| Re: How I Was Set-up By My Neighbour by Franky826: 7:22pm On Dec 05, 2016 |
7Alexander:
What you are about to read happened to me last week, I just had to bring it here, because the more I try to wrap my head around it, the more questions comes to mind.
About a month ago I moved to another city, but considering its a totally different culture, I have just been gradually trying to settle in. So, on Tuesday Last week, I noticed a plumbing issue in my room, for which I went to seek the caretaker who lives within the compound. I later found him in one of the rooms trying to fix some things for another new tenant who I will refer to as Sandra henceforth. I laid my complaints to the man and briefly spoke with Sandra who told me aje was an undergraduate.
About an hour later, the caretaker came to my room to checkout the problem I was having, Sandra came with him, and as we were making small talks, she walked into my kitchen and pointed out that my pots and other cooking utensils were still new and unused, then i told her I haven't started cooking because I don't know my way around yet, so I haven't been to the market. She then offered to go to the market with me whenever I was ready.
The next day being Wednesday I made a list of things to buy, among which were some packaged and canned foods, for this we went to a mall. After picking the items, we had to join the queue at the payment point, while there, I remembered some things which I needed but haven't included in my list, so I handed over my ATM card to Sandra and gave her the PIN considering it was almost our turn in the queue, then went to pick those things. Now, I did this because, I didn't want a situation where after paying for the original items, I will have to join a fresh queue with the new items. Although I came back just as she was about to pay, so I was able to include the new items, we laid and left. Suffice to say that I had her pick one or two things for herself.
On getting home, I immediately went to an ATM and changed my PIN, just to be safe.
Two days later, Sandra came to my room sound 7:15pm telling me she wanted to go buy relaxer and shampoo but as its getting dark that she can't go alone, and she asked that I come with her, I obliged, as you would expect.
After buying the shampoo, we started heading home. Now, there are two possible routes home, the sandy road which was nearer and the tarred road which was farther, Sandra then insisted we take the tarred road saying she didn't want sand on her feet, but that was the route we took while going.
Just as we approached my compound, 3 guys rounded us up and told us to handover everything we had on us. I have to point out that after this whole incident, I could recall that while we were walking home, Sandra was texting on her phone and kept looking back. When one of the guys made the request, Sandra now asked them 'for what' immediately one of the guys landed her a slap and pushed her down. Then he turned to me and gave me a blow to the mouth saying I was wasting his time, then he reached for my back pocket and retrieved my wallet, then he asked me the PIN, I gave him a wrong PIN the first time and this was met with a hot slap to my face, then he asked again and i gave him the same PIN again, then he gave me a kick to the hip, I was almost paralyzed, he now grabbed my throat, I had no choice than to give him the real PIN, then he left me and they ran off. Interestingly, the PIN I gave to him was the old PIN which I changed few days ago, but my intention was not to lie, in fact I meant to tell the truth, but then that PIN had stuck to my memeory as I have been using it for the past 3 years.
Immediately they left, I made a dash for my room, with Sandra in hot pursuit, but I didn't let her come to my room with me, I called the bank Customer Service and told them to block my card, although the thieves had the wrong PIN, I felt they could still compromise the card.
The next day, Sandra was in my room and she kept trying to get me to talk about the incident of the last day, but I wasnt interested, she kept asking me, if the PIN I gave them was the right one, I mean it should be, after all that was the right PIN as far as she knew, she asked if I could recognize the guys, I said no, she asked if its possible for the card to be hacked without the PIN, I was just acting ignorant, but I've already started having my reservations about her.
Later, I decided out of curiosity to check Sandra out on Facebook, while checking the photos on her profile, I saw pictures she took and uploaded with the same guy that slapped and pushed her down while we were been robbed, I was dumbfounded to say the least.
Then it became clear to me, she set me up to be robbed. Now my questions are,
Why did she insist we take the tarred road, considering we took the sandy road while going to the Shop
How come the thieves reached straight into the pocket with my wallet?
How come they never asked for our mobile phones, naturally, that should be their first question
How come immediately I gave the guy the 'right' PIN he acceded?
Who was Sandra texting while we walked home
And, the FB picture shows she knows the guy after all.
My problem now is, should I confront Sandra d tell her I know what happened or should I just let it slide? Since that day she's been trying to cozy up to me, but the more she tries the more I become worried and wary.
Lalasticlala Oga give that girl the kinda space that the sun gave the earth. if you wanna talk at all with her let it be a monotonous reply to her questions or greetings. Then always wear a white shirt and write on it 'I know what you did' and always sit where she can see you. she will suddenly crack and come and beg or confess to you. meanwhile you need to make an official police report |
| Re: How I Was Set-up By My Neighbour by Nobody: 7:33pm On Dec 05, 2016 |
Zoharariel:
You're a fool for being foolish & deliberately playing into her hands.
If you were my younger brother, I would have given you a few punches to the throat before telling you what to do.
What is your business in bringing a total stranger into your new rented apartment?
Fine! You went looking for the caretaker & you met him in her room. You could have just called him out & lay your complaints, hence, she wouldn't have had the effrontery to coming into your apartment & be poking her filthy nose in your kitchen.
We capricorns do not give room to carelessness & costly mistakes. Y would I even go to the mall with a female neighbour? Even if I want fvck her, I would take her to a beer parlour or a restaurant and not to the mall.
My guess is, you wanted to lure her into your bed through the show of wealth & promise of comfort.
Now, listen to me you dickhead - Don't just go to any police station, go to an Area Command & report this incident to the Area Commander or the ACP, if not, I will be very impressed if you live to see 2017 because they're surely coming back for you.
And if by now, you still haven't copied the pictorial evidence from her facebook page, then you're a brain-dead lummox! I could pick some senses from your post. And why do people think that any interaction or correspondence a guy has with a lady is with the intent of sex? But what's with the name calling  Simply amazing. You really are amazing. 4 Likes |
| Re: How I Was Set-up By My Neighbour by Nobody: 7:37pm On Dec 05, 2016 |
The only thing I will fault you for is being naive
Do not give a stranger access to private info without knowing their background.
Now like someone said earlier she could be reading this thread
If you can relocate but assemble all evidence start observing more when you are safe you can now follow up and start a case
I have found that just because they smile with you doesn't mean their not plotting against you..the texting the strange questions you live amongst thieves my pad to was stolen and sent to Abuja
I lost 2 phones and I know how they went missing they just don't know God is above |
| Re: How I Was Set-up By My Neighbour by Nemesis99(m): 7:43pm On Dec 05, 2016 |
Person wey plan robbery fit plan assassination. Bro you've got to be really careful around that babe. By the way, bring your head make i Konk you. Never ever give your pin to anyone next time... 1 Like |
| Re: How I Was Set-up By My Neighbour by Nobody: 7:45pm On Dec 05, 2016 |
Op, one rule about life is this : Never ever and i mean ever trust anybody with your atm pin. No matter what.
When it comes to money matters,nobody is to be trusted.
Because of money issues, a Pastor's wife set up myex fiance and they beat us black and blue. My eyes nearly went blind and immediately rushed to the theatre, cos i sustained broken fingers and wrist.
The thieves were caught and one of them confessed it was the pastor's wife who gave information that my ex fiance was coming back.to the country that evening.
With that experience, nothing on earth will make me trust any human being when it comes to money. Be it guy , be it lady . Nothing.
Just ignore her and stop being her friend .. Just hello hi finish.
But u sef sabi fall for woman o
Women are the traps set these days for their bfs to commit armed robbery.
So beware. 2 Likes |
| Re: How I Was Set-up By My Neighbour by Agimor(m): 7:46pm On Dec 05, 2016 |
Op for your safety is better you relocate or better still report the issue to the police alongside the guy pic with the girl. |
| Re: How I Was Set-up By My Neighbour by Nobody: 7:52pm On Dec 05, 2016 |
Zoharariel:
You're a fool for being foolish & deliberately playing into her hands.
If you were my younger brother, I would have given you a few punches to the throat before telling you what to do.
What is your business in bringing a total stranger into your new rented apartment?
Fine! You went looking for the caretaker & you met him in her room. You could have just called him out & lay your complaints, hence, she wouldn't have had the effrontery to coming into your apartment & be poking her filthy nose in your kitchen.
We capricorns do not give room to carelessness & costly mistakes. Y would I even go to the mall with a female neighbour? Even if I want fvck her, I would take her to a beer parlour or a restaurant and not to the mall.
My guess is, you wanted to lure her into your bed through the show of wealth & promise of comfort.
Now, listen to me you dickhead - Don't just go to any police station, go to an Area Command & report this incident to the Area Commander or the ACP, if not, I will be very impressed if you live to see 2017 because they're surely coming back for you.
And if by now, you still haven't copied the pictorial evidence from her facebook page, then you're a brain-dead lummox! Capricorns wil never make such foolissh mistake lai lai.. When it comes to.money, as in lemme escort u to bank or lemme escort u to atm? . Mbanu! Our love no reach that level , our friendship sef no reach such level at all. If am going to the bank and u ask me,bae where are u heading to? I wil simply lie, i want to meet up with a client at his office.. Simple. Make i folow nah? I will look at the friend , follow who? I will just walk away and stylishly look at my back if he or she is following me. Thats how careful we are.. I was so unfortunate to date that unfortunate ex, with his blabbing mouth on how rich he is and how much money he was pumping into his new building.. Thats how pastor wife eye enter our body. Mehn never date or marry a guy or a lady who blabbes about money and wealth. Very risky.. Extremely risky. 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How I Was Set-up By My Neighbour by Elhabeeb1(m): 7:56pm On Dec 05, 2016 |
Bros no need for all the questions in your head. You was very foolish to have given her your ATM, she should have just waited for you in the queue and allow the next person behind her to make payment till you come back. Meanwhile you better go straight to the police and tell them exactly what happen including the guy in the Facebook because they will surely comeback for you and if they suspect that you know them, they might kill you. Go to the police if you don't want to be killed!!!!!!!!!!! 1 Like |
| Re: How I Was Set-up By My Neighbour by saintdennis(m): 7:59pm On Dec 05, 2016 |
oyb:
Leave that place or that Biatch will have them rob you there. You are not safe. Other option, If you have some tight soldier friends you can arrange to have her roughed up (preferably after you have left the place.
Leave. She and her cult friends will not stop. You must be a learner sha In 2012 A popular uniben student was killed in his final year. Contrary to what people thought, He wasnt actually set up , it was just an opportunistic crime, but guess what? It was an issue that happened in his 100lvl n he went to carry soldiers. To play the cultists, they also signed agreement that nothing will happen to him. Well hand meet am last last. Best way to handle cultist? Silence 3 Likes |
| Re: How I Was Set-up By My Neighbour by AlphaCentauri: 8:00pm On Dec 05, 2016 |
IbroMaka:
E be like say u dey maddd.. If u don't know shiiit, just shut the hell up..
Wetin u think say happen to all dem chics sent to kpai james bond ... Forget say na film, na intelligence
OP do wetin all these mofos tell u and get wasted fast... otherwise scroll back to my advice and thank me later. ? james bond ? a fictional character ? |
| Re: How I Was Set-up By My Neighbour by Ad0rable: 8:04pm On Dec 05, 2016 |
If Sandra is a niaralander, then bros that girl & her accomplices could murder u, involve the police |
| Re: How I Was Set-up By My Neighbour by pricipal2003(m): 8:13pm On Dec 05, 2016 |
She probably checked ur account balance with the ATM card and decided to help herself wth some cash. You made a terrible mistake by revealing ur pin to a stranger. Man, u gat to pray and also be careful around cos the last may not ve been heard from those guys, moreso as the deal was not successful |
| Re: How I Was Set-up By My Neighbour by Nobody: 8:21pm On Dec 05, 2016 |
Jonwesley:
Ekosodin, I think is where the OP is living. Den of rogues, and free women Why do you think so? |
| Re: How I Was Set-up By My Neighbour by Nobody: 8:22pm On Dec 05, 2016 |
eledalo:
7Alexander:
so I handed over my ATM card to Sandra and gave her the PIN
No offence, but it was from this line I know you are a fool, and I feel bad for anyone who knows you because you are a brainless liability.
Don't ever call lalasticlala for this kind of thread again.
In fact your story is just stupid. You gave her your card and pin to pay for some items, then left to pick up some other items. So you would still have to collect your Atm card and join the line in order to pay for the new items. Then what was the point of giving her the card and pin. You'd still have to use it for your new items.
If this story is real, then you are the dumbest person on nairaland.
If it is not, then you are the dumbest person on nairaland.
Tosyne2much: 10 reasons why Sandra should rob 7Alexander again I think you are the one stupid here..y insulting him 2 Likes |
| Re: How I Was Set-up By My Neighbour by VictorRomanov: 8:24pm On Dec 05, 2016 |
Kingbuhari:
but u gv her ur ATM pin u sud worry 4ur safety , bcux her friends will cum 4the real pin, u dnt knw ur way arnd, why not pick a cab for ur shopping, u hv interest in that gul... guy abeg make we tell ourselves the truth... I be guy man like u oooo Guy, if u no get wetin to talk, u no go bounce? Which point u wan prove? Even if he likes the girl then what? How has that answered the question of what he should do? U just dey find talk like say u be woman. 2 Likes |
| Re: How I Was Set-up By My Neighbour by VictorRomanov: 8:28pm On Dec 05, 2016 |
eledalo:
7Alexander:
so I handed over my ATM card to Sandra and gave her the PIN
No offence, but it was from this line I know you are a fool, and I feel bad for anyone who knows you because you are a brainless liability.
Don't ever call lalasticlala for this kind of thread again.
In fact your story is just stupid. You gave her your card and pin to pay for some items, then left to pick up some other items. So you would still have to collect your Atm card and join the line in order to pay for the new items. Then what was the point of giving her the card and pin. You'd still have to use it for your new items.
If this story is real, then you are the dumbest person on nairaland.
If it is not, then you are the dumbest person on nairaland.
Tosyne2much: 10 reasons why Sandra should rob 7Alexander again U didn't make any single sense. Just insults and insults. Maybe u don't know what a POS is. U can't make a withdrawal through it, neither can u check an account balance. He was smart enough to change the pin 5 mins later. You were not smart enough to read that part. 1 Like |
| Re: How I Was Set-up By My Neighbour by Nobody: 8:30pm On Dec 05, 2016 |
saintdennis:
You must be a learner sha
In 2012 A popular uniben student was killed in his final year.
Contrary to what people thought, He wasnt actually set up , it was just an opportunistic crime, but guess what?
It was an issue that happened in his 100lvl n he went to carry soldiers. To play the cultists, they also signed agreement that nothing will happen to him.
Well hand meet am last last.
Best way to handle cultist? Silence young man keep on thugging. 95% of you will not end well. 1 Like |
| Re: How I Was Set-up By My Neighbour by bigtt76(f): 8:44pm On Dec 05, 2016 |
She gave the PIN to the boys and also you spotted her on FB with one of the boys and you're still wondering? Is it until they kill you before you accept that she set you up?  7Alexander:
Its not about male or female, it was about convenience. Meanwhile, immediately we came back I had the PIN changed. So there was no special benefits from her having access to the card for that 5mins |
| Re: How I Was Set-up By My Neighbour by saintdennis(m): 8:46pm On Dec 05, 2016 |
oyb:
young man keep on thugging. 95% of you will not end well. Are you senile? What n what did I type there to gave u the idea i'm a thug? This is what irks me about NL, filled with people who can't read |
| Re: How I Was Set-up By My Neighbour by Malayy(m): 8:52pm On Dec 05, 2016 |
braxjay:
your story doesn't add up.
firstly if you have ever been mugged you know the first thing in most cases is a beat down-- phones - - then cash. if they wanted the ATM they would have taken you to the bank to do the withdrawal.
if they already had the pin why bother asking for it and leaving when you said the right one ? common sense points that to the girl directly.
paying with POS doesn't show how much you have in your account. so what aroused her interest ?
you were asked to escort, y did you have to carry your ATM and not some spare change ?
sorry if its true but all i see here is a made up story for your mind, you are smart.. hehehehehe.. dumb detectives.. |
| Re: How I Was Set-up By My Neighbour by lieutenantHaven: 8:52pm On Dec 05, 2016 |
Guy. If I were u...I wil strike 1st. Import ur guys from ESUT, strike them hard, including " voluptuos sandra". That way there will b no chance for them to plan on coming for the right pin. According to the 48 laws of power. Crush ur enemy totally. |
| Re: How I Was Set-up By My Neighbour by Sultty(m): 9:08pm On Dec 05, 2016 |
7Alexander:
What you are about to read happened to me last week, I just had to bring it here, because the more I try to wrap my head around it, the more questions comes to mind.
About a month ago I moved to another city, but considering its a totally different culture, I have just been gradually trying to settle in. So, on Tuesday Last week, I noticed a plumbing issue in my room, for which I went to seek the caretaker who lives within the compound. I later found him in one of the rooms trying to fix some things for another new tenant who I will refer to as Sandra henceforth. I laid my complaints to the man and briefly spoke with Sandra who told me aje was an undergraduate.
About an hour later, the caretaker came to my room to checkout the problem I was having, Sandra came with him, and as we were making small talks, she walked into my kitchen and pointed out that my pots and other cooking utensils were still new and unused, then i told her I haven't started cooking because I don't know my way around yet, so I haven't been to the market. She then offered to go to the market with me whenever I was ready.
The next day being Wednesday I made a list of things to buy, among which were some packaged and canned foods, for this we went to a mall. After picking the items, we had to join the queue at the payment point, while there, I remembered some things which I needed but haven't included in my list, so I handed over my ATM card to Sandra and gave her the PIN considering it was almost our turn in the queue, then went to pick those things. Now, I did this because, I didn't want a situation where after paying for the original items, I will have to join a fresh queue with the new items. Although I came back just as she was about to pay, so I was able to include the new items, we laid and left. Suffice to say that I had her pick one or two things for herself.
On getting home, I immediately went to an ATM and changed my PIN, just to be safe.
Two days later, Sandra came to my room sound 7:15pm telling me she wanted to go buy relaxer and shampoo but as its getting dark that she can't go alone, and she asked that I come with her, I obliged, as you would expect.
After buying the shampoo, we started heading home. Now, there are two possible routes home, the sandy road which was nearer and the tarred road which was farther, Sandra then insisted we take the tarred road saying she didn't want sand on her feet, but that was the route we took while going.
Just as we approached my compound, 3 guys rounded us up and told us to handover everything we had on us. I have to point out that after this whole incident, I could recall that while we were walking home, Sandra was texting on her phone and kept looking back. When one of the guys made the request, Sandra now asked them 'for what' immediately one of the guys landed her a slap and pushed her down. Then he turned to me and gave me a blow to the mouth saying I was wasting his time, then he reached for my back pocket and retrieved my wallet, then he asked me the PIN, I gave him a wrong PIN the first time and this was met with a hot slap to my face, then he asked again and i gave him the same PIN again, then he gave me a kick to the hip, I was almost paralyzed, he now grabbed my throat, I had no choice than to give him the real PIN, then he left me and they ran off. Interestingly, the PIN I gave to him was the old PIN which I changed few days ago, but my intention was not to lie, in fact I meant to tell the truth, but then that PIN had stuck to my memeory as I have been using it for the past 3 years.
Immediately they left, I made a dash for my room, with Sandra in hot pursuit, but I didn't let her come to my room with me, I called the bank Customer Service and told them to block my card, although the thieves had the wrong PIN, I felt they could still compromise the card.
The next day, Sandra was in my room and she kept trying to get me to talk about the incident of the last day, but I wasnt interested, she kept asking me, if the PIN I gave them was the right one, I mean it should be, after all that was the right PIN as far as she knew, she asked if I could recognize the guys, I said no, she asked if its possible for the card to be hacked without the PIN, I was just acting ignorant, but I've already started having my reservations about her.
Later, I decided out of curiosity to check Sandra out on Facebook, while checking the photos on her profile, I saw pictures she took and uploaded with the same guy that slapped and pushed her down while we were been robbed, I was dumbfounded to say the least.
Then it became clear to me, she set me up to be robbed. Now my questions are,
Why did she insist we take the tarred road, considering we took the sandy road while going to the Shop
How come the thieves reached straight into the pocket with my wallet?
How come they never asked for our mobile phones, naturally, that should be their first question
How come immediately I gave the guy the 'right' PIN he acceded?
Who was Sandra texting while we walked home
And, the FB picture shows she knows the guy after all.
My problem now is, should I confront Sandra d tell her I know what happened or should I just let it slide? Since that day she's been trying to cozy up to me, but the more she tries the more I become worried and wary.
Lalasticlala tell her that now and they will kuku complete d of finishing u, u just go get police involved and get her and d culprits arrested. It's the wisest thing to do, don't let it slide or except u made this story up |
| Re: How I Was Set-up By My Neighbour by Malayy(m): 9:17pm On Dec 05, 2016 |
7Alexander:
Thanks bro, it all sounds so sweet and funny, but guys here do not know I almost peed on my shorts that day, I was scared to death.
This is a new environment, I know absolutely nobody, even my family are yet to visit. It was bloody scary bro pack out from that vicinity. yes, you might seem a coward. yes, be a coward and save your life.. you are still important to your family and real friends.. Niaja police, don't trust them.. |
| Re: How I Was Set-up By My Neighbour by Kingbuhari(m): 9:19pm On Dec 05, 2016 |
VictorRomanov:
Guy, if u no get wetin to talk, u no go bounce? Which point u wan prove? Even if he likes the girl then what? How has that answered the question of what he should do? U just dey find talk like say u be woman. 
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| Re: How I Was Set-up By My Neighbour by chigoizie7(m): 9:20pm On Dec 05, 2016 |
If na when ma pikin still de live all those kind life. And with all these evidences, I go track that guy man, den rough handle him, bring him to confess b4 Sandra. And then free them both.
But b4 then, I will tell Sandra, " if I could trust u enough to drop my PIN and card to a total stranger like, what makes u think that I will not GIVE u if u had asked?" well, bitches will always be one.
That girl no go ever look me ever again for face, na shame go carry her packout for the compound. |
| Re: How I Was Set-up By My Neighbour by Nobody: 9:24pm On Dec 05, 2016 |
luckily you weren't hurt but you shouldn't have given her your pin or trusted her in the first place. what were you thinking?
your safety's at stake now because that girl and her friends are dangerous. they might come back for you, so whatchu gon' do to protect yourself? best bet is for you to move, if you can. be safe. 1 Like |
| Re: How I Was Set-up By My Neighbour by Kingbuhari(m): 9:29pm On Dec 05, 2016 |
abbeyty:
dont mind the guy, he is trying so hard to justify his pin number he gave to a girl he just met for a few days even some couples keep their pin numbers as secret from each other, na pusssy wan kill am he better thank his star that those guys did not slice his throat just cuz of few thousands he has in his account guy u grab wetin I dey talk... he deliberately gave a stranger he barely knw his ATM pin Number... the guy nah women lapper... make he pray those guys no change mind visit him for night 1 Like |
| Re: How I Was Set-up By My Neighbour by Kingbuhari(m): 9:30pm On Dec 05, 2016 |
VictorRomanov:
Guy, if u no get wetin to talk, u no go bounce? Which point u wan prove? Even if he likes the girl then what? How has that answered the question of what he should do? U just dey find talk like say u be woman. help me close ur mouth... birth of the same feathers |
| Re: How I Was Set-up By My Neighbour by VictorRomanov: 9:38pm On Dec 05, 2016 |
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| Re: How I Was Set-up By My Neighbour by VictorRomanov: 9:40pm On Dec 05, 2016 |
Kingbuhari:
help me close ur mouth... birth of the same feathers No be only ''birth'', na bed. With ur level of reasoning i wonder how u dey mumu everyday. |
| Re: How I Was Set-up By My Neighbour by Kingbuhari(m): 9:42pm On Dec 05, 2016 |
VictorRomanov:
No be only ''birth'', na bed. With ur level of reasoning i wonder how u dey mumu everyday. ewu bird of the same feathers... TUFIAKWA |
| Re: How I Was Set-up By My Neighbour by Kingbuhari(m): 9:44pm On Dec 05, 2016 |
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