I’m a single woman in my 30’s and my problem is that I cannot find a man and I honestly have no idea why. I’m attractive and all my friends say I’m a nice

person. I’m aware that you can meet a man at any time, not just when you’re out socially on Saturday nights, so I never step out of the house looking anything less than perfect. I keep to my trim figure, dress nicely, well-groomed and, because I was aware I was being too choosy, I’ve tried hard to give men I don’t even fancy a chance. But now men just don’t seem to find me attractive at all. I don’t get chatted up though I make sure that I look friendly and approachable when l’m out. l’m at my wits’ end and honestly don’t know what else to do. Philo, by e-mail

Dear Philo,

Your whole being seems to be devoted to finding this person, who, I suspected, you feel will complete you. You’re not just eager to meet someone, it has become an obsession.

The problem with being so fanatical about something is that it makes you come across as a bit neurotic. Men spot desperate women a mile off and the sensible, nice ones, make a run for it realising you want a life-jacket, not a boyfriend. The not so nice men single you out, figuring you’re a great candidate for someone they can treat badly, knowing you’ll put up with it because you’ll do anything not to be alone. You don’t sound like you are at that stage yet, but you’re not far of! You need to stop looking and turn all this energy inward.

Throw yourself into enjoying your career, enjoy your friends rather than using them as emotional crutches, read books, see movies you like, go to the gym, make new friends and find new things to enjoy. Also stop looking so perfect. Nails always polished, not a hair out of place could put people of! You sound like the girl who turns up at a barbecue in killer-heels and your little black dress when everyone else is in casuals, just in case there might be a single man present. This is termed ‘the single girl look’ and it’s often unattractive. For a change, aim for the just got out of bed look.’

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ehn ehn, tell us more na

in dis Buhari period guys no dey toast anyhow, you know it costs a lot to maintain a relationship these days

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Dearie!it's nt everytime u play hard 2 get on guys,u jxt need 2 apply wisdom wen dealing with dem,so as nt 2 chase them away o

Sister abeg give me ur contact

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Perfect reply by philo

Your dressing matters a lot.

no Man nomatter how rich he is, approaches a woman who dresses on an expensive atire. watch yourself and your dressing code,.... if you dress modestly, litle sexy and with less expensive atire, come and tank me later.

But why will you be selecting until you clock 30 years? your case na for church or your village ppl go fit solve em after all....

if you meet this two ppl(Church & village ppl) and they couldn't solve your problem till you reach 35 then do this and God will consider you......

Hello, good morning young lady

They suddenly realised you're not 'bread' that should be toasted

U can't be in your 30's and expect MEN to gather around u like before.......
U can't be SHITTT always...., that flies will surround u..?
u have started becoming Sand and u can't help it.

LADIES should always be mindful of their AGES.
U don't expect the same number of MEN to keep chasing u from when u were 16 till when u get to 40.
It's never possible, abi u ne dey ripe....?

MEN always withdraw exponentially.
That's why the best time to choose a man of ur choice is when MEN are clustering and clamouring for u.

Aregs:
in dis Buhari period guys no dey toast anyhow, you know it costs a lot to maintain a relationship these days

seconded

Lollllll!!! Her market don dey expire small small. E sure me say plenty guy 4 don dey toast am in her 20s bt she dey form hard 2 get. Poetic justice @ work. Make all d women use ds 1 learn lesson. If una lyk, continue 2 dey form 4 those guys wey dey gv u eye. Soon & very soon, we shall read ur own too. Mschew.

All these Yeye bloggers wey go just dey find traffic sha. See d mumupic the guy put.

Should I still comment

EVILFOREST:
U can't be in your 30's and expect MEN to gather around u like before.......
U can't be SHITTT always...., that flies will surround u..?
u have started becoming Sand and u can't help it.

LADIES should always be mindful of their AGES.
U don't expect the same number of MEN to keep chasing u from when u were 16 till when u get to 40.
It's never possible, abi u ne dey ripe....?

MEN always withdraw exponentially.
That's why the best time to choose a man of ur choice is when MEN are clustering and clamouring for u.

I like dis comment oohh!! am gonna copy dis and post on my Facebook wall...from d line (ladies should always)

Eyaa oya come ma marry you

YOU heard them please upload tou picture so we can know exactly why

Maybe because yr bread (u) is not sweet because how can u be toasted when you are not a bread

Hmmmmmmmmmmm

Law of diminishing returns nah.


Maybe u don fucCk, fucCk, sotey, Ee come de show for ur face.

Bad guy

Bad guy

Bad guy

My dear, you need to re evaluate yourself. You might be doing the wrong thing.

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