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| Should I Call Him First? by damjane(f): 4:43pm On Nov 27, 2016 |
Every girl in this part of the world have probably asked this question at one point in time, "should i call him back." You meet a guy for the first time, you both click, you exchange numbers, and as a naija babe you are expecting him to call you back but he doesn't. First you thought maybe he forgot, but then it's been a week now and you are asking yourself if you should call him first. In Nigeria, when a girl finds herself in this kind of situation you hear stuff like, you are going to appear cheap and desperate, he is not going to respect you, a guy is suppose to be the one calling, and so many other trash. The truth is that many things could have prevented him from calling you back, it could be that he forgot, it be that he misplaced your number, it could also be that he is not that into you. Whatever the case may be, one thing I know for sure is that a guy would not take is time to approach a lady, collect her number and not be interested in something. So girlfriend, be a big girl, pick up that phone and call him back. Who cares if you are the first to call, a guy who would stay would do so regardless of who calls back first. http://bluelizzblog..co.ke/2016/11/should-i-call-him-first.html?m=1 2 Likes
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| Re: Should I Call Him First? by henrydadon(m): 4:46pm On Nov 27, 2016 |
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| Re: Should I Call Him First? by ObioratheBully: 4:48pm On Nov 27, 2016 |
I think it's a brave decision if she decides to call first, I won't mind.. Cant speak for other men (Nigerian men) |
| Re: Should I Call Him First? by ObioratheBully: 4:49pm On Nov 27, 2016 |
1 Like |
| Re: Should I Call Him First? by 2dice01: 4:51pm On Nov 27, 2016 |
9ja ladies will rather die in loneliness than go with diss advice |
| Re: Should I Call Him First? by QueenSuccubus(f): 4:52pm On Nov 27, 2016 |
Hell naaah... I won't call first..  Some mumu guyz, wud even pretend they didn't see u we're calling...  1 Like |
| Re: Should I Call Him First? by iamDaisy(f): 4:54pm On Nov 27, 2016 |
call him  |
| Re: Should I Call Him First? by Nobody: 4:55pm On Nov 27, 2016 |
Okay |
| Re: Should I Call Him First? by ojun50(m): 4:56pm On Nov 27, 2016 |
Most hungry 9ja babes behave that way |
| Re: Should I Call Him First? by Davash222(m): 4:57pm On Nov 27, 2016 |
QueenSuccubus:No wonder you are still single at 38. |
| Re: Should I Call Him First? by Nobody: 4:57pm On Nov 27, 2016 |
She should call first. The ones that form are the cheap hoes. I see no reason why a lady wl wait for a guy to call and text first . It's stupidity. .its naija mentality. Foolishness. And no be say, d girl fine. The ugly ones form a lot . #YOLO 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Call Him First? by Luckygurl(f): 4:58pm On Nov 27, 2016 |
Lol!! My first and present boyfriend requested for my contact but I declined and asked for his instead. I collected it nonchalantly, like it was obvious it was a means of telling him off and he had this look of defeat on his face while I had this smirk on my own face I called him that day at night and we clicked off. So ladies!! It's no biggie if you're the one to call first, I mean it makes no difference  3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Should I Call Him First? by Nobody: 4:59pm On Nov 27, 2016 |
dont do it love....hes gonn think less of ya 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Call Him First? by QueenSuccubus(f): 5:00pm On Nov 27, 2016 |
| Re: Should I Call Him First? by Nobody: 5:01pm On Nov 27, 2016 |
iamDaisy: U don't need to waste ur airtime calling For one like you? He won't hesitate to call #YOLO |
| Re: Should I Call Him First? by Nobody: 5:01pm On Nov 27, 2016 |
Luckygurl:you should call me....i can be an assistant when his away |
| Re: Should I Call Him First? by makydebbie(f): 5:01pm On Nov 27, 2016 |
I'll call first if I want to. But I would have practised with the mirror a million times before calling |
| Re: Should I Call Him First? by Nobody: 5:02pm On Nov 27, 2016 |
QueenSuccubus:no wonder....i noticed this one was strange |
| Re: Should I Call Him First? by Nobody: 5:03pm On Nov 27, 2016 |
Nope. I ain't calling first because I never asked for his number. He took mine and gave me his so that I know who is calling me. 2 Likes |
| Re: Should I Call Him First? by ObioratheBully: 5:04pm On Nov 27, 2016 |
| Re: Should I Call Him First? by iamDaisy(f): 5:05pm On Nov 27, 2016 |
ObioratheBully:living life 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Call Him First? by ObioratheBully: 5:22pm On Nov 27, 2016 |
iamDaisy:Apparently.. How are you? You forgot to drop the number we talked about  |
| Re: Should I Call Him First? by ikp120(m): 5:26pm On Nov 27, 2016 |
What do ladies even feel like? Like the world revolve about their bum bum? What is the big deal in who calls who first? Is this how insecure these girls are? Abeg Shiloh go soon start o... 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Call Him First? by ikp120(m): 5:27pm On Nov 27, 2016 |
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| Re: Should I Call Him First? by osmodes(m): 5:28pm On Nov 27, 2016 |
its no big deal, I respect ladies who can b so mature to call first cos that makes me feel like I lose it as a man, so I will pick up the challenge, call her 5times to show how much I appreciate that one time call. just about maturity though. 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Call Him First? by Nobody: 5:29pm On Nov 27, 2016 |
Most girls I meet usually flash first b4 I call |
| Re: Should I Call Him First? by Laveda(f): 5:31pm On Nov 27, 2016 |
If the guy left a good impression, I'll call him. No biggie.  1 Like |
| Re: Should I Call Him First? by tosyne2much(m): 5:33pm On Nov 27, 2016 |
richommie:Spot on baba |
| Re: Should I Call Him First? by OXCUBA: 5:33pm On Nov 27, 2016 |
QueenSuccubus: YOUR EGO ... WON'T LEAD YOU FAR. |
| Re: Should I Call Him First? by tosyne2much(m): 5:34pm On Nov 27, 2016 |
makydebbie:SMH |
| Re: Should I Call Him First? by makydebbie(f): 5:36pm On Nov 27, 2016 |
tosyne2much:I'm just being truthful  |
| Re: Should I Call Him First? by tosyne2much(m): 5:36pm On Nov 27, 2016 |
Sometimes, I wonder the kinds of immature guys you ladies flock with that make you wallow in the mentality that a guy would treat you like poo if you call him first .. Only a silly guy would go about displaying childishness when a lady calls him first 1 Like |
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