Hey guys! I have this guy in my work place, whom I'm really friends with. We talk to each other a lot and he's really very understanding. I really have started liking him a lot. I even told him how I feel for him. But he says he just wanna stay friends and that he doesn't feel anything more for me. But I just can't understand how. He calls me late night, he wants to talk to me when he is drunk, he remembers me whenever he is sad or happy. How can he not be in love with me, if he remembers me in every point of his life. However, he says that he is not and it's really getting difficult for me to remain just friends with him. I've even thought of not talking to him a lot of times. But then that would get things complicated. Hence, I'm just pretending to be normal and he too understands how difficult it's getting for me, so he is keeping his distance too. Well, obviously I'm not happy with that either. What do I do? Do you think he is really not in love with me or he is just pretending to be. However, he has had some past tough times in relationships and he somewhere does blame himself for it. I'm somewhere really heart broken. Need some advice.

You aren't his type. Simple

he is not attractive to you, he'd love you but as a friend. don't force him to lie to you that he does.

I like the guy's sincerity...he isn't a user.

u want him to use and dump u abi

or

maybe u ain't just beautiful enough

One minute of silence for our sister in the friend zone

dont force urself on him, u will regret it

makydebbie:
One minute of silence for our sister in the friend zone

Lol

it's not necessarily friendzone.. might be that he doesn't want to hurt her or scared he might lose her eventually when they start something
but one thing is clear.. he is a good guy, not like the fvckboys roaming romance section

Opakan2:


Lol

it's not necessarily friendzone.. might be that he doesn't want to hurt her or scared he might lose her eventually when they start something
but one thing is clear.. he is a good guy, not like the fvckboys roaming romance section

I agree with you there. So many fvckboys here.

Jerrylolo:
dont force urself on him, u will regret it

Lol

Lisador:
Hey guys! I have this guy in my work place, whom I'm really friends with. We talk to each other a lot and he's really very understanding. I really have started liking him a lot. I even told him how I feel for him. But he says he just wanna stay friends and that he doesn't feel anything more for me. But I just can't understand how. He calls me late night, he wants to talk to me when he is drunk, he remembers me whenever he is sad or happy. How can he not be in love with me, if he remembers me in every point of his life. However, he says that he is not and it's really getting difficult for me to remain just friends with him. I've even thought of not talking to him a lot of times. But then that would get things complicated. Hence, I'm just pretending to be normal and he too understands how difficult it's getting for me, so he is keeping his distance too. Well, obviously I'm not happy with that either. What do I do? Do you think he is really not in love with me or he is just pretending to be. However, he has had some past tough times in relationships and he somewhere does blame himself for it. I'm somewhere really heart broken. Need some advice.

Well, you are probably ugly.

If you are not, play the jealous card on his psyche. Appear distant from him. Act like you've got eyes for his friend or coworker. He'll flip, you'll get your answer there. Guys have a tendency to sharpen when faced with impending threat or threats.

Be also slow in the act. Absence of the usual triggers a part of the brain to miss.

Say your thank you later.

Chickychic:
Lol

seems u can relate to that shey?

makydebbie:
One minute of silence for our sister in the friend zone

Lolzz Quite wicked

Being friendzoned is not good for the health

Assumptions are dangerous, if what you hear aren't always true how much more what you see. The guy wants you as a friend ,he might have been protecting you.

Just let him be, be the friend that cares but never be a cheap girl who forces herself on men. If you think you cant cope, sit him down and talk. Who knows he may just open up to you

.

That guy is my replica...he doesn't believe in sex if not he for use your kitty play kpakpangolo.

firstking01:
That guy is my replica...he doesn't believe in sex if not he for use your kitty play kpakpangolo.

Your replica in what sense?, don't make me laugh plz.

Benita27:
Your replica in what sense?, don't make me laugh plz.

I owe you NO explanations, do i?