kushme:
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Things changed because men allowed it to be..... Women want the space of men.... Men gave women civilization....women can not and will never have a better life if not for the help of men... I dont have issues with women, i only have issues with the men behind/backing feminism...

Men keep society not women... Men only respect women because other men say so.... Women are kinda useless to men if not for sexual pleasure, reproduction and humanity..... Only irrational or dumb thirsty men support feminism.... The truth is, we dont need/want women in our work space... Women are parasites...

Things changed because women fought for it which a few men supported


I done even know why I am replying you because it's clear as crystal you never ever in your miserable life have travelled out because if you did you wouldn't have been saying this bullshit you were

kaboninc:


Your choice not to believe in it.

However, like I earlier asked, who is the head in your marriage?

Exactly. You just agreed now. It is differing opinion not a fact. The fact that it is constantly repeated by low self esteemed guys like you doesn't make it true.

kaboninc:


Honestly, you have just shown to us your meaning of feminism. And that's male dominance. Simple. Striving so hard, not to emancipate the women but to make them dominate the male folks. That's so sad and shameful. That's also disappointing too.

Sadly I don't understand you. Check all of my post. I have not mentioned anything about Feminism. You are the one obsessed and fighting hard against Feminism. Whatever that does for you

dealslip:


Sadly I don't understand you. Check all of my post. I have not mentioned anything about Feminism. You are the one obsessed and fighting hard against Feminism. Whatever that does for you

Too bad you don't understand yourself!

dealslip:


Exactly. You just agreed now. It is differing opinion not a fact. The fact that it is constantly repeated by low self esteemed guys like you doesn't make it true.

Agreed? You must be dreaming!

You're just confused my dear. Very confused.

kaboninc:


I don't know the notion I have for which you're trying to correct. Please throw more light on it.

We are not wired same way

That alone makes us not 'equal' in the strict sense of the it's meaning. And we may have equal opportunities but these opportunities do not still make equal or tend to make us equal but develop us to become better and informed individuals in the world. That's why they say empower a woman and you empower a society.

Empowering a woman does not mean the end result should make women equal to men....because it just can never be.

I am very happy that you come from the background that women are given equal opportunities to thrive and soar. That privilege has made you who you are. I am also very happy too that you're married to a man who would love to work with you as a team. However, all teams have a leader.. .are you that leader in your team? Are you the one who delegates and assigns responsibilities? Are you that face of authority in your team? Like I asked earlier, do you expect leadership responsibilities to be assumed by husban?

I also agree that value, interest and mutual respect guides a relationship. I share in this. However, depending on the relationship, like the one you share with your husband, are you the team lead?

These are straight forward questions which I want you to give a thought before responding. If your response is in the affirmative, them you see reasons why I said we're not equals.

Now here's the problem with most people who have a different meaning of feminism. In defining 'equality' they do not accept the literal definition of the word. Because accepting so would mean they have accepted to be inferior towards the male species.

Truly, there are different perceptions about the meaning of feminism. There are the mild, the radical and extremists, the ones who just stay on the fence and the ones who are just confused. All these perceptions distorts the meaning of feminism and this applies to equality. For example, some men just take it that they are way superior to the women in their lives and around then. Some men say they are equal with women. I do not want to bring in religion and culture and if we use that as yard stick, then your notion won't stand anymore.
Still, whatever rocks their boat.

However, no matter how you spice it, men and women are never equal but complimentary. There are areas where you as a woman would soar higher than a man and same with a man too. These differences are what makes us not equal and that's the only equation in the world where as both variables being not equal, none is superior to the other. (this is my view) 7

Yet, no matter how the differences are, the men will always be the head and assume leadership responsibility in all relationships between a man and a woman (intimate relationship I mean).

Good morning

Oga, it is very obvious you are pained that women have started debunking and shrugging off those lies, implanted into your mind. All I see is a guy with low self esteem trying to force yourself on women. People like you are so afraid of women taking a position of leadership. Oga, being a leader doesn't make you superior to others. Leadership is not forced, it is earned. You also have to qualify to be leader. It is not your third leg that makes you a leader, it is quality of your value. Sadly, a lot of women have been trainedto be leaders because they are lot smarter than men like you because their penis is not their tool for direction but their wisdom, so get of my back with all those lines of men are wired to be leader because you have no idea of who you are your penis is your definition of yourself. Good morning

kaboninc:


Agreed? You must be dreaming!

You're just confused my dear. Very confused.

But you just said it is an opinion, I chose to believe, I only quoted you. I guess you are the confused one Mr. Oga move on and go and understand what equality means, the fact that there are still men like you is alarming. In your previous life, you must have been a slave owner. You reek of low self esteem and your penis is your only claim to relevance.

dealslip:


Oga, it is very obvious you are pained that women have started debunking and shrugging off those lies, implanted into your mind. All I see is a guy with low self esteem trying to force yourself on women. People like you are so afraid of women taking a position of leadership. Oga, being a leader doesn't make you superior to others. Leadership is not forced, it is earned. You also have to qualify to be leader. It is not your third leg that makes you a leader, it is quality of your value. Sadly, a lot of women have been trainedto be leaders because they are lot smarter than men like you because their penis is not their tool for direction but their wisdom, so get of my back with all those lines of men are wired to be leader because you have no idea of who you are your penis is your definition of yourself. Good morning

Looooool I once wrote about sth similar. It was titled men who have nothing to offer than their d*ck . This brings back memories lol

kaboninc:


Too bad you don't understand yourself!

Yiy are the confused one. You are a sad low self esteemed, penis swinging slowpoke whose idea of superiority is his penis and muscular chest. Sorry to disappoint you there are more male turning into women this days, do you wanna give it a try. Move on and accept, a female specie of human is equal with male counterparts. Go develop your soul, your are still a toddler in your soul no education at all.

dealslip:


Oga, it is very obvious you are pained that women have started debunking and shrugging off those lies, implanted into your mind. All I see is a guy with low self esteem trying to force yourself on women. People like you are so afraid of women taking a position of leadership. Oga, being a leader doesn't make you superior to others. Leadership is not forced, it is earned. You also have to qualify to be leader. It is not your third leg that makes you a leader, it is quality of your value. Sadly, a lot of women have been trainedto be leaders because they are lot smarter than men like you because their penis is not their tool for direction but their wisdom, so get of my back with all those lines of men are wired to be leader because you have no idea of who you are your penis is your definition of yourself. Good morning

When you can't pass across your message, you resort to insult. That's what confused feminist like yourself do.

Am not pained by the successes of women. Am not pained that today and like in older days, women achieve greater heights and set new records. Am not pained that Africa has produced her first female president. Am not pained that in some homes, the women carry the most burden and that's because someone thought it wise to give equal opportunities to both genders - opportunities that empower her financially. No am not pained.

But I am pained. I am pained because of people like you. Because unlike those women who do not compete with the men in their lives, they understand that there are differences between both sexes and would rather work together to achieve a common goal, people like you seek dominance in a world that's run by the men. People like you do not seek empowerment for better use, but empowerment to subjugate men and make them bow at your feet. People like you are so pained that there are men. People like you are so bitter that all you ever want to do is destroy the men.

I never claimed superiority over sexes. I still will never claim equality over a woman because we are not just equal. I only said that in a ship with you, I'll be your boss and your captain. You're pained by that. Take a red pill.

It also pained you that I have a third leg. It pains you that you don't have. Deal with it. Am not pained that I don't have an extra opening down there because I appreciate and cherish what I already have.

In other areas of lives, in work place, in the community, in academics, women hold leadership role. Does it mean they are superior to men? I bet you'd say yes. But should it be men who occupy those positions, you'll reject it with all the tiny cells in your body.

You're just simply pained and confused!

dealslip:


Yiy are the confused one. You are a sad low self esteemed, penis swinging slowpoke whose idea of superiority is his penis and muscular chest. Sorry to disappoint you there are more male turning into women this days, do you wanna give it a try. Move on and accept, a female specie of human is equal with male counterparts. Go develop your soul, your are still a toddler in your soul no education at all.

Just negodi....

dealslip:


But you just said it is an opinion, I chose to believe, I only quoted you. I guess you are the confused one Mr. Oga move on and go and understand what equality means, the fact that there are still men like you is alarming. In your previous life, you must have been a slave owner. You reek of low self esteem and your penis is your only claim to relevance.

Same penis you'd love to have.

kaboninc:


Same penis you'd love to have.

Why not, I love the joystick, I think it is a masterpiece for pleasure but not an instrument for direction of my life.

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dealslip:


Yiy are the confused one. You are a sad low self esteemed, penis swinging slowpoke whose idea of superiority is his penis and muscular chest. Sorry to disappoint you there are more male turning into women this days, do you wanna give it a try. Move on and accept, a female specie of human is equal with male counterparts. Go develop your soul, your are still a toddler in your soul no education at all.

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Like I said, you're confused. Sadly you're filled with insult.

kaboninc:


When you can't pass across your message, you resort to insult. That's what confused feminist like yourself do.

Am not pained by the successes of women. Am not pained that today and like in older days, women achieve greater heights and set new records. Am not pained that Africa has produced her first female president. Am not pained that in some homes, the women carry the most burden and that's because someone thought it wise to give equal opportunities to both genders - opportunities that empower her financially. No am not pained.

But I am pained. I am pained because of people like you. Because unlike those women who do not compete with the men in their lives, they understand that there are differences between both sexes and would rather work together to achieve a common goal, people like you seek dominance in a world that's run by the men. People like you do not seek empowerment for better use, but empowerment to subjugate men and make them bow at your feet. People like you are so pained that there are men. People like you are so bitter that all you ever want to do is destroy the men.

I never claimed superiority over sexes. I still will never claim equality over a woman because we are not just equal. I only said that in a ship with you, I'll be your boss and your captain. You're pained by that. Take a red pill.

It also pained you that I have a third leg. It pains you that you don't have. Deal with it. Am not pained that I don't have an extra opening down there because I appreciate and cherish what I already have.

In other areas of lives, in work place, in the community, in academics, women hold leadership role. Does it mean they are superior to men? I bet you'd say yes. But should it be men who occupy those positions, you'll reject it with all the tiny cells in your body.

You're just simply pained and confused!

Oga once again, you have not gotten my message. I am not bothered what position any man occupies but to tell me I am not your equal because I am a woman is the issue here and you have constantly talked about a man been superior to a woman. That is very disappointing, honestly I am finding it hard to comprehend there are still human like you, my respect for everyman in my life just doubled such strong men.

dealslip:


Why not, I love the joystick, I think it is a masterpiece for pleasure but not an instrument for direction of my life.

You'd love to have our joystick! Lol.

kaboninc:


You'd love to have our joystick! Lol.

I already have mine that I get anytime I want. I sure love it the more because the possessor and I have same values and I am not told I am below the pen.is

dealslip:


Oga once again, you have not gotten my message. I am not bothered what position any man occupies but to tell me I am not your equal because I am a woman is the issue here and you have constantly talked about a man been superior to a woman. That is very disappointing, honestly I am finding it hard to comprehend there are still human like you, my respect for everyman in my life just doubled such strong men.

You do have a problem.. .just that you just do not know yet.

Okay ohh, you're equal with me. I have agreed.

dealslip:


I already have mine that I get anytime I want. I sure love it the more because the possessor and I have same values and I am not told I am below the pen.is

I mean have it in you.

You'd love to have it in you.

kaboninc:


You do have a problem.. .just that you just do not know yet.

Okay ohh, you're equal with me. I have agreed.

I do not have a problem. Thank you for agreeing.

dealslip:


I do not have a problem. Thank you for agreeing.

Now I can rest.

Have a beautiful day!

kaboninc:


I mean have it in you.

You'd love to have it in you.

No I don't want it on me but in me when I so desire

dealslip:


No I don't want it on me but in me when I so desire

Enjoy!

kaboninc:


Now I can rest.

Have a beautiful day!

You too SIR!

kaboninc:




Enjoy!

Thanks SIR

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But you haven't answered the post. You just expressed your animalistic tendencies to me. Well good to know.
Your choice of words is quite impressive. But you like a large amount of people hide behind grammar to say nothing.

Empty barrel lo n ma pariwo.

DarkRebel101:



To dignify this codswallop with a response would be to devolve a thousand fathoms deep into that cesspit of ignorance you've made your abode.

Allow me kill that false dragon in your head: We are not on the same level, boy; and it's best you keep your idiøtic, namby-pamby, imbecilic gobbledygook to those of your ilk.

The next time you perturb my mentions, hoping to establish a discourse with me, I would pull your skeleton out of your body then pee in your nostrils.

Semi-illiterate sciolist puffing his flat chest with half-baked knowledge.

lovelygurl:



Things changed because womenfount for it which a few men supported


I done even know why I am replying you because it's clear as crystal you never ever in your miserable life have travelled out because if you did you wouldn't have been saying this bullshit you were

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You can insult my miserable life for all i care, but if you are a rational thinking female with common sense... i am telling you that men gave women civilisation and good life...women never gave men civilisation...

You are saying rubbish about travelling.. Even the almighty west, the manipulative gender equality thing is made possible by men.... So tell me something else..

dealslip:


Perfect. I nailed you where I wanted. I knew you will go to that verse of the bible to support your warped mentality. Where in that verse does it say a woman is not equal to a man. The fact that a woman heads your dept or owns the company where you work confirms that you are less than a woman and you are not equal to her, do you see the flip side of your argument.blah blah blah...

We live in a world that is doing everything it can to
deny the gifts that God has given to man. And I don’t
mean mankind, but male human beings. For several
decades it was politically incorrect even to discuss these differences between men and women. But we
do not need a scientific study to show what has
always been right before our very eyes. It is great though that with new MRI technology we
can now verify differences in how men’s brains work
from women’s. Not only can we see and observe the
differences from the outside, but now we can see
them on the inside as well in the most complex organ
of the human body, the brain. There are many non-Christian scientists and
psychologists today that can no longer follow the
politically correct agenda of feminists and
egalitarians. More and more scientists and studies are
verifying the vastly different physiological and
psychological differences between the sexes. Men are different from women. They are equal only in
their common membership in the same species,
humankind. To maintain that they are the same in
aptitude, skill or behavior is to build a society based
on a biological and scientific lie. As Christians we applaud and agree with the finding
of these differences. Our only disagreements come
when we talk about the source of these differences,
evolution versus the intelligent design of our God and
creator. Superior, inferior or just different? Before I go further into this I want to say a few more
things about what has become a controversial topic –
mainly the FACT that men have some superior
abilities to women in many areas. If you give this post a fair reading, you will see I do
not hate women. I do hate, and I believe God also
hates, the 'IDEOLOGY' of feminism. It seems today like
every time some study comes out that women are
better at this or that than men – everybody is
applauding it from the rooftops. But in our society we are not allowed to say men are
better than women at anything and anytime it is
brought up excuses are made and it is simply a
“cultural” thing, otherwise women will always be
equal to or excel past men – or so we are told.
There is a difference in saying “men are awesome,
and women stink” and saying “men are superior to
women in certain ways”. The fact is, in many ways
women are inferior to men, but so too men are also inferior to women in some ways. To say so is not
rude, or mean, it is simply a Biblical fact that is backed
up by science. I don’t think we are being fully truthful when we
say that a man having 50% more strength than a
woman is just a “difference”. No way! It’s a superior
capability. When I talk about how woman is superior
to man I will gladly acknowledge that women have
superior hearing and color-perception to men; again, it is not a difference, it is a superiority! Let me begin how God made man superior to woman
with this verse: 14 I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully
made; your works are wonderful, I know that full
well. – Psalm 139:14 (NIV) Men are superior to women in strength, endurance
and athletics God made man taller and stronger than woman. In
the United States men are typically 6 inches taller than
women. Men on average have 40% more upper body
strength and 33% more lower body strength than
women. Men are much leaner than women with
typically 50% less body fat than the average woman carries in her body. Of course there are exceptions
where a man may have very little muscle mass and a
woman has more muscle mass, but these are just that
– exceptions. Both science and general observation
show that men are typically larger and more muscular
than women without working out or doing anything artificially to change their bodies. There is a popular misconception that women have a
higher tolerance to pain than men because of the
horrendous pain they endure before, during and
sometimes even after childbirth. But that is actually a
myth. “This study has serious implications about how we
treat women after surgery as well as women who
experience chronic pain…. Because women have more
nerve receptors, they may experience pain more
powerfully than men, requiring different surgical
techniques, treatments or medicine dosages to help manage their pain and make them feel comfortable.” Men also have
stronger bones, tendons and ligaments. Men are more aggressive and competitive than
women A male’s major sex hormone, testosterone, impacts
his behavior…testosterone is the hormone most
associated with male aggressiveness,
competitiveness, and assertiveness…. Furthermore
competitiont raises testosterone levels and rivalry
fuels aggression. For example, the testosterone levels among athletes are actually highest at the end of a
competition rather than at the beginning… Testosterone also helps a man focus on a project,
competition, mission or venture….When we take into account that men have superior
strength, stamina and sensory motor skills along with
a built-in desire to compete and be aggressive, it is no
surprise that the vast majority of the best athletes in
the world are men. The likes of Usain Bolt, Tyson Gay, Yohan Blake, Asafa Powell. Just to mention a few Professional sports is an area in which we want to
see nothing but the best. Again, this is the primary reason why
even today, generations after the rise of feminism,
men still heavily dominate the entrepreneurial and management aspects of the business world. The state of our military today is a sad story. We have
allowed the politicians to force the military
commanders to allow women in combat. A man’s body is vastly
superior when it comes to combat. You put that woman on the front lines in battle and you are going
to get a lot of men killed when they go out of their
way to protect her, or she is just going to get killed.
This is yet another common sense thing, which any
person, educated or otherwise can see with their own
eyes. It would be funny if it were not so sad and pathetic. In summing up, we can see the fact that
God has designed man larger, stronger and tougher
than woman to naturally equip him for the protection
and provision roles he has assigned to man. If only
our world would regain some of the common sense it
used to have and acknowledge what is right in front of their very eyes. There are more highly intelligent men than highly
intelligent women While men and women have about the same average
IQ (according to intelligence testing), men vary much
more than women do. What that means is there are
more men at each spectrum of intelligence than
women (below average and above average).
However, after crossing the average intelligence threshold the amount of men who have above
average IQs begins to dominate the women, bringing
us to the point where there are eight genius-level IQ
men to every one woman genius. When we accept the strengths that God has given
man in his brain, then we are not shocked to discover
that there are eight male geniuses to every one
female genius. I don’t say “the survey must be
wrong”, or “it’s just a cultural thing” – We accept
it is how God made man. The first question a man usually asks another man
when they meet for the first time is, “What do you
do?” …most men identify themselves by their work.
God created men to “do” something in the field.
Watch young boys as they pick up sticks and turn
them into imaginary guns or tools. Recently a mother told us she had prevented her son from having any
toy guns or using sticks as pretend rifles, but when he
made his cheese sandwich into the form of a pistol
and was shooting a friend, she cried out in
exasperation, “I give up!” this is simply
part of a boy’s nature. He is called to be a hunter, a
worker, a doer. He wants to make his conquest in the
field of life. The academic term for this is the
“instrumentality of the male.” From childhood there is
something in a male that makes him like adventure and conquest. He wants to go into the field to hunt or
to work some way. Men are built to conquer the world around them. They
are built to lead. I believe it is Biblical that a woman’s place is in the
home: not saying she can never go out, but that
caring for the needs of her husband, her children and
her home should be the focus of her life. However, it would be Biblically, and even biologically
correct to say that a man is the polar opposite in this
area. A man’s place is outside the home – hunting,
working, achieving, exploring, building and yes, even
fighting. Some men are built to be warriors, whether
on the athletic field or on the battlefield. Mothers need to respect and help channel their boys’
God-given need for conquest and not try to make
their sons more like their daughters! Wives need to
respect their husbands’ need for achievement, to
work, and to make his mark on the world. Men have a deep need for respect A man’s need for conquest, to work and to achieve is
also directly related to his need for respect. I really
appreciated when Dr. Emerson Eggerichs came out
with his book “Love and Respect”. He may not have
been the first author in recent decades to talk about a
man’s need for respect, but the fact that he focused basically half a book to it was great. Men and women both need love and respect, but God
has wired man so that respect is his first need and the
emotional side of love is secondary to that. If a man
feels disrespected by his colleagues or especially his
wife and children, this will cause him a great deal of
pain and he will most likely react in very negative ways towards disrespect. When a woman accepts and appreciates her
husband’s need for respect, she will most likely see a
transformation in her marriage. Women who take the
attitude that “I wILL RESPECT HIM WHEN I THINK HE HA EARNED IT” will never experience the full happiness in
marriage that is possible if they would just show him the respect that he needs. Men are wired to be the primary provider for the
home God has made man with a built-in desire to be the
primary provider for his family. If his wife has a more
successful career than him, in many marriages it
eventually destroys the marriage. His self-respect, as
well as his wife’s self-respect is tied to his ability to
be the primary provider (the one who makes the most money). It is not uncommon for men who become
disabled (and their wives are forced to support the
family) to become very depressed; it violates the
man’s nature down to his very core. This is not some simple pride thing as some feminists
have tried to say, but a built-in desire given by God in
men. Well into feminism’s second generation, there are
finally a significant number of women reaching parity
with the men in their fields–not to mention
surpassing them–and winning the salary, bonuses,
and perks that signify their arrival… Yet this proud
professional achievement often seems to have unhappy consequences at home. … Neither the newly liberated alpha women nor their
shell-shocked beta spouses seem comfortable with
the role reversal. … According to psychologists (and divorce lawyers) who
see couples struggling with such changes, many
relationships follow the same patter. First, the wife
starts to lose respect for her husband, then he begins
to feel emasculated, and then sex dwindles to a full
stop. Suppose that both men and women are happier – all
else being equal – the more money their spouse
makes. In such a world, couples wouldn’t care
whether the man or woman earns more, so the
population of couples would have what we call a
“normal distribution,” and would be captured in a bell-shaped curve. But that’s not what we see in the
real-world data. Instead, there is a sharp drop in the number of male-
female couples at exactly the point where the woman
starts to earn more than half of household income. This finding supports earlier research from speed-
dating sessions, which found that while women prefer men to be intelligent and ambitious, men have these preferences for women only to the point where women threaten to earn more than they do. Aversion to wives earning more than husbands could
be leading to fewer weddings and more divorces,
according to a National Bureau of Economic Research
working paper Marianne
Bertrand and Emir Kamenica, University of Chicago
. Compiling results from surveys taken by the U.S.
Census Bureau and by the Labor Department, the
reserachers came to several conclusions. One was that
marriage rates decline as the probability that a
woman earns more than a man increases. Even people that are in favor of feminist changes in
our society see the problems. We just disagree about
the causes and the solution. Both sides agree that
men are generally not attracted to women who are
smarter or make more money than them, and when
they do get with a woman who becomes more successful it usually takes a terrible toll on the
marriage. Feminist advocates just argue it’s caused by a culture
that says men need to be the primary breadwinner. In
their view it is just about changing hearts and minds
and then men and women will all live together in a
wonderful utopia. Those of us who oppose these
feminist changes will maintain that it is something that is wired biologically into men, and if it is
biological, no amount of social brain-washing of men
will change this. Marriage rates are declining, while divorce rates stay
close to 50 percent. Divorce rates have slightly
declined from their high in the 1980s. But what is not
mentioned is that one of the contributing factors to
the divorce-rate decline is that people are just not
marrying as much as they used to. Couples are just cohabitng much more. I would argue that if we could
get good studies on the breakup rate of long-term
cohabiting couples and then combine that with
divorce rates, we would go well beyond the 50-
percent divorce rate we had in the 1980s. Either way you slice it, most relationships between
men and women do not work well when the wife is
more intelligent and makes more money than the
husband. In the rare instances where it does work, I
guarantee you will find a feminine man who is low on
testosterone, or a man who had a domineering and aggressive mother who beat his father down. Even in
relationships where a man is forced to stay home
because he is disabled, if he is honest he will tell you
it drives him nuts that his wife has to support the
family. It does not just go against our cultural values,
but it goes against male biology itself. Men are built to compartmentalize None of us will ever agree with everything in a
marriage book. But the book “Men Are Like Waffles –
Women Are Like Spaghetti” is still a great book and I
highly recommend it. The very title of the book, as
well as their other descriptions in the book, gives a
great picture of the different ways a man’s brain works from a woman’s brain. If you look down at a waffle, you see a collection of
boxes separated by walls. The boxes are all separate
from each other and make convenient holding places.
That is typically how a man processes life. Our
thinking is divided up into boxes that have room for
one issue and one issue only…. The typical man lives in one box at a time and one box only. When a man is
at work, he is at work. When he is in the garage
tinkering around, he is in the garage tinkering. When
he is watching TV, he is simply watching TV. That is
why he looks as though he is in a trance and can
ignore everything else going on around him. Social scientists call this “compartmentalizing”–that is,
putting life and responsibilities into different
compartments. As a result, men are problem solvers by nature. They
enter a box, size up the “problem,” and formulate a
solution…. In contrast to men’s waffle-like approach, women
process life more like a plate of pasta. If you look at a
plate of spaghetti, you notice that there are lots of
individual noodles that all touch one another. If you
attempted to follow one noodle around the plate, you
would intersect a lot of other noodles, and you might even switch to another noodle seamlessly. That is
how women face life. Every thought and issue is
connected to every other thought and issue in some
way. Life is much more of a process for women than
it is for men. This is why women are typically better at
multitasking than men. She can talk on the phone,
prepare a meal, make a shopping list, work on the
agenda for tomorrow’s business meeting, give
instructions to her children as they are going out to
play, and close the door with her foot without skipping a beat. Because all her thoughts, emotions,
and convictions are connected, she is able to process
more information and keep track of more activites. But
the vast majority (I would safely say 90%) of men are
exactly as Bill and Pam describe. We will cover God’s design for women in a separate paper, but their
description of how women process the world is spot
on as well. Conclusion and Application Whether you are a Christian reading this, or a non-
Christian I invite you to examine the evidence both
from biology as well as your own general
observations of human behavior. Will there be
exceptions? Yes. There are some men who have
behaviors and abilities that more mimic the typical woman, and there are some women who have
behaviors and abilities that more mirror the typical
man. But these are rare. As believers we have a source of truth that not only
confirms the differences we see in biology and typical
gender behaviors, but it also gives a reason for the
differences. It gives us a purpose, if we will only
believe and accept it. To the men I say, will you accept how God has made
you? Will you accept the purpose for your differences
and use them in accordance with his plan? Will you
lead your families, protect your families and provide
for your families even if your abilities are not as
strong as other men in various areas? Will you pray to God to strengthen your weaknesses? To the women I say, will you accept how God has
made men? Moms – will you accept that it is ok that your boys are
more aggressive than your girls? Will you accept your
little boy’s need to compete, his need to conquer the
world around him? Will you resist the ungodly world’s
call to feminize him, to soften him or to emasculate
him? Wives – will you accept your husband’s God-given
need to lead you, protect you and provide for you?
Will you stop trying to compete with him, and just
complete him with the unique gifts God has given you
as a woman? We must all accept that God has built man to
systemize, to compartmentalize, to conquer and to
compete. Accept that a man needs to be respected,
even before his need for love. Accept the differences
God has made, and do not try to minimize them or
ignore them. Our world is doing that now, to our own destruction. Finally let me end this with Corinthians 11:8-9: For man did not come from woman, but woman from man; neither
was man created for woman, but woman for
man.

2dugged:
hehehehe isorite atleast we agree on something that the lady is high on harmatan dust

Bwawawawawa. You just killed the whole thing. Go and sidon joor. How will you say such a thing? Lwkmdfh