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Re: I Cnt Get Over Him. Plz Help!!! by BeautyBaebee(f): 12:16am On Nov 03, 2016
Raine80:
He did not notice you were circumcised? Or did he not get to see things down there? If you start with deception it's very difficult to be honest later on. Females feel pleasure inside as well as outside their privates. You will feel more from the inside but that is not an option for you. The problem here has been all this playing at sex with no actual sex , he is human. Men don't switch off and on like engines. If it's on it can stay on simply by thinking. You need to ask yourself what would happen if you get married and the guy finds out about your situation after the fact? It's not fair on him.
he knws buh he doesnt tink it affects me in anyway.
Re: I Cnt Get Over Him. Plz Help!!! by BeautyBaebee(f): 12:20am On Nov 03, 2016
Lovelynature:
Nawaoo! How does a virgin knows all these?
You know you are not going to enjoy the sex.
Like seriously? How do you know that miss virgin?
You fake moans. Are you fvcking kidding?
What do we call this version of virginity?
You aff spoilt miss v
u mean u cnt fake moans if u were to play d role in a Movie? must u b a sex expert b4 u can do dat?
yes I know I CNT enjoy Sex due to my condition
Re: I Cnt Get Over Him. Plz Help!!! by vicstar(m): 12:27am On Nov 03, 2016
Justycxx:
corrupt mind, you can eat the cucumber with groundnut

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Re: I Cnt Get Over Him. Plz Help!!! by Lovelynature(m): 12:34am On Nov 03, 2016
BeautyBaebee:

u mean u cnt fake moans if u were to play d role in a Movie? must u b a sex expert b4 u can do dat?
yes I know I CNT enjoy Sex due to my condition
ok dear

Just think and act wisely. Good you have started thinking it may not worth it

Re: I Cnt Get Over Him. Plz Help!!! by ardeypearlz(f): 3:17am On Nov 03, 2016
ULSHERLAN:
To give birth to girl dey fear me
Lol... Wetin dey fear you?
Re: I Cnt Get Over Him. Plz Help!!! by gozzlin: 5:27am On Nov 03, 2016
If you are truly 19 years old, then I see no reason why you should be preoccupied with relationship issues at the moment. This should not be your main preoccupation presently.

I'm not trying to be prude or anything, but your studies should be your main concern now. Two relationships already at 19? And indulging in "pre-intimacy" and heavy petting? You'll surely get that hymen broken in no time at the rate you're going.

I'll advise you to let go of the thoughts of the guy you just broke up with, focus on important stuff and you'll forget him in no time. It's always hardest the first few days, but with time you'll get over him. However, if you see him as someone who deserves the honor of being the one to deflower you, then by all means make up with him. The decision is yours to make.

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Re: I Cnt Get Over Him. Plz Help!!! by ZeeAfrica(f): 5:43am On Nov 03, 2016
Somethings u said here give de impresion dat u r a bit too matured for yo age. B a child, and do things which ppl yo age do. A man shud be last thing in yo mind. Its a good thing to save yoself for marriage. And any guy worth yo virginity is de guy who wud have been patient enough and married u. Study, build yo life and stay good. Otherwise go beg him and sleep wit him

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Re: I Cnt Get Over Him. Plz Help!!! by Nobody: 6:16am On Nov 03, 2016
BeautyBaebee:
I don't know how to start buh lemme start anywhere sha.
Am 19 years old, a virgin. I started dating @ d age of 17. I left my first BF cos of sex issues.
I decided to stay single until am ready for sex buh I met anoda guy last year around August, he asked me out, i fell in love with him n we started dating. all through our relationship, we did every thing except sex. He doesn't complain actually lyk dat, he told me he loves me not becos of Sex, he can b patient with me till am ready.
So yesterday, I went to his place n after a while, he asked me "How long are we going to continue lyk this" (talking abt romance without sex). He told me all sort of things ranging from how much he loves me to how he might cheat on me n look elsewhere if I continue treating him lyk dis since "he sef b human being". I actually broke up yesterday cos of dat statement cos I cnt share my Man with anybody. Buh he later begged n said it was a joke, even @dat, I still broke up.
Seriously, I understand him, I feel for him, I would love to give him my virginity buh am scared of Sex. am circumcised n scared I won't enjoy it n he won't enjoy me too. I don't want to b used n dumped. (truth is, I don't always enjoy pre-intimacy, most times, I fake my Moans anytime we did it cos I don't want him to feel less of a man or see me as a stick)
Now,
Since yesterday, I cnt stop thinking abh him.
I love dis guy soo much n he has become a part of me. Dunno if I should just let him go or call him n tell him am sorry.
I always come here as a guest buh today, I joined dis forum cos of this issue.
Plz nairalanders, wat do u advise I do
is ur name mary?
Re: I Cnt Get Over Him. Plz Help!!! by Nobody: 6:19am On Nov 03, 2016
BeautyBaebee:

u mean u cnt fake moans if u were to play d role in a Movie? must u b a sex expert b4 u can do dat?
yes I know I CNT enjoy Sex due to my condition

Re: I Cnt Get Over Him. Plz Help!!! by Nobody: 6:25am On Nov 03, 2016
ZeeAfrica:
Somethings u said here give de impresion dat u r a bit too matured for yo age. B a child, and do things which ppl yo age do. A man shud be last thing in yo mind. Its a good thing to save yoself for marriage. And any guy worth yo virginity is de guy who wud have been patient enough and married u. Study, build yo life and stay good. Otherwise go beg him and sleep wit him

Re: I Cnt Get Over Him. Plz Help!!! by BeautyBaebee(f): 6:32am On Nov 03, 2016
tenk u all
Re: I Cnt Get Over Him. Plz Help!!! by BeautyBaebee(f): 6:33am On Nov 03, 2016
Zceesneh:
is ur name mary?
noo. y asking? u know of any Mary with same Problem?
Re: I Cnt Get Over Him. Plz Help!!! by Nobody: 6:42am On Nov 03, 2016
BeautyBaebee:

noo. y asking? u know of any Mary with same Problem?
yup buh don't know whether she is a virgin, am 100% sure that she isn't one she relocated frrom lag to abia state, are u the one?
Re: I Cnt Get Over Him. Plz Help!!! by BeautyBaebee(f): 6:46am On Nov 03, 2016
ZeeAfrica:
Somethings u said here give de impresion dat u r a bit too matured for yo age. B a child, and do things which ppl yo age do. A man shud be last thing in yo mind. Its a good thing to save yoself for marriage. And any guy worth yo virginity is de guy who wud have been patient enough and married u. Study, build yo life and stay good. Otherwise go beg him and sleep wit him
tnx buh m not a Child any longer, come January I will b 20yrs old. is it until I reach old age dat I should engage myself with a man.
yes, education is Paramount buh I don't have d money to further 4 now. May God provide.
I cnt beg him to sleep with me, plz stop being harsh
Re: I Cnt Get Over Him. Plz Help!!! by Nobody: 6:58am On Nov 03, 2016
BeautyBaebee:

tnx buh m not a Child any longer, come January I will b 20yrs old. is it until I reach old age dat I should engage myself with a man.
yes, education is Paramount buh I don't have d money to further 4 now. May God provide.
I cnt beg him to sleep with me, plz stop being harsh
mary so u are the one, so u have a boyfriend?
Re: I Cnt Get Over Him. Plz Help!!! by BeautyBaebee(f): 7:09am On Nov 03, 2016
Zceesneh:
mary so u are the one, so u have a boyfriend?
am not Mary plz undecided
Re: I Cnt Get Over Him. Plz Help!!! by Alhajipablo(m): 7:09am On Nov 03, 2016
U r 19 years old and having sex is your major priority.Children of nowadays.

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Re: I Cnt Get Over Him. Plz Help!!! by BeautyBaebee(f): 7:13am On Nov 03, 2016
Zceesneh:
yup buh don't know whether she is a virgin, am 100% sure that she isn't one she relocated frrom lag to abia state, are u the one?
OK since u are 100%sure she's not a virgin, y tinking her to b me. Plz am not n don't knw of any Mary
Re: I Cnt Get Over Him. Plz Help!!! by BeautyBaebee(f): 7:16am On Nov 03, 2016
Alhajipablo:
U r 19 years old and having sex is your major priority.Children of nowadays.
having sex is not n can never b my major priority. if u don't understand wat I wrote up there, kindly leave d thread

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Re: I Cnt Get Over Him. Plz Help!!! by Nobody: 7:31am On Nov 03, 2016
BeautyBaebee:

am not Mary plz undecided
upload ur picture
Re: I Cnt Get Over Him. Plz Help!!! by Duru009(m): 7:47am On Nov 03, 2016
Cucumber is cheap ........
Re: I Cnt Get Over Him. Plz Help!!! by samfuntua: 8:17am On Nov 03, 2016
fornication is sin against God and your body.
the regret you will have afterward is much more greater than what you are filling now

watch out Satan want to destroy your future!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Re: I Cnt Get Over Him. Plz Help!!! by juliusocean(m): 8:18am On Nov 03, 2016
Justycxx:
Buy a cucumber
God bless you my brother u took the words outta my mouth
Re: I Cnt Get Over Him. Plz Help!!! by precasino(m): 8:19am On Nov 03, 2016
Raine80:
He did not notice you were circumcised? Or did he not get to see things down there? If you start with deception it's very difficult to be honest later on. Females feel pleasure inside as well as outside their privates. You will feel more from the inside but that is not an option for you. The problem here has been all this playing at sex with no actual sex , he is human. Men don't switch off and on like engines. If it's on it can stay on simply by thinking. You need to ask yourself what would happen if you get married and the guy finds out about your situation after the fact? It's not fair on him.
Please ooo. What situation. U mean to tell me circumcised gurls are not good sex mate . How self to put d question
Re: I Cnt Get Over Him. Plz Help!!! by 2dice01: 8:49am On Nov 03, 2016
BeautyBaebee:

how? I don't understand
lol you ladies can give guys too much headache
Re: I Cnt Get Over Him. Plz Help!!! by AlexCk: 9:04am On Nov 03, 2016
Ok,

U not ready for sex nw, that's cool, if d guy can handle that till u ready, that's good.

Basically, u don't have to do something u don't wanna becuz u wanna pls someone, it's wacky.

If the guy really cares, he should be able to accommodate the "no sex" thingy, till u r ready, n telling him u r circumsized or not, is ur call, ma'am.
Re: I Cnt Get Over Him. Plz Help!!! by ULSHERLAN(m): 9:09am On Nov 03, 2016
ardeypearlz:

Lol... Wetin dey fear you?

See wetin op dey talk na.

My female pikin must be virgin till she marry biko grin
Re: I Cnt Get Over Him. Plz Help!!! by Switup: 9:19am On Nov 03, 2016
op ur 19.keep d virginity -thing a little more eyah...? and by d way why wont u miss sone u just brk up with was yesterday or so. u were/are so goddamn used to him. so chill a bit.




#op poped a question.
#i gave my own opinion
#pls do not do d un-needful.
Re: I Cnt Get Over Him. Plz Help!!! by buffalowings4: 9:44am On Nov 03, 2016
Lovelynature:
Nawaoo! How does a virgin knows all these?
You know you are not going to enjoy the sex.
Like seriously? How do you know that miss virgin?
You fake moans. Are you fvcking kidding?
What do we call this version of virginity?
You aff spoilt miss v

Let her continue lying grin

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Re: I Cnt Get Over Him. Plz Help!!! by buffalowings4: 9:46am On Nov 03, 2016
angry
Op just look at what you wrote

Moaning Virgin enjoying sex

The thunder that will fire you is doing press up

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Re: I Cnt Get Over Him. Plz Help!!! by lovely17(m): 9:47am On Nov 03, 2016
That you are circumcised doesn't mean, you just not ready that's all, stick to what you believe in so you won't regret and you broke up just yesterday lol its normal to still about him a lot just chill out you ll always move on
Re: I Cnt Get Over Him. Plz Help!!! by Nobody: 9:48am On Nov 03, 2016
BeautyBaebee:

I always feel lyk am ready buh just @d last minute, I get scared
well if u date me i would wait till u are ready.. grin

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