As usual, lay the blame on the foot of others.

When your destiny is to be foolish in life, there is nothing you can do to escape that foolishness.

Just say you him, Toke

judging from the excepts, i hope that book wouldn't be filled with grammatical blunders.

wildchild1:
Everyone is saying she should move on, just like that? Yeaa I know it's up to a year or two now but do you guys know what it means to have been with a man for 9-11years? It's not going to be that easy

ya, it's not easy o, but I pray she finally finds the strength to completely move on

Make this shawa fish go relax abeg


Who cares if her life is ruined or not

Dis coke and fanta skinned fellow,Nobi only u get story,who cares whether you were being grab from the pu...*

Justnora:
Can this lady just move on and leave that man alone... the pity party has to come to an end

Your post makes no sense. Just saying.

Shebi they were together on her birthday.
matter no gree connect again..... na wa ooooooo

Toke it is time to heal and move on. To heal you have to forgive yourself for the mistakes because you know better now. When you truly forgive yourself you will find love. Love is abundant for everyone. It is never to late.

I wish you well.

Justnora:
Can this lady just move on and leave that man alone... the pity party has to come to an end

She has to tell her story

It's a form of healing and a message to young people like me to be careful with those who are time wasters like my new electronic friend Eniolaamoda would say

othenok:
Poor Toke! I'm glad she has finally found herself. I sincerely pray she learns from her mistakes and understand that no human being can ever be her source of happiness.

You're right. I hope she moves on and finds happiness. But, trust me, it's hard to remember and be rational when you're smitten with someone. It's like a virus in the blood.

But I'm shocked at the comments here. Why do NLers hate this lady?

Toke shud just move on jorrrrr!!!!! Its well with her soul.. D lord is her strength... She shudnt have bleached sef... D lady dikwa set from day one!!!!!

Can you guys b nice 4 once by tryin 2 undastnd dat she is human nd I knw dat most of tlkin shit abt her go tru a lot 2 keep ur relationship. Jos because u knw abt hers doesn't giv u d right 2 b mean. Aaaarh

ehie:
She really went tru hell,may God save us from these types of husbands

have you heard the man's version?

ehie:
She really went tru hell,may God save us from these types of husbands

Na una type go pray finish still use una hand enter one chance with the signs screaming in your face...

ehie:
She really went tru hell,may God save us from these types of husbands

she chose to stay abeg, all thru cos of money obviously

Ginaz:
I pray God gives her strength to move on, I'm starting to like this woman. You won't know the hurts she has been through. Her eyes tells if you look closely. God be with you makiwa.

Amen o baby girl! We would think we are strong, we can't take that sheet from anyone, we are way beyond it...yet, when cupic shoots at our hearts we get brought to our knees. The strong becomes weak, dumb and outrightly crazy! Omg! Do you think she didn't know she shouldn't take any azzzzxhole that stood her up on wedding dates, that cheated and knocked someone else up? Whew! Sometimes when I place myself in position for Cupid, I dey just dulge anyhow. No be her fault, na her heart mess her up. I will try to read the book.


At least, she's making some fortune from her misfortune.

ehie:
She really went tru hell,may God save us from these types of husbands

Amen in Jesus name. Fire!!!!

I dont know what to say.

Heartbreak comes to everyone.

Toke toke toke take heart

Life is easier when you don't believe in Love.....

Justnora:
Can this lady just move on and leave that man alone... the pity party has to come to an end

Did you read the story? It's a beautiful moving story every one especially young ladies have to learn from. But no! Nigerians forbid to read

ItsawrapOutfit:
Forgive and forget

forgive but don't forget

Ginaz:
I pray God gives her strength to move on, I'm starting to like this woman. You won't know the hurts she has been through. Her eyes tells if you look closely. God be with you makiwa.

The story is an emotional masterpiece with good simplified diction. Understanding her plight really endeared her to me. I am gonna get the book and many more for young girls

Women should learn not to expect too much from a man, he is nothing but mere mortal bound to fail.

People have been through worse, move on

MrDojo:
Toke toke toke take heart
Life is easier when you don't believe in Love.....

hehehe guy i like dis ur comment abeg. Tiri gbosa for u

Move on dear

Why the hate? Must you comment? Show some empathy. No one's immune to life's challenges.

Toke, I lack words. May God comfort you.

Only those with a similar experience will feel a bit of what she went through
I can relate to everything she felt

Just keep growing strong
You will get there soon

She is a very strong woman..I really admire her resilience and hustling spirit..Thank God she didn't commit suicide,no man is worth it.I can't wait to get a copy of her book.