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Re: The Step By Step Guide To Being The ‘Perfect’ Daughter-In-Law by Mimzyy(f): 9:38am On Oct 27, 2016 |
For this our Naija abi the western world? Pandorabox: lalasticlala please. thank you. 2 Likes |
Re: The Step By Step Guide To Being The ‘Perfect’ Daughter-In-Law by Mimzyy(f): 9:39am On Oct 27, 2016 |
Dyt: Sisto, no be me oo |
Re: The Step By Step Guide To Being The ‘Perfect’ Daughter-In-Law by Nobody: 9:45am On Oct 27, 2016 |
Mimzyy:like her slave or what? marriage is a union of love not a slavery agreement. Any mother in law that won't like you will definitely not like you no matter what. 3 Likes |
Re: The Step By Step Guide To Being The ‘Perfect’ Daughter-In-Law by Nobody: 9:49am On Oct 27, 2016 |
Mimzyy: We understand ...no worries, take ur time... |
Re: The Step By Step Guide To Being The ‘Perfect’ Daughter-In-Law by Ishilove: 9:51am On Oct 27, 2016 |
Pandorabox:It seems sarcasm is lost on you. The theme of the thread is the unrealistic expectations which some mother-in-laws, and indeed parts of the African society have for women engaged to their sons. This is why 'perfect' in the title is in quotation marks; it underlines the theme. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Step By Step Guide To Being The ‘Perfect’ Daughter-In-Law by carammel(f): 9:53am On Oct 27, 2016 |
Let us stop painting mother in-laws bad,there are very good mother in-laws,easy going and will never interfere with your marriage. 2 Likes |
Re: The Step By Step Guide To Being The ‘Perfect’ Daughter-In-Law by Mimzyy(f): 9:56am On Oct 27, 2016 |
Even after emboldening it in the first post. Ishilove: 2 Likes |
Re: The Step By Step Guide To Being The ‘Perfect’ Daughter-In-Law by Nobody: 9:57am On Oct 27, 2016 |
Ishilove:I'm also being sarcastic 2 Likes |
Re: The Step By Step Guide To Being The ‘Perfect’ Daughter-In-Law by Dyt(f): 9:59am On Oct 27, 2016 |
Ishilove: I didn't know you got irritated too 3 Likes |
Re: The Step By Step Guide To Being The ‘Perfect’ Daughter-In-Law by thorpido(m): 10:22am On Oct 27, 2016 |
Mimzyy:I noticed you went off nairaland but u're back now.Welcome. |
Re: The Step By Step Guide To Being The ‘Perfect’ Daughter-In-Law by Mimzyy(f): 10:24am On Oct 27, 2016 |
thorpido: Yeah. Thank you sir. How's work going? |
Re: The Step By Step Guide To Being The ‘Perfect’ Daughter-In-Law by thorpido(m): 10:26am On Oct 27, 2016 |
Mimzyy:Fine thank God.Hope your side is fine too. 1 Like |
Re: The Step By Step Guide To Being The ‘Perfect’ Daughter-In-Law by Acidosis(m): 10:28am On Oct 27, 2016 |
When my mother comes to stay for a 1 month holiday, everybody lives in peace but When my mother-in-law comes to stay for a 2 week holiday, it becomes a problem. Women, check yourselves. You are your greatest problem! 3 Likes |
Re: The Step By Step Guide To Being The ‘Perfect’ Daughter-In-Law by Mimzyy(f): 10:37am On Oct 27, 2016 |
thorpido: Yeah. Glory be to God. Have a stress free day. |
Re: The Step By Step Guide To Being The ‘Perfect’ Daughter-In-Law by Mimzyy(f): 10:42am On Oct 27, 2016 |
Acidosis: You think wives do not want to be at peace with their MILs? 3 Likes |
Re: The Step By Step Guide To Being The ‘Perfect’ Daughter-In-Law by Acidosis(m): 11:06am On Oct 27, 2016 |
Mimzyy: I think wives should stop reading negative meanings to everything MIL does. Why call for peace when you're not at war? If there isn't any war in spite the frequent calls, gists, etc. between wives and their mothers, there shouldn't be any war between wives and their MILs. Many of you women talk to your mothers on the phone on a daily basis, but when MIL decides to speak with you or his son (on the same daily basis) it becomes a problem: it is either she's a witch trying to figure out everything in the home, or she finds it difficult to let go of her son. Women should learn a lot from men, we don't read terrible meanings to every situations and events. I know a woman who nurtured a terrible hatred towards her MIL just because the woman suggested they spend less on birthday (she suggested drinks with chin-chin, as against the family's plan - jollof rice, meats, etc.). I'm 100% sure there wouldn't be issues if the suggestion came from the mother, a friend, or brother. However, because of the devilish stance against MIL, the wife has been projected and formatted to assume the MIL is against her success. For fck sake, what is wrong in telling someone to spend less on birthdays, especially now that we are in recession? May God deliver you all (Amen). 5 Likes |
Re: The Step By Step Guide To Being The ‘Perfect’ Daughter-In-Law by freecocoa(f): 11:16am On Oct 27, 2016 |
There are good MILS out there, people going about with an already established opinion/mindset about a MIL they never even met, is a huge part of the problem. 4 Likes |
Re: The Step By Step Guide To Being The ‘Perfect’ Daughter-In-Law by OLUWAcypris1(f): 12:20pm On Oct 27, 2016 |
Don bobes whr are u oh, come and c oh, nairaland and false thread are like this |
Re: The Step By Step Guide To Being The ‘Perfect’ Daughter-In-Law by Ishilove: 1:15pm On Oct 27, 2016 |
Pandorabox:Yeah right 2 Likes |
Re: The Step By Step Guide To Being The ‘Perfect’ Daughter-In-Law by Dyt(f): 1:46pm On Oct 27, 2016 |
Re: The Step By Step Guide To Being The ‘Perfect’ Daughter-In-Law by crackhaus: 2:12pm On Oct 27, 2016 |
The earlier some of you girls understand that your man's mother is a woman just like you, the better for you. You will fight men because you say we don't respect you, and still fight a woman like you too - what a way to live. I shake my pot belly for una. |
Re: The Step By Step Guide To Being The ‘Perfect’ Daughter-In-Law by Nobody: 2:39pm On Oct 27, 2016 |
The girl has suffered Mimzyy: |
Re: The Step By Step Guide To Being The ‘Perfect’ Daughter-In-Law by Fkforyou(m): 2:53pm On Oct 27, 2016 |
Acidosis: Chill bro and enjoy the thread. Why so serious? 5 Likes |
Re: The Step By Step Guide To Being The ‘Perfect’ Daughter-In-Law by Fkforyou(m): 2:54pm On Oct 27, 2016 |
Ishilove: That's so mean... |
Re: The Step By Step Guide To Being The ‘Perfect’ Daughter-In-Law by Creamish(f): 3:31pm On Oct 27, 2016 |
Acidosis: Kindly recheck the emboldened and increase the number of women U know of with ur stated example so ur generalized statement would be justified.. What some men need to understand is that whenever their wives have genuine issues with their MIL, they need to step in..as against joining forces with their mothers against their wives like they were never weaned. I respect the MILs who genuinely luv their DILs..and the men who can stand for the right thing in every situation. Mimzyy.. nice thread BTW. Funny stuff. It's humour lost on some sadly. 5 Likes |
Re: The Step By Step Guide To Being The ‘Perfect’ Daughter-In-Law by Acidosis(m): 3:34pm On Oct 27, 2016 |
Fkforyou:What's there to enjoy? |
Re: The Step By Step Guide To Being The ‘Perfect’ Daughter-In-Law by Acidosis(m): 3:36pm On Oct 27, 2016 |
Creamish: genuine issues like? No Mother in law will genuinely love a wife with preconceived negative idea about MILs. How can one find genuine love in something you hate? If you claim you don't hate MILs, then what's the essence of this thread? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Step By Step Guide To Being The ‘Perfect’ Daughter-In-Law by Creamish(f): 3:38pm On Oct 27, 2016 |
Acidosis: If I told U, would U believe? 1 Like |
Re: The Step By Step Guide To Being The ‘Perfect’ Daughter-In-Law by Acidosis(m): 3:41pm On Oct 27, 2016 |
Creamish:Yes .. However, make sure such issues are peculiar to MILs only, not Wives' mothers. |
Re: The Step By Step Guide To Being The ‘Perfect’ Daughter-In-Law by raumdeuter: 3:42pm On Oct 27, 2016 |
In several years to come, the same wives complaining about their mother in laws will become witches to their own daughter in laws |
Re: The Step By Step Guide To Being The ‘Perfect’ Daughter-In-Law by Creamish(f): 3:47pm On Oct 27, 2016 |
Acidosis: I wont bother cos it's obvious U don't have an open mind where MIL/DIL war is concerned. U may have had a genuine experience but so have many other wives. Until U fit in their shoes, don't generalize on this issue. Some wives are the cause of their problems, true...but on some other occasions, the MIL is the cause. I wont drag this further with u. I'm done. 3 Likes |
Re: The Step By Step Guide To Being The ‘Perfect’ Daughter-In-Law by Mimzyy(f): 4:01pm On Oct 27, 2016 |
Creamish: Thanchu sisto |
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