It is common to fail in relationships. There is nothing wrong in failing. It is important to learn from your mistakes in order to move further in your life.But at the same time, it is good to realise why we fail in relationships. When you look back, if you see any corrections to be made to your behaviour, go ahead and do so. This will help you avoid future relationship failures.Pain, hurt and depression are common reactions after a breakup. But soon after that small stage is over, it is better to rejoice.Here are some reasons why to be happy after a breakup.

Reasons why to be happy after a breakup are:


1.You Can Start Life Afresh: Remember that a breakup is a good chance to start everything again from scratch with a new person. This means that you can commit less mistakes this time as you have some experience.

2.You Can Learn From Your Mistakes: Treat it as an opportunity to learn what you have done wrong. In your future relationship, ensure that you don’t repeat mistakes.

3.You Can Do Well In Your New Relationship: Relationship experts say that those who generally have experience from past relationships tend to do well in future relationships as they tend to be more careful.

4.You Will Become Stronger: After you overcome the pain of a breakup and loneliness, you tend to be stronger. This will help you deal with many other ups and downs of life.

5.You Can Make Better Choices: The chances of making wrong choices will greatly reduce after a failed relationship. You tend to tread carefully after a miserable experience.

6.You Will Never Get Carried Away: Even if you come across the most attractive partner who promises the heaven to woo you, you won’t get carried away easily.

7.You Will Learn To Change Or Adapt: This is a very important quality to learn. We all must learn to be flexible to others around us and failed relationships teach us such qualities.

8.You Will Be Grounded: Some relationship failures tend to ground us a bit. Flying in clouds isn’t healthy. Dreaming of ideal relationships isn’t realistic. So, staying grounded is better.

These are the reasons to be happy after a breakup.

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op you have a vagina brain.

Most times we look at a closed door so long that we refuse to see an open one, When you try to find good in every evil, advantage in every disadvantage, appointment in every disappointment. Then you are on the path of becoming immortal

Alondra:
Most times we look at a closed door so long that we refuse to see an open one, When you try to find good in every evil, advantage in every disadvantage, appointment in every disappointment. Then you are on the path of becoming immortal

Most times we exaggerate immortality

U can finally say goodbye to the have you eaten question..

Have u eaten, a 5 unit course in every Nigerian relationship

Bluezy13:


Most times we exaggerate immortality

Immortality is living above it all

All dis ones na just story to console yaself.
. You can't be happy especially if u love the ex but with time u will get over it



Op and d mod dat pushed it to Fp....

he easy ?

you spend the good part of ur life with a basttard and they walk away and you think bullet points can help you heal ?

My dear Op, iz like your head iz paining you.

Been trying, in fact trying soo hard, I still can't get over TJ there is nothing to be happy about breaking up with him

It's not easy you know, easier said than done.

U mean Happy?

1 Corinthian 13

Easier said than done.

valid points.

My nigga really love dis girl bt she broke up wt him in 2014-15... My friend was heartbroken but he moved on. He gat himself another chic earlier dis year and dey're still rolling 2geda. But what baffles me dis former girl has been disturbing my nigga dey com back 2geda & start rolling again. She even confronted him in d presence of dis new babe telling him dey should start from where dey left it cos her bf dey deny her d care,, time & affection my guy dey give her b4 ...Imagine, what nonsense!

Even a girl dat told me she's no longer interested in dat care & affection I showered her some years back has been the one doing the calling now, even when i don't think I've called her up to 5 times dis year, stylishly wanting to come back. But I've already moved on... I pick her call now anytime I feel like. She think my life dey revolve around her fine face?
Some girls/ladies are just confused

c You get to upgrade to a tall,fair damsel...who speaks five languages and respects the place of your PlayStation 4 in the house.

Nairalanddss is lala's alt I guess

...You only feel like you are better after the first few months....so cut the crap

depends on what caused d breakup .....when cheated on ur guy n he dumps u, you've no excuse to give

Reasons and why (tautology)

the truth is dat i feel very happy when i break up.its show that d lady isnt wife-worthy and not the right person for me

curvilicious:
Reasons and why (tautology)

lol...Our Nigerian English can cause headache

Nawa o

A girl visited her boyfriend. After
entering his room, the girl greeted and hugged him. After about 30
minutes, the girl unzipped her clothes, removes her clothes and she was left with only bra and
undies nearly naked. Then the
following discusions took place:
GIRL: darling pls make love to me.
BOY: No dear. I wont make love
to you pls.
GIRL: Am I not sexy enough? See.
I am half naked. Pls make love to me. I beg you.
BOY: Yeah u are sexy but pls put
on your clothes pls I dont want to have sex pls.
GIRL: (She removes her bra): darling pls na I beg you. Have sex with me.
BOY: No. Put on your clothes. I am in the mood but I wont make love to you.
GIRL: Why? Dont u love me?
BOY: yeah I love you so much. Pls I want to wait till our wedding night. Put on your clothes. Let us wait till our wedding night before we will
have sex. I love and respect your body. Then the girl puts on
her clothes back without any sex taking place...
DO SUCH MEN EXIST?
YES & NO .

curvilicious:
Reasons and why (tautology)

thats is a subject of deliberation in modern english.....its the only tautology that is 'accepted' by english gurus

Werey ni op sha .. Too much american movies dey worry you..nothing to be happy abt a break up with a lady you love..


Guy u will feel like the walls are closing in and finding someone better will seem hard