what will you do when you discover your girlfriend has a side boyfriend.. I mistakenly saw my girl's message to a guy which proves she is dating the so called guy.. this is a girl that has helped with in times of trouble... her attitude towards her coming to my place has reduced.. I asked her why is she not always around me and she says she doesn't want to loose interest in me if she sees me often. this is someone that will always be with me more that normal,.
though I have not asked her if she is cheating on me but they are signs..
please what should I do

The earlier you learn that a girl finds it difficult to stick to one guy, the better for you. Just live your life and be happy

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Relationship is not marriage and besides with what you wrote i don't think that both of you are engaged. In as much as you help her is what the time calls. So if you are not winning then check well.

japhezyjafito:
what will you do when you discover your girlfriend has a side boyfriend.. I mistakenly saw my girl's message to a guy which proves she is dating the so called guy.. this is a girl that has helped with in times of trouble... her attitude towards her coming to my place has reduced.. I asked her why is she not always around me and she says she doesn't want to loose interest in me if she sees me often. this is someone that will always be with me more that normal,.
though I have not asked her if she is cheating on me but they are signs..
please what should I do

You know, something tells me YOU might have actually been relegated to being the side boyfriend.