classicB:
There is this certain girl that is having a huge crush on my boyfriend of almost 5years, he himself is not helping matters cos both of them are close friends. I will like to explain to details. She isn't the only one actually, there is this other one Or two That post his picture on fb and instagram claiming him to be their boyfriend. I have talked Taya, threatened to break up but to no avail.
Around August, this girl posted the picture he snapped with him on instagram and wrote something like "he is the love of my life, don't hate cos u can't get.. .bla bla bla I was angry, I had to comment on that picture and tag the other girls claiming him to be their bf, I also tagged him too but he was quick to see the comment bfr any of them, he messaged me and begged me to delete the comment. I did, he had a chat with this girl only for her to start sending messages to me tru fb, she said she is his girlfriend and he told her am just a bestie, she sent me a screenshot which my bf denied saying she must have edited everything to make it real to me. My bf didn't cut his friendship with this girl o! Her birthday was last month and my bf still went there and they took several pictures together which she posted on fb, I guess she's doing this so that I can see it? I was angry, I showed him the picture again and he begged me not to break up that he will explain things to me.
Did I forget to say he posted the picture they both snapped together on facebook to Celebrate his birthday last year, I asked him about it and he said the picture is his only recent picture. He invited this girl to his sister's wedding and she was all over him while I was just sitted there with a friend that followed me, what will an introvert like me do?
I don't see myself ever rubbing another guy in his face, Even is he claims he isn't cheating, can't he manage his relationship well? What will it cost him to cut his friendship with this girl, maybe she is more important than me, or he is simply keeping me for being a faithful girl he can't afford to loose? I don't want to bring up any talk about the girl anymore, cos no matter how I rant it won't change anything.

HungerBAD:
I will make this one short.

And this advice goes not just to you,but to others too like you,who are either not mature enough to know the definition of what a 'Girlfriend' is,or simply waging an unwinnable fight.

He is your Boyfriend and not your husband. Nigerian girls,for some strange reasons can't seem to differentiate between the two.

You have no rights over him,and or who he chooses to put on fb or any of his social media platform. You too can go ahead and reciprocate By adding a guys picture on yours.

You can't force your boyfriend not to be friends with other females,because he is dating you. And from your post,I think you are the type that monitors everything about him.

Quit that habit,and get serious with other things in your life. If I was your boyfriend,I would have ended this relationship a long time ago,as an unsecure girlfriend will eventually become an unsecure wife with plenty of troubles.

If you are not his wife,stop acting like one.

HungerBAD:
I will make this one short.

And this advice goes not just to you,but to others too like you,who are either not mature enough to know the definition of what a 'Girlfriend' is,or simply waging an unwinnable fight.

He is your Boyfriend and not your husband. Nigerian girls,for some strange reasons can't seem to differentiate between the two.

You have no rights over him,and or who he chooses to put on fb or any of his social media platform. You too can go ahead and reciprocate By adding a guys picture on yours.

You can't force your boyfriend not to be friends with other females,because he is dating you. And from your post,I think you are the type that monitors everything about him.

Quit that habit,and get serious with other things in your life. If I was your boyfriend,I would have ended this relationship a long time ago,as an unsecure girlfriend will eventually become an unsecure wife with plenty of troubles.

If you are not his wife,stop acting like one.

HungerBAD:
I will make this one short.

And this advice goes not just to you,but to others too like you,who are either not mature enough to know the definition of what a 'Girlfriend' is,or simply waging an unwinnable fight.

He is your Boyfriend and not your husband. Nigerian girls,for some strange reasons can't seem to differentiate between the two.

You have no rights over him,and or who he chooses to put on fb or any of his social media platform. You too can go ahead and reciprocate By adding a guys picture on yours.

You can't force your boyfriend not to be friends with other females,because he is dating you. And from your post,I think you are the type that monitors everything about him.

Quit that habit,and get serious with other things in your life. If I was your boyfriend,I would have ended this relationship a long time ago,as an unsecure girlfriend will eventually become an unsecure wife with plenty of troubles.

If you are not his wife,stop acting like one.

classicB:

Oh, you're simply not different from him. Do u feel he is right to continue to rub another girl in my face when he cannot take such. Can you honestly walk down the isle with such a girl? I am not asking him not to have female friends, I don't just like the way he is particular about this one. Something is fishy between them.

HungerBAD:
I will make this one short.

And this advice goes not just to you,but to others too like you,who are either not mature enough to know the definition of what a 'Girlfriend' is,or simply waging an unwinnable fight.

He is your Boyfriend and not your husband. Nigerian girls,for some strange reasons can't seem to differentiate between the two.

You have no rights over him,and or who he chooses to put on fb or any of his social media platform. You too can go ahead and reciprocate By adding a guys picture on yours.

You can't force your boyfriend not to be friends with other females,because he is dating you. And from your post,I think you are the type that monitors everything about him.

Quit that habit,and get serious with other things in your life. If I was your boyfriend,I would have ended this relationship a long time ago,as an unsecure girlfriend will eventually become an unsecure wife with plenty of troubles.

If you are not his wife,stop acting like one.

TrapQueen77:
Girl.. Listen..


Let go of the relationship if ur NOT happy anymore.. Never compete with his "friends" when he doesnt even care about ur feelings...


Relationship shud be 50-50 / give and take..

HungerBAD:


And if he breaks up the relationship between the two of you today,you will kill yourself?save yourself the headache of the other woman.

If you are not married to him,quit giving yourself any headache. I think you still don't get it right?you are a GIRLDRIEND and nothing else.

Quit acting like a wife.

classicB:

Oh, you're simply not different from him. Do u feel he is right to continue to rub another girl in my face when he cannot take such. Can you honestly walk down the isle with such a girl? I am not asking him not to have female friends, I don't just like the way he is particular about this one. Something is fishy between them.

Please shut up and stop acting like a weakling, u pissing me off already!! Are u a sidechick or u just aspiring to be one?? The guy obviously just wants to fuvk around with you and when he gets whatever he wants from u then you guys are so done! Define your stand in the relationship to him, if he can't make do with that then Bleep him off, its so simple sis. In a relationship, a guy's gotta choose, either your so called one and only girlfriend or multiple "girlfriends" u choose to play around with.


Funny though, he begged you to remove the comment. Are u sure you're the one he doesn't wonna dream losing or the so called babe that uploaded the picture

HIScraziness:



Please shut up and stop acting like a weakling, u pissing off already!! Are u a sidechick or u just aspiring to be one?? The guy obviously just wants to fuvk around with you and when he gets whatever he wants from u then you guys are so done! Define your stand in the relationship to him, if he can't make do with that then Bleep him off, its so simple sis. In a relationship, a guy's gotta choose, either your so called one and only girlfriend or multiple "girlfriends" u choose to play around with.


Funny though, he begged you to remove the comment. Are u sure you're the one he doesn't wonna dream losing or the so called babe that uploaded the picture

Scatterscatter:
Sorry to say, you are in a wrong relationship.
A guy that truly loves you will respect you.
Respecting you means not doing things you aren't comfortable with, e.g cutting ties with any female friend you aren't comfortable with.

Look for another guy, this guy doesnt respect your feelings

Sandydayziz:
I totally agree with dis...
If a guy truly loves u, he'll do everything possible just to let u know dat...

You're using too much energy in d relationship, while he does nothing to appreciate that