fiancee Wants To Dump Me by scachy(m): 10:18pm On Oct 26, 2016 |
People get married for love and get divorced because love isn't just enough. A word is enough for a wise. 3 Likes |
Re: My 29-Year-Old Fiancee Wants To Dump Me by Nobody: 10:25pm On Oct 26, 2016 |
Try and get her pregnant. Thank me later |
Re: My 29-Year-Old Fiancee Wants To Dump Me by crowntoro(f): 10:26pm On Oct 26, 2016 |
EastGold:That's you bro, what works for A might not work for B? 1 Like |
Re: My 29-Year-Old Fiancee Wants To Dump Me by olushowunm(m): 10:28pm On Oct 26, 2016 |
maxwell60:Thanks. 1 Like |
Re: My 29-Year-Old Fiancee Wants To Dump Me by Codyt(m): 10:28pm On Oct 26, 2016 |
Yieldings:You took words from my mouth man! Op. Let her go! 1 Like |
Re: My 29-Year-Old Fiancee Wants To Dump Me by fufuNegusi(m): 10:32pm On Oct 26, 2016 |
Dear Op !! This is also my opinion... may God direct you Yieldings: 1 Like |
Re: My 29-Year-Old Fiancee Wants To Dump Me by Eibams60(m): 10:39pm On Oct 26, 2016 |
God purnish u aswear |
Re: My 29-Year-Old Fiancee Wants To Dump Me by nnaemekanwachuk(m): 10:40pm On Oct 26, 2016 |
bros follow your insticts beacuse if we give you advice now it may back fire tommorow and we might be not there.. you only said part of the story |
Re: My 29-Year-Old Fiancee Wants To Dump Me by Antoeni(m): 10:44pm On Oct 26, 2016 |
Lofy u messed up honestly u started well, but end so poorly |
Re: My 29-Year-Old Fiancee Wants To Dump Me by Phabulous4(m): 10:49pm On Oct 26, 2016 |
Reading all the comment above, I'm confused rather than been convince. b'cause both side of the matter were well arguably pointed out. Sure ops will feel almost the same way! Whatever you choose bro, I just wish you best of Luck! Watch and pray... Feel for you brother. |
Re: My 29-Year-Old Fiancee Wants To Dump Me by thorpido(m): 10:56pm On Oct 26, 2016 |
buchilino:I know one has to be sure of a woman's maturity in cases like this before embarking on the journey but I'm sure Op can tell where she lies. |
Re: My 29-Year-Old Fiancee Wants To Dump Me by Nobody: 11:03pm On Oct 26, 2016 |
maxwell60: Next time try to connect your head with your brain before you quote me. Okay? |
Re: My 29-Year-Old Fiancee Wants To Dump Me by jclassiq(m): 11:06pm On Oct 26, 2016 |
EastGold:bros u must be a yoloba man cos only a yoloba man can attempt this thing u wrote. 1 Like |
Re: My 29-Year-Old Fiancee Wants To Dump Me by sekem: 11:13pm On Oct 26, 2016 |
Let her go. For the good of both of you. I don't just know why most of you niggaz have scarcity mentality when it comes to women. Guy, women plenty everywhere! Please don't ever make that terrible mistake of allowing a woman box you into a corner. She's desperate now, that's why she's telling you that you guys can cope. Just wait after the marriage when she must've gotten what she wants and see how the song will change. Women and their myopic nature ehh! She will always blame you for every financial trouble you guys might face. Worst part is that she may not even say it to your face but be sure that all those her friends who are advising her to walk away now will be in your business all thanks to her! You can imagine the kind of coded insult they will be giving you. You will surely become a laughing stock for not being man enough as in not having the financial muscles! Chai! I hope you can cope if it eventually comes to that. I repeat: let her go nowww!!! |
Re: My 29-Year-Old Fiancee Wants To Dump Me by Gguy4real: 11:22pm On Oct 26, 2016 |
bros let me tell you the truth, you don't need a millions of naira before you settle down what matter most is love if she love you and she's ready to accept you the way you are then go on now stop wasting her time pls |
Re: My 29-Year-Old Fiancee Wants To Dump Me by chiraqDemon(m): 11:41pm On Oct 26, 2016 |
She has told u that she understands and is ready to marry u ....bros no dull yasef o |
Re: My 29-Year-Old Fiancee Wants To Dump Me by Malakh: 11:49pm On Oct 26, 2016 |
Most people just giving themselves headache over marriage,the world is over populated, a time of sorrows is coming upon us,yet people wanna marry, dont you read scriptures and epistles,Paul said its good that people be like him for the present distress, Christ said woe to them that give suck in those days,yet people are hung up on marriage, only if you guys knew what the Great tribulation means and how close it is, you'd keep your stuff zipped but like Christ said they were marrying and giving to marriage until the doors were shut, same thing will happen again. |
Re: My 29-Year-Old Fiancee Wants To Dump Me by XaintJoel20: 11:50pm On Oct 26, 2016 |
Yieldings:You nailed it. Like we say in local parlance, ' Marriage no be beans'. 1 Like |
Re: My 29-Year-Old Fiancee Wants To Dump Me by Seunpaul01(m): 11:51pm On Oct 26, 2016 |
blackboot: Ore mi, gbagbe o. Go and marry her fast fast. You don't need any elaborate wedding. Only an elaborate naming ceremony. This is what you've got, a very understanding woman. A woman that believe in you. very intelligent and A true love. No dulling, believe in yourself and boost your self esteem you will get a job. 1 Like |
Re: My 29-Year-Old Fiancee Wants To Dump Me by collinsfhk(m): 12:14am On Oct 27, 2016 |
Ecclesiastes 9:11 I returned, and saw under the sun, that the race is not to the swift, nor the battle to the strong, neither yet bread to the wise, nor yet riches to men of understanding, nor yet favour to men of skill; but time and chance happeneth to them all Be sure not to miss ur time nd ur chance (opportunity). If true luv is there nd she is the right person, u 've no excuse. Proverbs 18:22 Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the LORD. It dosnt matter how much u earn or 've nw, the important thing is cleaving to the right person. Be sure it's luv nd nt lust... Above all, pray for God's guidance (Jer. 33:3). Marriage is far beyong what u feel or see nw Pray! Pray!! Pray!!! |
Re: My 29-Year-Old Fiancee Wants To Dump Me by abidex0z(m): 12:37am On Oct 27, 2016 |
Zirah:you are on point and that issue of finance has to be between the two of em n not discussing with third parties .. 1 Like |
Re: My 29-Year-Old Fiancee Wants To Dump Me by mengho(m): 2:44am On Oct 27, 2016 |
Married life is very expensive, all those BILLS, the KIDS, the GROCERIES, but in your case dis word keeps flashing for my mind "Gigolo" |
Re: My 29-Year-Old Fiancee Wants To Dump Me by Originalsly: 2:50am On Oct 27, 2016 |
blackboot:Bro......this is 2016. When on earth in this never ending hard times would you find a high paying job and have enough to be a real man?...how many more yearssss?...and you want her to be patient?...is her name Job? A good wife is hard to find . ... lucky you but instead of rushing to the altar here you are making shakara. Truth be told.... I think you are one of those guys that feel inferior if your wife earns more than you....and that is your problem. Get over it ...or free up the wife material and let another man wrap himself around it. |
Re: My 29-Year-Old Fiancee Wants To Dump Me by mikolo80: 3:01am On Oct 27, 2016 |
AZeD1:you fit marry woman wen fit no born pikin? Think before you talk |
Re: My 29-Year-Old Fiancee Wants To Dump Me by Nobody: 3:10am On Oct 27, 2016 |
Did you say something? OlajumokeBread: |
Re: My 29-Year-Old Fiancee Wants To Dump Me by AZeD1(m): 3:45am On Oct 27, 2016 |
mikolo80:Have i ever told you i want to have kids? Don't assume everybody wants kids or wants to get married. Think before you talk. |
Re: My 29-Year-Old Fiancee Wants To Dump Me by mikolo80: 3:46am On Oct 27, 2016 |
AZeD1:Everyone wants to have kids Stop deceiving yourself |
Re: My 29-Year-Old Fiancee Wants To Dump Me by AZeD1(m): 3:54am On Oct 27, 2016 |
mikolo80:Yeah right. |
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