WELL
I am 24 years of age ,an there is this girl i love an i have explain my mind to her and she
keep on saying that she have a guy. This girl an i is 4rm the same state an i dont want to loose her , But when ever she comes to my place she keep on telling me that she loves me an i am the coolest guy that she ever meet since all her life.
And she know i did not have any lady in my life?

Ya'll can have a fling or something if its like that. The fact that you pour your heart out to her and she comes to your place is a mere sign that she also likes you romantically but is afraid to have anything going on with you cos of the other person.

Its a hard decision especially if she got love for her partner and at the same time also likes you.

As for you, why don't you just stop, if you so much care for her. Let her be and see where it ends and if you cannot, well than, see which guy wins her over, but mind you, the new guy is always sweeter but the old guy sweet. Its up to her to think straight and know that her guy was once sweeter when they started.

Who ever said life/love is fair?

need a lady of my own pls help me

nairaland rocks!!!!!!!!!

da girl is a bleeping bitch and a snitch

She doesn't even know what she wants. So either you ask her to make up her mind (you or the bf she claims to have), or you walk away cuz it can't be anything good for you out of this.

Find someone else, she is using you duh

mukina2:

nairaland rocks!!!!!!!!!

yaaay lets celebrate!

hmmmm

hi
Stay cool an remember to stay in a relationship is not an easy
thing an secondaly not only sex,But to me it mean the whole
world to me i have fall i victim befor i dont want to go to a
wrong hand again still think about it befor replaying.
how can i get my lady of my own?

Ock


were U not da same dat asked da question


hmmmmm

Is d girl ok? I think d girl is taking advantage of u?

This is a major problem with almost every lady,will hardly define what we want.just give her some time.