Respect is not bought but earned. Just like this statement is true for your work place, it also holds true for your relationship. Respect is a very important component of a relationship. You can probably stay together without love, but if there is no respect for each other, then the relationship is doomed. Men can earn their respect by doing a good job, taking care of their girl, being chivalrous etc. But many a times women expect to be respected without doing anything to earn respect.

You cannot have a demanding appraoch in a relationship You must know what men love in women the most if you want to earn the respect that is due to you. Here are some suggestions.

Do not dress like a cheap girl: Men might love women who dress in skimpy clothes. However, this love is restricted to their eyes. They might leach at a girl who is dressed in a cheap way but they will never take such a girl home to introduce her to their mother(guy’s mom). Dress professionally and in a decent way to get the respect that you deserve.

Don’t be too available: Men love women who know how to carry themselves with dignity. If you are going to giggle at silly jokes and fall over him while talking, he will never take you seriously. You need to have a strong personality and conduct yourself in a manner that will make him respect you. This does not mean that you stop laughing and talking altogether. You just have to know when to talk and at what point to bless him with your laughter.

Earn his mother’s respect: All men look up to their mothers as the perfect example of womanhood. It does not matter whether you like your boyfriend’s mother or not. But earning her respect is going play the most vital role in your relationship. When you meet your boyfriend’s mother, do not give away to much about yourself. Gauge her personality first and then frame your response accordingly.

Never keep conditions: Men hate to be tied down. If you are going to keep conditions for him from the beginning of your relationship, he will never respect you. Try to be a little selfless in your dealings with him. Instead of forcing him to party with you every weekend, cook once in a while. Stay home for a movie night and have fun.

Be his Life-Manager: Most men are clumsy by nature. They like to have someone to clean up their mess. That is why men love women who can handle the tiny details of their life. For example, remind him of their bill payment dates, get a new set of undergarments for him and be his financial account keeper.

You must be able to challenge your man’s expectations from you and outshine them every time. These are some difficult but reliable ways to earn respect from your man. g cruel with you, do share with us.

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respect is reciprocal...

you respect me ; i will respect you.

OP

You tried a bit with your postulations. However, those aren't solutions instead they're just like placebos.

The fundamental matters a lot in anything. One cannot give on a permanent basis that which s/he doesn't innately have. One's ethical philosophy is the realistic determinant factor of her attributes and by extension some attitudes. There are two types of ethical philosophies, viz: (a) manipulator and (b) diplomat.

- A person of manipulative ethical leaning always choose expediency over principle. She's superficial, therefore for her to feel respected by her man/for her man to gain her respect, the man must pay for it materially. And the very moment the man lose his control power (the material thing), she will jettison him/feel disrespected/withdraw her feigned respect and affection for the man. She's conceited, ungrateful, pretentious, hypocritical ect. Her second name is vice.

- Meanwhile, a person of diplomatic ethical leaning always choose principle over expediency. She's not superficial, all you need to have her feel respected/gain her respect are altruism, civility, fidelity, ambition and industriousness. Here you've a realist. She's contented, grateful, honest, civil, reciprocative etc. In fact, she's a virtuous woman.

In summary, both men and women should endeavour to know their ethical personalities and choose as life partners one that shares same with them.

"Manipulators lose credibility diplomats gain it."

"It only takes a self-realized person to treat others (irrespective of social strata) as equals."

Jenny1010:
respect is reciprocal...

you respect me ; i will respect you.

How dare you say that....

Diplomaticbeing:
OP

You tried a bit with your postulations. However, those aren't solutions instead they're just like placebos.

The fundamentals matters a lot. One cannot give on permanent basis that which s/he doesn't innately have. One's ethical philosophy is the realistic determinant factor of her attractions. There are two types of ethical philosophies, viz: (a) manipulators and (b) diplomats.

- A person of manipulative ethical leaning always choose expediency over principle. She's superficial, therefore to gain her respect you must pay for it materially. And the very moment you lose your control power (the material thing), she will jettison you. She's conceited, ungrateful, pretentious, hypocritical ect. Her second name is vice.

- Meanwhile, a person of diplomatic ethical leaning always choose principle over expediency. She's not superficial, all you need to gain her respect is altruism. Here you've a realist. She's contented, grateful, honest, civil etc. In fact, she's a virtuous woman.

In summary, both men and women should endeavour to know their ethical personalities and choose as life partners one that shares same with them.

It only takes a self-realized person to treat others (irrespective of social strata) as equals.

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op u tried, but der are far more than u postulate.
1st nd foremost, a woman shud appreciate nd accept d difference btw man nd woman; women are emotional being, so are reactionary witut analysis by nature, wch is a rebellious trait as seen by men. Men on d other are rational being, so much analysis is done within nd debated for informed decision to b reached: agreed, it culd b tym consumin. man nd woman are nt same, both in thot nd wants, we don't function and act d same way, we are nt equals! culturally nd by responsibility.
For a man respect is all that matters, it points to a woman's loyalty.
Now, it's liken to this; An elder that is respected is sum1 that is honoured nd revered; h/s occupies a pride of place in pipos heart. u trust his/her decisions nd judgements, wen he/she talks everyone listens nd his or her advises are nt treated as a trash. wen he/she is sighted, approval, hapinex nd joy rends d atmosphere; he/she is wanted. he/she receives overwhelming volunteering nd goodwill .......... So so many tinx are akin in relationship to d above with same formula nd d result is d same every time nd everywhere.
A woman dat kns how to honours; who allow those tinz guides her life will be earning d respect and admiration of all men. also d undstndin nd solidarity of d role society,culture nd religion placed on d man;how a man is forced to draw from ingenuity to steer d ship of d family as d captain.......then a man can adore her.
u took this outta me, I was trying to put up same tin, but I delayed.