I would love to be as brief as possible. Around August this year, I visited my mum, and she took me to her church, a pentecostal church. There, the Pastor prophesied to me that I should leave my current girlfriend, as she's not the right person God has chosen for me. He went ahead to mention the name of my ''God-designed'' wife. Feeling confused, as I love my girl friend and we are very compatible with each other, I visited another pastor who told me, contrary to my mum's pastor's prophesy, that my girlfriend is okay for me. Because of this contrasting views of different ''men of God'', I decided to go ahead with my relationship.
However, just yesterday, my girlfriend invited me to her church, and there, her own pastor prophesied to me that I'm stubborn not to have taken an earlier warning. He further said that my girlfriend will bring about my downfall.This got me thinking if it's high time to call off the relationship. Hence, I would appreciate mature advice from knowledgeable individuals on what to do right now.

kevwemanuel:
I would love to be as brief as possible. Around August this year, I visited my mum, and she took me to her church, a pentecostal church. There, the Pastor prophesied to me that I should leave my current girlfriend, as she's not the right person God has chosen for me. He went ahead to mention the name of my ''God-designed'' wife. Feeling confused, as I love my girl friend and we are very compatible with each other, I visited another pastor who told me, contrary to my mum's pastor's prophesy, that my girlfriend is okay for me. Because of this contrasting views of different ''men of God'', I decided to go ahead with my relationship.
However, just yesterday, my girlfriend invited me to her church, and there, her own pastor prophesied to me that I'm stubborn not to have taken an earlier warning. He further said that my girlfriend will bring about my downfall.This got me thinking if it's high time to call off the relationship. Hence, I would appreciate mature advice from knowledgeable individuals on what to do right now.

well, what I think you should do is seek God's face yourself with an open mind and forget all the prophecies you have heard. Besides the spiritual angle, I think you should start asking yourself how compatible you guys really are in the important things that matter e.g money matters, child upbringing, spirituality etc. Are your dreams and ideals the same? What are your values? Etc

[quote author=Treasuredlove post=52425289] well, what I think you should do is seek God's face yourself with an open mind and forget all the prophecies you have heard. Besides the spiritual angle, I think you should start asking yourself how compatible you guys really are in the important things that matter e.g money matters, child upbringing, spirituality etc. Are your dreams and ideals the same? What are your values? Etc[/quote.
I appreciate your input.

I appreciate your input.

Take heed.

Lol men of God indeed! They Give you a problem and profer a solution.

kevwemanuel:
I would love to be as brief as possible. Around August this year, I visited my mum, and she took me to her church, a pentecostal church. There, the Pastor prophesied to me that I should leave my current girlfriend, as she's not the right person God has chosen for me. He went ahead to mention the name of my ''God-designed'' wife. Feeling confused, as I love my girl friend and we are very compatible with each other, I visited another pastor who told me, contrary to my mum's pastor's prophesy, that my girlfriend is okay for me. Because of this contrasting views of different ''men of God'', I decided to go ahead with my relationship.
However, just yesterday, my girlfriend invited me to her church, and there, her own pastor prophesied to me that I'm stubborn not to have taken an earlier warning. He further said that my girlfriend will bring about my downfall.This got me thinking if it's high time to call off the relationship. Hence, I would appreciate mature advice from knowledgeable individuals on what to do right now.

Hear from God, not a pastor

How do you hear from God without any bias coming from your personal judgment?

Ratio is 2:1.

Your mama pastor and her own pastor o say make you free the babe.
Though me I no dey believe these "men of God" but

Guy, free the babe na...

I repeat, she carry you herself go her church, her pastor say make you free am...

Ikpa! free that babe

Seek God's face yourself, he is faithful

OP,

This girl in question, how is she like - does she love u?

She loves me very much and I love her too. And we are very compatible. This serves as the main source of my dilemma, as I find it so difficult to comprehend why she'd want to bring me down.

[quote author=kevwemanuel post=52425590][/quote] you are welcome

you are welcome [/quote]