Guys, have you ever had an experience where you spent a lot of money, time (more than 4 weeks) and effort in wooing a lady yet you did not get her?

e.g she just stopped answering your phone calls, she refuses to meet with you again, another guy came into the picture and she stopped relating with you etc.

The scenario where you chased her for more than 4 weeks and spent money and put effort in wooing her but she never became your girlfriend and you did not have sexual intercourse with her.

• It could be you spent a lot of money on dates
• Or you spent a lot of months chasing her
• Or you spent effort (like driving her to work or doing her assignments etc)

And at the end, you didn't get the girl.

UPDATE: If it has happened to you, you can say yes but I am older and wiser now... you don't need to go into details if you are ashamed of what happened.

Here to read dead end stories

I am likely to get low responses.... a lot of guys prefer to hide this sort of thing.

NubiLove:
Guys, have you ever had an experience where you spent a lot of money, time (more than 4 weeks) and effort in wooing a lady yet you did not get her?

e.g she just stopped answering your phone calls, she refuses to meet with you again, another guy came into the picture and she stopped relating with you etc.

The scenario where you chased her for more than 4 weeks and spent money and put effort in wooing her but she never became your girlfriend and you did not have sexual intercourse with her.

Answer and summarize your experience.

Yes, I was up and coming then, the days of growing beginnings. From paying to redeploy her NYSC to Lagos, to footing her bills, buying BB those days for her. I no see anything oh. From modelling photoshoots etc Nna, I spent money.

Di one wey pain me pass, na when I drove her and friends to pool bar to drink on our way back, my useless jeep broke down, and had to be pushed to road side. She no follow push, na others. I had to charter cab for her to go back to hotel room I booked, 45k per night as at then.

Na that night I gave up on that babe. Just to make a statement that she is missing. I left that truck there on the road side overnight, early morning next day, I launched a new SUV, and her friend saw me with brand new car at Shoprite. The thing sweet me when her friend called her and say, this guy get money oh. I actually gave out the other SUV to my suffer-head mechanic those days.

When the babe hear say I dey pretend, that I hold bar die. She come begin beg me. I no gree again till today, she don marry one up and coming pastor now. Na she for dey enjoy now, but the stupidity of some girls began before garden of Eden.

We only do that to the ladies

I'm only here to read the fairy tales!

I already spotted one before my comment..
Nigerian guys would never take the L card!!

NubiLove:
I am likely to get low responses.... a lot of guys prefer to hide this sort of thing.

guys dat like forming, who will want to b made a laughing... just b expecting lies, if at all dey will comment.

Am not sure that can happeñ to me..

Never was in the business of spending to get a babe... for love or body.... never made sense to me. It was always better to declare that my present broke status was about to be history in 6 weeks when...... some investmemt would finally mature and I can start living life.

OBTSubtle:
Nope.. Never been that unfortunate

lol.. You smart

If guys could comment anonymously, then they would be able to tell the truth.

njiasi30:

guys dat like foaming, who will want to b made a laughing... just b expecting lies, if at all dey will comment.

UPDATE: If it has happened to you, you can say yes but I am older and wiser now... you don't need to go into details if you are ashamed of what happened.

njiasi30:

guys dat like foaming, who will want to b made a laughing... just b expecting lies, if at all dey will comment.

like locally made liquid soap abi??