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Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by seunmsg(m): 3:13pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
tintingz: And you are absolutely sure that the wife is not also cheating wherever she is? |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by seunmsg(m): 3:18pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
adedayoa2: And you are absolutely sure that the wife is not also cheating wherever she is? 1 Like |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by Nobody: 3:35pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
Joeblack01: I haven't had sex with my girlfriend for four weeks now. It's not that our libidos have taken a minor detour or that the flames of intimacy have begun to wane; it's just that we are preoccupied with work and our relationship transcends sex. She visits regularly and even sleeps over, but we usually just end up in a knotty cosset; learning the songs of each other's heart and singing it back to ourselves. The point is: sex is not everything in life. Maybe it is to some people, maybe it is to some married couples; but it surely doesn't occupy a cardinal spot in my pyramid of priorities, nor is it something I would obsess over in a relationship given that the circumstances stymying me and my partner from having regular sex are beyond our control. ... The quintessential human being should be able to abstain from sex for one year; but knowing how corseted we are by our unbridled sexual passions, then yes, I concede that it is almost impossible for a man-woman – more so a married man-woman –to abstain from sex for six months; unless he-she is engrossed in office work or in a hobby that he-she notices little of the arrows of time whizzing by. ... The bone of contention here is that for the woman to be studying abroad, the man must have supported her decision and given her the go-ahead. If the man knew that he couldn't keep to his promise and remain faithful, then why did he agree to the arrangement in the first place? Real men never welsh. It seems to me that he backed up his wife's decision only because he knew it would give him ample leeway to prostitutë his loins without his wife getting in the way. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by Fiwasayo(f): 3:49pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
VERDA: According to op,the said man has maintained the girlfriend for more than 6months or more,so is it still about his intimate needs or there's something else he's looking for,and probably has found in the girlfriend? |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by CoCoLav(f): 3:58pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
Amelian: Azed1 |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by adedayoa2(f): 4:05pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
seunmsg:na the man them come report no be the woman |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by seunmsg(m): 4:31pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
adedayoa2: You should hear the other side of the story before you label the man a cheat. Any lady that leaves her husband for a period of 6 months should NEVER complain on infidelity and vice versa. |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by MarieSucre(f): 4:36pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
RoadsAndGreen: You're still talking about scale of preference when someone is talking about STD and death? |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by manmidtexy(m): 4:45pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
Gbabeski...i like you this man. Some pple are just some how. How did they pass stages of school to get job ? ShakurM: 1 Like |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by RoadsAndGreen(m): 4:49pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
MarieSucre:choi* nawa |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by VERDA: 5:17pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
Fiwasayo: Well..who knows,it could be any number of reasons,also based on what the op wrote,they have been friends for very long and he never saw him cheat,the whole thing started after the wife traveled,this sugests whatever he was looking he found in the wife until she traveled.I must state it again that I am in no way justifying what he is doing. |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by Nobody: 5:43pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
DarkRebel101: 1. Your GF doesn't probably turn you On. 2. Or your libido's are too low. 3. Or you have had too much sex that it begins to irritate you. 4. Or you are a One minute man, so u just prefer to cuddle. If it's not any of those 4 things, then something if definitely wrong with both of you. 4 Likes |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by Yeligray(m): 5:59pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
OMINI KNOWESTtttt Izen:OMINI KNOWESTtt |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by Princedaniel: 5:59pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
If you a Christian; severe the relationship between you and your friend. |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by adedayoa2(f): 6:15pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
seunmsg:thank you for putting vice versa. 1 Like |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by dhardline(m): 6:17pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
Hmm... And the woman will be thinking she has a fantastic husband |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by nairamaniac: 6:20pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
What you need to do is go to your friend's village. Look for the eldest man and the king. Gather them and report the issue to them. The King's men must be interested in this. If you find this measure, too extreme, find his father and report your friend so he can be well addressed. |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by ElsonMorali: 6:22pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
Ujoan: Now you're the one going out of point here. The said woman isn't lying sick in the hospital. Are you saying there isn't a university where she could go for her Masters here in the country? Are you also implying that you could abandon your own husband and kids (I wonder how old they are) and go away for whatever reason for 2years? I understand that sex is not food, but 2 good years of abstinence, when your wife ain't dead and you haven't taken a vow of continence is wickedness on the part of the woman. You're simply comparing a man's sexual urge with that of a woman. Very different. |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by Blessograo(f): 6:24pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
Get a picture of your frank the lady, tell your friend you going to show his wife the picture if he doesn't dump her and tell his wife. Tell the other lady the guy is married too. If they both refuse then stay away from him and his family. |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by Babysheart(f): 6:35pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
CecyAdrian: Of course, you aren't wrong. I'm going out with Donald Trump, Boris Johnson, Vladimir Putin and you guessed right Muhammadu Buhari. Now, run wiggling your tiny ass and report me to Melania Trump, Lyudmila Putina and Aisha Buhari... if that makes you and ephi123 feel good. Since you didn't get my grouse, let me rephrase. I hate snitches and it doesn't matter whether they are snitching for a 'good cause'. Friends who spill on you are despicable persons. If you don't like what your friend is doing, work on him and try to understand why hes doing what he is doing. Talk him out of it. DO NOT BETRAY HIM. Going to his wife might have far greater repercussions than you ever envisage. Saints don't live on earth... Betrayal stinks. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by smilingjosh: 7:10pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
Gaggi:the pic of the beautiful wife or u re a ---- |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by egojiokwu(m): 7:29pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
ephi123:It's the same thing if it's the man that traveled. If the husband can't take his wife along, it's better he stays and do the studies here in Nigeria. So many of us that are not gay can find it difficult to stay without woman for a very long time. You may support that it's so good to abandon your marriage for education for a long time, but the same thing may happen to you if you do the same. |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by CecyAdrian(f): 7:36pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
Babysheart: OMG!! I give up on u! Your line of reasoning is so disappointing 2 Likes |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by ephi123(f): 7:39pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
Babysheart: Your life. Your choice. In any case, it is the OP's decision whether to tell his friend's wife or not, regardless of anyone calling that "betrayal" If there is nothing to hide, the so called "betrayal" will not even come into the question. |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by Nobody: 7:42pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
sisisioge: Sisisioge dear , no. Mind them ooo. My man is even scared of loosing me, even As he's hot. All my female friends has shown him blue colour, green colour even purple colour, he's doesn't move an inch.. Someone that's always monitoring my movements.. My dear leave matter for Mathias.. And me? If am travelling, we are going together .. We've talked about going abroad , not to school. Or hustle, just to relax on some vacations.. Where i goes, he goes.. Where he jumps, I jumps.. We've already promised ourselves that.. So I ain't scared.. He's all. Mine.. Yippee! Feel Me? My dearest sisisioge ooooo |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by sisisioge: 7:52pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
Amelian: baddo Cool you both have agreed to dream together, walk together and remain a team. With this couple of interest though, the guy let the team down. Surely , distant is a biatch on marriage but where is his esprit de corps nau. To make matters worse, he's doing commando with her. Chai, gone are the days of ladies and gentlemen! May God help us. |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by davidif: 7:52pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
Amelian: Gbam! 1 Like |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by sisisioge: 7:58pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
Babysheart: Ehhhhhnnnn...you know all these powerful men and their wives' names as well. Cool, you aren't entirely dull girl. Groovy! |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by Alusinejeuka(m): 8:08pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
give your friend this tablet three times daily
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Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by Nobody: 8:33pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
DarkRebel101:the best comment ever on |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by Nobody: 8:36pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
booqee: You flatter me, miss. |
Re: My Friend Is Cheating On His Wife, Putting Me In A Tight Situation by Nobody: 8:52pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
Amelian: hollup ... I can't believe a fellow woman is saying this.. see talk ooo.. u sound like a lazy housewife kinda woman.. yeah it may be hard for the husband /wife if the partner travels out for studies, so i'd say it's safer to do it within the state or country. (this is what you should have said) but still, nothing wrong in going abroad ..depends on the agreement between the couples.. woman this is 2016, don't let marriage limit you to just BSC(or what have you), kitchen, living room and the other room. if Dora akunyili thought like you, nobody would know of her existence... |
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