For this our Naija abi the western world?

Pandorabox:
His siblings are meant to call me "Aunty" especially if he is the first born.

lalasticlala please. thank you.

Dyt:
Rotflmbfao



Mimzzy
Your sarcasm is awesome


Dayuum

Sisto, no be me oo

Mimzyy:
6. If you have any sense, go and do your mother-in-law’s laundry every weekend.



Let her know washing is your hobby.

like her slave or what? marriage is a union of love not a slavery agreement. Any mother in law that won't like you will definitely not like you no matter what.

Mimzyy:


Lol. Something came up that i had to quickly attend to before posting.

Morning Bae.

We understand ...no worries, take ur time...

Pandorabox:
like her slave or what? marriage is a union of love not a slavery agreement. Any mother in law that won't like you will definitely not like you no matter what.

It seems sarcasm is lost on you.

The theme of the thread is the unrealistic expectations which some mother-in-laws, and indeed parts of the African society have for women engaged to their sons.

This is why 'perfect' in the title is in quotation marks; it underlines the theme.

Let us stop painting mother in-laws bad,there are very good mother in-laws,easy going and will never interfere with your marriage.

Even after emboldening it in the first post.

Ishilove:

It seems sarcasm is lost on you.
The theme of the thread is the unrealistic expectations which some mother-in-laws, and indeed parts of the African society have for women engaged to their sons.
This is why 'perfect' in the title is in quotation marks; it underlines the theme.

Ishilove:

It seems sarcasm is lost on you.

The theme of the thread is the unrealistic expectations which some mother-in-laws, and indeed parts of the African society have for women engaged to their sons.

This is why 'perfect' in the title is in quotation marks; it underlines the theme.

I'm also being sarcastic

Ishilove:

It seems sarcasm is lost on you.

The theme of the thread is the unrealistic expectations which some mother-in-laws, and indeed parts of the African society have for women engaged to their sons.

This is why 'perfect' in the title is in quotation marks; it underlines the theme.

I didn't know you got irritated too

Mimzyy:


Morning Uncle T.

I noticed you went off nairaland but u're back now.Welcome.

thorpido:
I noticed you went off nairaland but u're back now.Welcome.

Yeah. Thank you sir. How's work going?

Mimzyy:


Yeah. Thank you sir. How's work going?

Fine thank God.Hope your side is fine too.

When my mother comes to stay for a 1 month holiday, everybody lives in peace
but
When my mother-in-law comes to stay for a 2 week holiday, it becomes a problem.


Women, check yourselves. You are your greatest problem!

thorpido:
Fine thank God.Hope your side is fine too.

Yeah. Glory be to God. Have a stress free day.

Acidosis:
When my mother comes to stay for a 1 month holiday, everybody lives in peace
but
When my mother-in-law comes to stay for a 2 week holiday, it becomes a problem.
Women, check yourselves. You are your greatest problem!

You think wives do not want to be at peace with their MILs?

Mimzyy:


You think wives do not want to be at peace with their MILs?

I think wives should stop reading negative meanings to everything MIL does.

Why call for peace when you're not at war? If there isn't any war in spite the frequent calls, gists, etc. between wives and their mothers, there shouldn't be any war between wives and their MILs.

Many of you women talk to your mothers on the phone on a daily basis, but when MIL decides to speak with you or his son (on the same daily basis) it becomes a problem: it is either she's a witch trying to figure out everything in the home, or she finds it difficult to let go of her son.

Women should learn a lot from men, we don't read terrible meanings to every situations and events.

I know a woman who nurtured a terrible hatred towards her MIL just because the woman suggested they spend less on birthday (she suggested drinks with chin-chin, as against the family's plan - jollof rice, meats, etc.).

I'm 100% sure there wouldn't be issues if the suggestion came from the mother, a friend, or brother. However, because of the devilish stance against MIL, the wife has been projected and formatted to assume the MIL is against her success.

For fck sake, what is wrong in telling someone to spend less on birthdays, especially now that we are in recession?


May God deliver you all (Amen).

There are good MILS out there, people going about with an already established opinion/mindset about a MIL they never even met, is a huge part of the problem.

Don bobes whr are u oh, come and c oh, nairaland and false thread are like this

Pandorabox:
I'm also being sarcastic

Yeah right

Ishilove:

Yeah right

Wickedness

The earlier some of you girls understand that your man's mother is a woman just like you, the better for you.
You will fight men because you say we don't respect you, and still fight a woman like you too - what a way to live.

I shake my pot belly for una.

The girl has suffered

Mimzyy:
18. And if her son cheats on you because you’re not wife enough, you used your own hand to cause it.

Again, run to her for forgiveness.

Acidosis:


I think wives should stop reading negative meanings to everything MIL does.

Why call for peace when you're not at war? If there isn't any war in spite the frequent calls, gists, etc. between wives and their mothers, there shouldn't be any war between wives and their MILs.

Many of you women talk to your mothers on the phone on a daily basis, but when MIL decides to speak with you or his son (on the same daily basis) it becomes a problem: it is either she's a witch trying to figure out everything in the home, or she finds it difficult to let go of her son.

Women should learn a lot from men, we don't read terrible meanings to every situations and events.

I know a woman who nurtured a terrible hatred towards her MIL just because the woman suggested they spend less on birthday (she suggested drinks with chin-chin, as against the family's plan - jollof rice, meats, etc.).

I'm 100% sure there wouldn't be issues if the suggestion came from the mother, a friend, or brother. However, because of the devilish stance against MIL, the wife has been projected and formatted to assume the MIL is against her success.

For fck sake, what is wrong in telling someone to spend less on birthdays, especially now that we are in recession?


May God deliver you all (Amen).

Chill bro and enjoy the thread. Why so serious?

Ishilove:

Yeah right

That's so mean...

Acidosis:


I think wives should stop reading negative meanings to everything MIL does.

Why call for peace when you're not at war? If there isn't any war in spite the frequent calls, gists, etc. between wives and their mothers, there shouldn't be any war between wives and their MILs.

Many of you women talk to your mothers on the phone on a daily basis, but when MIL decides to speak with you or his son (on the same daily basis) it becomes a problem: it is either she's a witch trying to figure out everything in the home, or she finds it difficult to let go of her son.

Women should learn a lot from men, we don't read terrible meanings to every situations and events.

I know a woman who nurtured a terrible hatred towards her MIL just because the woman suggested they spend less on birthday (she suggested drinks with chin-chin, as against the family's plan - jollof rice, meats, etc.).

I'm 100% sure there wouldn't be issues if the suggestion came from the mother, a friend, or brother. However, because of the devilish stance against MIL, the wife has been projected and formatted to assume the MIL is against her success.

For fck sake, what is wrong in telling someone to spend less on birthdays, especially now that we are in recession?


May God deliver you all (Amen).

Kindly recheck the emboldened and increase the number of women U know of with ur stated example so ur generalized statement would be justified..

What some men need to understand is that whenever their wives have genuine issues with their MIL, they need to step in..as against joining forces with their mothers against their wives like they were never weaned.

I respect the MILs who genuinely luv their DILs..and the men who can stand for the right thing in every situation.

Mimzyy.. nice thread BTW. Funny stuff. It's humour lost on some sadly.

Fkforyou:

Chill bro and enjoy the thread. Why so serious?

What's there to enjoy?

Creamish:


Kindly recheck the emboldened and increase the number of women U know of with ur stated example so ur generalized statement would be justified..

What some men need to understand is that whenever their wives have genuine issues with their MIL, they need to step in..as against joining forces with their mothers against their wives like they were never weaned.

I respect the MILs who genuinely luv their DILs..and the men who can stand for the right thing in every situation.

Mimzyy.. nice thread BTW. Funny stuff. It's humour lost on some sadly.

genuine issues like?


No Mother in law will genuinely love a wife with preconceived negative idea about MILs.

How can one find genuine love in something you hate?

If you claim you don't hate MILs, then what's the essence of this thread?

Acidosis:


genuine issues like?

If I told U, would U believe?

Creamish:

If I told U, would U believe?

Yes ..

However, make sure such issues are peculiar to MILs only, not Wives' mothers.

In several years to come, the same wives complaining about their mother in laws will become witches to their own daughter in laws

Acidosis:


Yes ..


However, make sure such issues are peculiar to MILs only, not Wives' mothers.

I wont bother cos it's obvious U don't have an open mind where MIL/DIL war is concerned. U may have had a genuine experience but so have many other wives. Until U fit in their shoes, don't generalize on this issue. Some wives are the cause of their problems, true...but on some other occasions, the MIL is the cause.

I wont drag this further with u. I'm done.

Creamish:


Kindly recheck the emboldened and increase the number of women U know of with ur stated example so ur generalized statement would be justified..

What some men need to understand is that whenever their wives have genuine issues with their MIL, they need to step in..as against joining forces with their mothers against their wives like they were never weaned.

I respect the MILs who genuinely luv their DILs..and the men who can stand for the right thing in every situation.

Mimzy.y.. nice thread BTW. Funny stuff. It's humour lost on some sadly.

Thanchu sisto