Hello my fellow nairalanders,

I don't know if it's a problem or if it's something good but I am more confident talking to older and elderly women than to ladies younger than I am and looking at my past relationship history, I dated more older ladies than those younger than I am and of the same age.

Moreso... I found out that I had Better and long lasting relationship with older women and I also found it easy doing business with them... I have had more of female Bosses and clients than the male counterparts whom I most times tend to have problem with when working with them...

I presently find it difficult to talk to younger ladies... A times I just talk out of point and loose confidence along the line and Its beginning to really affect me...

Please I need serious advice.

Thanks in anticipation.

For problem.. Hmmm, it's. For advice well since u can talk to older women not seeing anything wrong with u not being able to talk to younger ones. Maybe Ur shy of them.

Woh,u jst hv to try ok,it is nt easy bt u hv to,develop friendship with young ladies,tell them tinz dat make them happen nd u knw frm there i think tinz will work out

Young girls still have that exuberance in them wanting to explore and so they may find you attractive but only for a fling but nothing steady.The older women are more consistent due to their previous bad relationships that must have battered them emotionally.They know how to keep a convo and maintain good relations.It's not you been weird but reality of life that plays out due to our experiences...

Am like this also u know .. But am not an introverted kind of person,am social a good one at that so it helped me alot. Just try and be a social kinda guy.
it will be nice trust me

And I thought I was d only one in this kinda situation. I am always attracted to older ladies but I'm always trying to suppress d feeling

You probably get nurturing from older women. As in they either take the lead or they respond with confidence where younger women require you to take the lead and do most if not all the leg work as far as conversation and interactions go. My advice is to not be intimidated by the "Show" young ladies put on to hide their insecurity but to have more confidence in your ability to lead and Cox them out of their shell.

Only older ladies are attracted to me. The latest was one south african baby mama..hmm! I gats run o

Check yourself maybe you have chronic bad breath.

Older ladies are matured in thought and experienced while the younger once jumps up and down with too much shakara, maybe cus of their young looks.