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I Need Help With My So Called Virgin Girlfriend by TDstarr: 8:49am On Oct 28, 2016 |
I have a girl I have been dating for nine years and we have not had sex once... I love her so much and now she is of age because she is in 200level in school she claims to be a virgin which I believe sometimes... Now I want to be more serious with the relationship because I see a future with her but my best friend told me that I still love her because we have not had sex.... And I am sexually active ... Am a Comfortable guy not broke... Girls are always on my neck but I let them go for her.. I took her out yesterday we lodged a hotel yet I slept alone and cold while my friends were having fun with their partners .. Now she is sounding selfish because I sacrificed a lot when I have money she is the first person I call...now I don't want to cheat but still yet my drives are killing me.... I need a mature advise.... Should I break up with her? Or keep lying to myself? Because I don't see us getting married for about 6years she wants to go study medicine in Canada soon... Told her I don't want to hurt her yesterday by cheating and I slept off and I can still see the hurt in her eyes this morning... I feel she does not want to commit... What do I do guys am so angry and confused or is she hiding something? |
Re: I Need Help With My So Called Virgin Girlfriend by Young03(m): 9:00am On Oct 28, 2016 |
I Have nothing to advise u ur not a baby 1 Like |
Re: I Need Help With My So Called Virgin Girlfriend by Nobody: 9:01am On Oct 28, 2016 |
I don't know if you're lying or you didn't read this after typing it... What does sexually active mean? How do you stay in a relationship for 9 years, not cheat, and still be sexually active?? So.. Sex is your only problem, you've prolly been fuçking other girls but you want to taste her pussy... And she claims she's a virgin.. Gon leave for Canada soon.. Hmmm... I'll advice you when I come back in the afternoon.. 1 Like |
Re: I Need Help With My So Called Virgin Girlfriend by TDstarr: 9:21am On Oct 28, 2016 |
OBTSubtle:I meant sexuality active before we started dating.. . . Later focused on hustle and left girls for a while and we broke up for about a year at a time then I got into relationships . . Now I want to be a man and step up and here is the issue... we have come back now for like two years she also dated that period too and she left the guy because of this same sex issue... 2 Likes |
Re: I Need Help With My So Called Virgin Girlfriend by ButterFrost212(f): 9:24am On Oct 28, 2016 |
Now this was a funny read. How do you date someone for 9 years and not have sex?? And not cheat too? You know what you should do but don't want to. If you love her and you want to marry her in 6 years then be patient, there's no point rushing to eat what we'll still eat at night in the afternoon, (or atleast that's what the Yorubas say) . |
Re: I Need Help With My So Called Virgin Girlfriend by Nobody: 9:24am On Oct 28, 2016 |
TDstarr: Alright, settle down.. |
Re: I Need Help With My So Called Virgin Girlfriend by TDstarr: 9:26am On Oct 28, 2016 |
ButterFrost212:six years ain't a joke o.. am too old for games thats why I am just trying to work this issue out instead of side chick stuff |
Re: I Need Help With My So Called Virgin Girlfriend by alatbaba1(m): 9:27am On Oct 28, 2016 |
Get a side chick. Bleep her till she finds out, when she finds out tell her konji nah bastard and u r tired of waiting. 2 Likes |
Re: I Need Help With My So Called Virgin Girlfriend by TDstarr: 9:28am On Oct 28, 2016 |
alatbaba1:my conscience won't let me... Would rather let her go but she will be so hurt |
Re: I Need Help With My So Called Virgin Girlfriend by alatbaba1(m): 9:30am On Oct 28, 2016 |
TDstarr: she get conscience? 3 Likes |
Re: I Need Help With My So Called Virgin Girlfriend by dollyjoy(f): 9:33am On Oct 28, 2016 |
Why do i have this feeling that op is lying? How can you date someone who you claimed is still in 200l now for nine good years . When did the journey start? How old is she? 8 Likes |
Re: I Need Help With My So Called Virgin Girlfriend by dollyjoy(f): 9:35am On Oct 28, 2016 |
alatbaba1:Hahahahahaha the lady,if the op is sincere gat nothing to lose. I mean NOTHING 1 Like |
Re: I Need Help With My So Called Virgin Girlfriend by TDstarr: 9:37am On Oct 28, 2016 |
dollyjoy:saying the gospel truth although we were friends for like the first 3years before we got intimate |
Re: I Need Help With My So Called Virgin Girlfriend by TDstarr: 9:40am On Oct 28, 2016 |
dollyjoy:she was my first girlfriend... Started with backyard relationship lol |
Re: I Need Help With My So Called Virgin Girlfriend by ardeypearlz(f): 9:43am On Oct 28, 2016 |
dollyjoy:Lol...I've also been trying to do the calculation myself. They have dated for 9yrs and she's still in 200l? How come? And she's still going to study medicine for another 6years?? Mehn!!! 1 Like |
Re: I Need Help With My So Called Virgin Girlfriend by TDstarr: 9:44am On Oct 28, 2016 |
ardeypearlz:long story mehn she is now like 22...she matured fast as a teenager.. Told you she was my first love we broke up and came back many times... during the nine years 1 Like |
Re: I Need Help With My So Called Virgin Girlfriend by TDstarr: 9:48am On Oct 28, 2016 |
NO ADVISE SINCE AM NOT A BLOGGER THAT LIES FOR PROFIT .. I JUST GOT FED UP THIS MORNING.. . WHERE ARE THE MATURE PEOPLE IN THE HOUSE PLEASE |
Re: I Need Help With My So Called Virgin Girlfriend by ardeypearlz(f): 9:50am On Oct 28, 2016 |
Tbvh, Op you don try no be small but a little more patience will do that's if you really love her. After all its just 6years 1 Like |
Re: I Need Help With My So Called Virgin Girlfriend by alatbaba1(m): 9:59am On Oct 28, 2016 |
dollyjoy: If OP babe loves him too. She will do anything to keep the relationship. I did this to bleep my virgin babe. It works. 1 Like |
Re: I Need Help With My So Called Virgin Girlfriend by ardeypearlz(f): 10:02am On Oct 28, 2016 |
TDstarr: Oh? No wonder ...If you could wait 9yrs without bleeping her despite the pressure, then you can do without it too for another 6yrs. Just be patient with her. #myopinionthough 1 Like |
Re: I Need Help With My So Called Virgin Girlfriend by VampireeM(f): 10:11am On Oct 28, 2016 |
My Opinion; 1) You Dont trust her 2) You want to have sex and she doesnt 3) You are Unhappy in the relationship and sooner/later you going to cheat on her 4) She is not ready for commitment My advice You both should call it quits now amicably even though it might hurt.. You both can still be friends, who knows maybe, you may get back together as a couple in future alatbaba1: lol.. The only reason your virgin gf slept with you is cause she doesnt know what she wants wrt sex.. I am wondering what she wil offer to you If you sleep with other females next time.. I feel issues like this need to be discussed by both partners and if they cant compromise on something, then its time to call it quits 1 Like |
Re: I Need Help With My So Called Virgin Girlfriend by ikp120(m): 10:11am On Oct 28, 2016 |
Bro, you are actually wasting your time and money on her... She cannot see any future with you... I can assure you that she will break up with you in less than 2 years' time... Bro I hope you know how to change gear? I hope you also know how to turn steering? Abeg just change gear and turn steering and drive your life to another direction... That relationship na wash, not because of sex, but because of the girl you're with... She will find a sweeter guy in school soon, if she hasn't found one yet... Bros abeg change your status to single and searching now o... "You be the mugu, she be the master... Na she be the master o" lol My opinion though 3 Likes |
Re: I Need Help With My So Called Virgin Girlfriend by alatbaba1(m): 10:22am On Oct 28, 2016 |
VampireeM: Mind I love her so much and still love her. Sex with her is just what we both enjoyed. If I will need to get married tomorrow, i will marry her. |
Re: I Need Help With My So Called Virgin Girlfriend by TDstarr: 10:26am On Oct 28, 2016 |
VampireeM:you said the right words sha... Most similar cases of mine the girl ends up sleeping with a guy half as good that she just met not quite long and keep telling the guy she is a virgin hoping for a better guy... Am just scared mehn |
Re: I Need Help With My So Called Virgin Girlfriend by ikp120(m): 10:30am On Oct 28, 2016 |
***Singing*** There's fire on the bridge ahead, op stop stop stop... It is a big big fire, op stop stop stop ***Stops singing*** Op when I was still playing with forex trading, there is what's called "stop loss" and "Take Profit". Abeg op just try stop loss before you become emotionally bankrupt and turn to a player because of what this girl will do to you very soon... Just hook up with one of those single girls flashing green light around you and give her all the attention you give this girl... But don't break up yet o... It is called "Play along"... It is part of the stop loss technique... That's not cheating, but a precautionary measure 2 Likes |
Re: I Need Help With My So Called Virgin Girlfriend by pacino26(m): 10:41am On Oct 28, 2016 |
Why do I have this feeling that you guys are street neighbors who started early from the Sch bus her been in 200L puts her around 19 or so. Enyia use your head and leave nine yrs of childhood "you're my wife and am your husband" to pass. If you delay, a geologist with a good rig will drill that well and discover oil. You maybe forced to POOH if you don't go in now. 1 Like |
Re: I Need Help With My So Called Virgin Girlfriend by Cholls(m): 10:42am On Oct 28, 2016 |
my brother how old are you? |
Re: I Need Help With My So Called Virgin Girlfriend by TDstarr: 10:54am On Oct 28, 2016 |
ikp120:thanks bro |
Re: I Need Help With My So Called Virgin Girlfriend by TDstarr: 10:55am On Oct 28, 2016 |
Cholls:old enough |
Re: I Need Help With My So Called Virgin Girlfriend by drmikeadams(m): 11:02am On Oct 28, 2016 |
...NO LET THAT TOTO PASS YOU BY ENTER PLANE GO CANADA OOO.YOU NO GO EVER FORGIVE YOURSELF...BETTER FIND WAY AND TRY UR FUCKING BEST AND EAT THAT PUSSY OO....IN BLACK MAGIC,S VOICE,,,WHAT D Bleep ARE YOU TELLING ME NOW |
Re: I Need Help With My So Called Virgin Girlfriend by honeygirl17: 11:19am On Oct 28, 2016 |
9 years? You guys started dating in primary or what? I am not understanding |
Re: I Need Help With My So Called Virgin Girlfriend by skyhighweb(m): 11:22am On Oct 28, 2016 |
heres my advice keep doing what u doing with her pester her like ever b4 if she says no relax but not too relax, now wwhy all this is going on have another that is given u what u want untill the so called virgin come around simple as that, peace am out, dropped the mic now am looking for the door out of here. |
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