Guys often make the conclusion that girls are difficult and hard to understand but the truth is that girls are simple if you understand how they think. Guys need to understand that girls are not like guys and what they want is different from what you think. I am not here to teach you how to toast a girl/woman but to tell you the 5 mistakes guys make when wooing a girl :

1. Telling her you love her: This deserves to be on the first list because most guys are guilty of this. Guys always rush to tell a girl that they love her. You may be asking why is it wrong.

why it is wrong: Whenever you rush to tell this to a girl, she starts playing hard to get, disinterest, rejecting your calls, refusing to answer your text etc. A girl once told me she doesn’t like guys stopping her on the road and asking her out. Some girls can even be rude to you this is because she has no feelings for you. That’s why its better to be sure a girl loves you before you you tell her.

2. Nice guy Syndrome: People often asked why do good girls like bad guys and never nice guys. Guys often try to be nice to girls and always strive to please them but girls don’t notice them.

why: Girls often see nice as a result predictable and boring because all guys do the same . When you are nice to girls you easily get friend zoned. Girls see bad guys/players interesting, why? Because girls they make girls wonder(because they don’t please them) . Girls often fight for what they feel they can’t have. Nice guys often like their FB page, and give good comments on their pix even if it’s ugly.
MY point is that stop trying to please girls.

3. Begging her to date you: As foolish as it seems, but some guys go to the extent of begging girls to date them. The mistake is that you are giving her power over you.

why: When you beg girls to date you, you are giving her power over you in a relationship and that means you will do whatever she says to please her. If you beg her you are making her date you out of pity and will never take you seriously.

4. Bragging: A guy was bragging to a lady that he has master’s degree. Some brag about their life accomplishment.

why: What is a girls business with your qualification, that doesn’t make her date you. When ever you brag about your achievements you are telling the girl that she has higher standard than you and so you are trying to project your values to meet her level. She will never take you seriously.

5. Using wealth: Some guys who are not confident enough to woo a girl use their money or even car to woo. The funny thing is that even guys without money tries to woo girls with this method. I know some may disagree with me but wait let me tell you why.

why: Mariah Carey cheats on her million dollar fiancee with her backup dancer leading to their broke up. Despite her boyfriend is a billionaire she still dumb him for a better guy who is good in the game. If you use money to woo a girl,she may even use that same money to spend on another guy or another guy who is richer than you will snatch her from you.
Now Get me clear, am not saying guys should not spend money on girls, because girls like money. But don't use money to woo girl if not you will be her maga i.e She will only love you for what you have(money) not who you are(personality). If the girl starts disturbing you to give her money you will be complaining that she is a gold digger.

NB: There are other mistakes guys make that I have not included here, the article is already becoming long. May be I will continue in another thread.
These article is not totally conclusive therefore, I stand corrected.

Author : Kalatium
From:
www.kdpharm.

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Using wealth works most of the time here in 9ja coz 9ja babes love money as if there lives depend on it....

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adewumiopeyemi:
right nw woman wey won date a guy go first check wether the man get money because right nw... money will buy love.

Gbagam!. Gbagamer!! Gbagamest!!!

I'm convinced but I don't think I can agree on your Fact that using wealth in dealing with girls is a mistake... Nigerian girls can predict your networth just by sizing you up

Ops tell me who poverty don help before and after dating a girl.

Op abeg no fall my hand naa, abi u no be nigerian, sharperlly remove that no 5 joor

ok....seen

amerimex:
Op abeg no fall my hand naa, abi u no be nigerian, sharperlly remove that no 5 joor

Am a Nigerian and I know what's going on, I am not saying you can't toast girl with money but am saying is not always right because when she meets a richer guys , she will definitely dumb you.
Other guys like Charles Nneji and Harddon support what am saying.

soloroyality:
Ops tell me who poverty don help before and after dating a girl.

I no talk say make u no spend money for your Babe. I said don't use money to toast her

Awwwwn, dats y I love my seun

1. Get two slices of bread

2. Spray with margarine

3. Put your sauce ( eggs, sardine, tomatoes, chilly pepper , seasoning etc)

4. Cover the slice with another slice, place into the toaster.. and wait for 2- 5 minutes.

5. Serve with chilled drinks .



There op you have your toast

Diddyydiva:
1. Get two slices of bread

2. Spray with margarine

3. Put your sauce ( eggs, sardine, tomatoes, chilly pepper , seasoning etc)

4. Cover the slice with another slice, place into the toaster.. and wait for 2- 5 minutes.

5. Serve with chilled drinks .



There op you have your toast

No be that kind toast I dey talk about

Kalatium:

4. Bragging: A guy was bragging to a lady that he has master’s degree. Some brag about their life accomplishment.

Funny thing is women don't care about your qualification or what you do or how intelligent u are.

their question: Do you have money or not ? Do u drive a car? i want comfort please.

Kalatium:

No be that kind toast I dey talk about

Use 'woo' not toast


You toast bread and woo ladies

Diddyydiva:
Use 'woo' not toast

You toast bread and woo ladies

Miss Teacher. Continue!

mrblessed:
Miss Teacher. Continue!

Are we bread?

emryxleena:
I'm convinced but I don't think I can agree on your Fact that using wealth in dealing with girls is a mistake... Nigerian girls can predict your networth just by sizing you up

Networth ke? Even basketworth sef!
These girls can beat hawks at d game called...who wants to see a millionaire... From 11000feet!

In naija, once you have money, all pusys will be yours, you go fucccck married women join.

Diddyydiva:
Are we bread?

Nope. But I often hear people saying they eat the V part of women. Please don't write a reply.

Youngpo413:
In naija, once you have money, all pusys will be yours, you go fucccck married women join.

Hehehe

mrblessed:
Nope. But I often hear people saying they eat the V part of women. Please don't write a reply.

You can't always have your last say with me Mr

Diddyydiva:


You can't always have your last say with me Mr

Nawa for you. Even with all the begging? Today na Sunday o!

mrblessed:
Nawa for you. Even with all the begging? Today na Sunday o!

Happy Sunday

Diddyydiva:
Happy Sunday

I wish you peace of mind.

mrblessed:
I wish you peace of mind.

Same here