Most guys do say that  babes are great pretenders. They are also of the view that romantically, when babes say no, they mean yes. Is this true?
A guy recently told me that there was this babe he was pestering to date him but each move he made, the babe had initially rebuffed all his offers; and that to his "pleasant surprise" the babe later succumbed to his pressure. That on one special outing with her, she openly confessed that all the while, she's enjoying the guy's moves but was only pretending. The puzzle now is, how do you know if a lady is interested in your advances considering the fact that most ladies are pretenders? I repeat, are ladies really pretenders?[color=#550000][/color]

not all.sometimes it's necessary .u wouldn't value her if she was cheap. although some do it at an extreme point

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so what i'm trying 2 say is of course girls are pretenders. Although if they weren't, your relationship would b boring.

clemnegro:

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so what i'm trying 2 say is of course girls are pretenders. Although if they weren't, your relationship would b boring.

Are you now saying that pretence makes the game sweeter, umm, interesting?

but isn't it true? I mean if she pretends, it gives u an edge cos u know. So u either play along or do otherwise.

Not all ladies are. But even the guys how mwny of them are real?

uchetobi:

Not all ladies are. But even the guys how mwny of them are real?

Uchetobi, but guys will always hit the nail on the head. In other words, they don't hide their feelings towards any damsel, Is it a lie?

It is not only girls that pretend. some guys also pretends. Buts i know some girls do that just to make the guy believe that they are not all that cheap.
some believes that it is part of the game.

Guys are the greatest pretenders, always saying what they are not just to impress the woman.

@MacDoe,

it DEPENDS on the kind of woman r going after, u had better know her and her personality, and whether or not, she is the type to appreciated and tolerate nonsense,

ME if i say NO i mean NO, dont try to persuade me, because i wont even LET u within a sq. mile of me, lol, harsh but true. if i'm interested, u'll know , ITS ALL IN THE BODY LANGUAGE AND CHEMISTRY huney

HOWEVER, for some girls that like pretending ( i have friends like this) it pisses me off, but hey, na dia style. here's the trick

[b]IF A GIRL IS INTERESTED AND IS JUST PLAYING HARD TO GET, OR GIVING U THE RUN AROUND, SHE'LL ENETRATIN, YOUR DATES, PHONE CALLS, OUTINGS ETC, ONLY THING SHE'LL BE ACTING LIKE SHE AINT BOTHERED OR IT DONT MEAN NOTHING TO HER[/b], but if u meet a girl who says NO to that and means NO to it, by d time u pester her life 1/2 times, she will set u staright and either ignore ur calls till u see sense, or cut all contacts, in fact she no go even dey call u bk in d first place!!, hope that helps y'all

Talking about guys who pretend, may ask how? This is because i cannot immagine a guy saying yes when he means to say no. In my views, that is cowardice.
@luxoire, i appreciate the tips and i am sure guys are viewing the posts as well

you only pretend with a pretender. if the guy is open the lady will be too

mankind worst obstacle is the language barrier. whenever they are surposed to say yes women have been saying no!
                                                  WOMEN SECOND NAME IS PRETENCE

There are two sides to this issue now. So far in this thread, the ladies have sort of insisted that guys pretend more while the guys are saying the opposite. Can we really call a spade a spade here, and devoid of sentiments; who are the greatest pretenders? Ladies and gentlemen, over to you.

my friend say women dont pretend that na SHAKARA DEM DE DO

nna i weak o