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IF You Had A Sibling Like This What Will You Do? by zynellsmum(f): 8:07pm On Dec 19, 2016 |
Been the first child is very tasking I can say but when it's a girl I feel it is very very very..well i have four sibling and yea boys which look older than me..I have a humble immediate younger about 20 years of age if you tell him something he listens,if your tone was harsh he will tell you in a better way.in his teen years he did not give us trouble,as a teenager he just did the normal stuffs teenagers will do.but the opposite for his immediate which am 6 years older than that has no respect for our parents fight my mum and dad that even when they give up on him..I still talk to them and they forgive him and do stuffs for him,but his ways of insulting his seniors to the extent of stabbing his older brother.We thank God no life was lost.I have called him spoken to him .even give him gifts,play with him,gist him like we are mates..but when he wants to misbehave he acts stupidly.If I cook soup he won't tell me to dish for him the best thing his doing it himself if I caution him then he insults me and call me names make me feel so stupid..imagine him telling me he will carve my heart's out...And so many more I don't want to bore u with my gist..his17 don't tell me it's the normal teenage phase it's not..If you where in my shoes what will you do?? 1 Like |
Re: IF You Had A Sibling Like This What Will You Do? by chocolateme(f): 8:08pm On Dec 19, 2016 |
It'll pass 1 Like |
Re: IF You Had A Sibling Like This What Will You Do? by Nobody: 8:32pm On Dec 19, 2016 |
He / she will have a dislocated neck for 6 months 3 Likes |
Re: IF You Had A Sibling Like This What Will You Do? by AVECDEO: 8:44pm On Dec 19, 2016 |
You and all your other siblings should combine to subdue him before giving him a thorough mass beating,afterwards get him arrested for a few day...him brain go reset....continue the process until he gives his life to Christ. 21 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: IF You Had A Sibling Like This What Will You Do? by Nobody: 8:56pm On Dec 19, 2016 |
Beat the shít. Out of the stoopid boy. 3 Likes |
Re: IF You Had A Sibling Like This What Will You Do? by Nobody: 9:30pm On Dec 19, 2016 |
In one family of four boys and one girl(the eldest) they all ganged up against the stubborn fellow and gave him the beating of his life, he mellowed. One first son who was into drugs and frequently fought his parents with sticks and knife got thoroughly beaten by his younger ones, from there he agreed to be taken to rehab. You all might need to teach him a lesson too 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: IF You Had A Sibling Like This What Will You Do? by NevetsIbot(m): 10:34pm On Dec 19, 2016 |
The guy above me just made sense, Treat his Bleep up. |
Re: IF You Had A Sibling Like This What Will You Do? by sisisioge: 10:52pm On Dec 19, 2016 |
we can't handle him Biko...Keep your sibling to yourself. Whew! Guy is playing with knives... Carving out his brother's heart! Chai! I give up. 2 Likes |
Re: IF You Had A Sibling Like This What Will You Do? by greatgod2012(f): 5:25am On Dec 20, 2016 |
@op, to be honest with you, ganging up to beat him up will only harden his heart the more. The boy has mental and psychological issues, take him to a rehabilitation center and continue praying for him. May God touch his heart and remould him to a better boy. 10 Likes |
Re: IF You Had A Sibling Like This What Will You Do? by Acidosis(m): 6:01am On Dec 20, 2016 |
chocolateme:Of course, it will pass when he acquires about 2 or 3 human hearts from the family. @OP, I can only put the blames on you (the family). That boy should be in jail. Do not try to cover up anything. The last time he attempted stabbing his elder brother, you should have invited about 2 street guys to do the beating, and call the police immediately. Mind you, 2 weeks with the Nigerian police won't change him, however he needs to be taught a lesson which is: you can't get away with crime. When he leaves NPF's custody, take him to a rehab and do not forget to pray for him. Morality can be learned in three places: home, school and church (religion). Have you tried the third? 10 Likes |
Re: IF You Had A Sibling Like This What Will You Do? by byvan03: 6:55am On Dec 20, 2016 |
He needs to sleep in a cell, which kind pikin be that one? 2 Likes |
Re: IF You Had A Sibling Like This What Will You Do? by EfemenaXY: 8:20am On Dec 20, 2016 |
Violence begets violence. 2 Likes |
Re: IF You Had A Sibling Like This What Will You Do? by Abiagirl777(f): 10:31am On Dec 20, 2016 |
you go fear carve heart out,lol. send him to Osun state to join the carvers that d be carving the next talking drum. 1 Like |
Re: IF You Had A Sibling Like This What Will You Do? by activelyA(f): 5:16pm On Dec 20, 2016 |
zynellsmum:He was not reproved when he started it.... That's why he has grown to be like this... He knows you guys limits that there is nothing you can do. You guys need to surprise him, especially your father by beating the hell out of him and arresting him. If you continue to be soft on him, when he grows up and suffers the consequences, he will never forgive you guys. 4 Likes |
Re: IF You Had A Sibling Like This What Will You Do? by twosquare(m): 5:30pm On Dec 20, 2016 |
An evening with Nigerian soldiers should reset his brain. Even in my teens...i was an easy-going chap....that one na akoogba (a child weh no accept home-training despite the efforts of parents). He's still foolish, thinking he knows it all and can handle himself until they deal with him from outside. Please, remember him in your prayers..coz if he is this way, he will soon partake in cultism. 6 Likes |
Re: IF You Had A Sibling Like This What Will You Do? by drmikeadams(m): 9:06pm On Dec 20, 2016 |
twosquare:..make dem lock am for barracks for some days ..em go humble..otherwise if em enter uni,,na cultism em go carry for head and all of una for house go run.. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: IF You Had A Sibling Like This What Will You Do? by adedayoa2(f): 6:58am On Dec 21, 2016 |
Acidosis:involving street boys will be the best , that kain pikin if you wan treat him f up, treat am welllll. 2 Likes |
Re: IF You Had A Sibling Like This What Will You Do? by madamGift(f): 1:56pm On Dec 21, 2016 |
twosquare: This is the solution... 1 Like |
Re: IF You Had A Sibling Like This What Will You Do? by Viking007(m): 2:32pm On Dec 21, 2016 |
AVECDEO:Seconded. It seems the entire family sef too calm. 3 Likes |
Re: IF You Had A Sibling Like This What Will You Do? by dangotesmummy: 2:57pm On Dec 21, 2016 |
AVECDEO:seconded. @op It's because you people are indulging and petting him that is why he's misbehaving.When violence meets with group superior violence he will calm down. If you don't deal with him now he will become a terror to everyone in the house and bully both elder and younger siblings. Clip his wings now before he goes haywire 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: IF You Had A Sibling Like This What Will You Do? by robosky02(m): 10:23am On Dec 22, 2016 |
zynellsmum: just take his name and pay over it cast out that spirit of stubbornness and foolishness do it for a while like the prodigal son he will come back to his senses 2 Likes |
Re: IF You Had A Sibling Like This What Will You Do? by zynellsmum(f): 8:23pm On Dec 22, 2016 |
activelyA:thanks dear |
Re: IF You Had A Sibling Like This What Will You Do? by mysticgal(f): 9:33pm On Dec 22, 2016 |
I am presently in your shoes, my brother walked out on my mum ,which i consider insulting. I talked really hard to him and promised to give him a good fight next time he shouts,talks back or walk out on anyone. no fear, I do karate and taekwando,so he practically cannot beat me and he wouldn't even try it. different drugs for different illnesses. He's currently sleeping out of the dosage of slaps I prescribed. nonsense attitudes 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: IF You Had A Sibling Like This What Will You Do? by mysticgal(f): 9:37pm On Dec 22, 2016 |
robosky02:I believe in prayers but in this case, I leave prayer out of it. shior,pickin be misbehaving and I would be praying. no,that person would be in the quterguard,chilling with some soldiers while I pray . 2 Likes |
Re: IF You Had A Sibling Like This What Will You Do? by kaboninc(m): 10:54am On Dec 23, 2016 |
Pidgin2: This is just my thought and advice too. Thing is, he has not found his match. When he finds one who craze pass am, he'll humble himself. It also appears there's no strong hand or an authority at home who he fears and listens to. Sometimes you need a stronger hand and other times you need a soft hand too. 2 Likes |
Re: IF You Had A Sibling Like This What Will You Do? by kaboninc(m): 10:55am On Dec 23, 2016 |
robosky02: Did you actually type this for fun? |
Re: IF You Had A Sibling Like This What Will You Do? by robosky02(m): 11:03am On Dec 23, 2016 |
Re: IF You Had A Sibling Like This What Will You Do? by robosky02(m): 11:05am On Dec 23, 2016 |
mysticgal: you cant leave prayer out cos by the arm of flesh shall no man prevail how long will you be struggling to change him take out some time to pray for him...... it will make tremendous power available to change him 2 Likes |
Re: IF You Had A Sibling Like This What Will You Do? by Nobody: 11:52am On Dec 24, 2016 |
let blame d parent,my jnr bro is d only boy thou he behave somehow atimes but he can never try trash wit my dad even my sister who is married. Any day ur bro misbehave make all of una carry stick beat am, he go learn 2 respect |
Re: IF You Had A Sibling Like This What Will You Do? by mumumugu(m): 12:50pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
guys like this end up being the best in the family outsideq would fear him and give your family respect |
Re: IF You Had A Sibling Like This What Will You Do? by Malayy(m): 9:26am On Dec 26, 2016 |
zynellsmum:maybe he's a cultist.. your immediate younger brother should treat his fvck up.. he is a guy for Christ sake! 1 Like |
Re: IF You Had A Sibling Like This What Will You Do? by Mr3noble(m): 12:28pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
He is still a minor,get your pastor to speak with him,and pray for him,and afterwards don't remind him of his past behaviours. |
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