Time and again, women-centric fashion and lifestyle magazines keep reiterating how women want just as much sex as men do; how they are just as promiscuous as men and how women are just as psyched about getting some as men. Truth is, in the real world, that hardly ever plays out to be the case. And I know I speak for most men reading this. Just so you know, our sympathies are with you.
But, there are absolutely legit reasons why your woman is not feeling anything down there and no, it has nothing to do with the love dying out. So, before you give up on her and start looking outside of it for some physical solace, read on.

1. She Wants Love

Women are emotional creatures. Yes, occasionally, you will come across a liberal soul who just wants the fun, no strings attached. But, even then, there are emotions at play that you may not comprehend. Her happiness, her sorrow, her feelings for and towards you are major factors in determining whether or not she wants to have sex with you right now. What might seem like a ‘get in; get out’ deal is a lot like devotion for her. If she likes you even a little bit, she will be up for some fun in the sack; if not, you’re knocking on the wrong door.

2. She Needs Time

Maybe you’re hoping to turn this date into a steamy night now that both of you are on the same page and are up for having sex. But, here’s the thing; even if she’s up for the fun and the sex, she isn’t up for it just yet. Why? She needs the time—to connect with you better, to know you and to know if she will be comfortable with you. Yes, this could mean that the night would end with dinner and a cute peck on the cheek but, nothing more. Hold off till the next date maybe or till she is comfortable enough in her skin to lead the way herself. Forcing her will not speed it up for you, in case you’re wondering and no, ultimatums never work on women. We invented that shit!

3. She Gets Distracted

Anger, stress, disappointment, a tiring day at work, frustration—these things affect your girl like nothing you know! Sure, for you, all this goes away the minute you step into the confines of your personal space, unwind with a beer and a sensual massage from bae which turns into sex. For her, these feelings, thoughts and situations overwhelm and become her. Yes, you may offer to cook tonight, give her a massage and ever rub her feet; just don’t expect it to turn into sex unless she wants it to. Because then, she’s just going to have one more reason to be angry and that’s not going to help.

4. She Isn’t Physically As Active

Contrary to what the pseudo-feminists may say, it’s true—women are not physically as strong as men. By the end of the day, she is spent and tired and withdrawn and you can’t blame her! The reason is pretty simple; because she is mentally too strong for you to handle, all of her energies go in micro-managing your lives and thinking up every possible scenario—real or unreal—and deducing every possible outcome in nano-seconds. By the time she’s done, your woman is too exhausted to even think about pre-intimacy!

5. She Judges Herself Too Much

If she is feeling less than pretty, fat, ugly, smelly, unattractive, bloated, unappreciated or just self-loathing, she is not going to want to strip down naked to be pleasured by you. She doesn’t think she deserves it. In fact, it’s probably one of those days where she’ll quickly just pull on her most unattractive pyjamas over an extra loose t-shirt while avoiding any eye contact with the mirror. Don’t push for sex; she might just cry and you won’t like it.


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i swear my girlfriend will disagree with this