I will just go straight to the points.

1. Resolve that your wedding is this year, doesn't matter if you are currently in a relationship or not.

2. In considering a spouse be average about physical and financial appearance/capabilities.

3. Explore all godly/positive counsel and help from the right sources (everyone married today got some kind of help).

4. Be sensitive/ open your eyes very wide; husbands/wives are everywhere even in nairaland.( Take people on social media serious, they are not aliens)

5. Engaged doesnt mean marriage, fix the date and work towards “I DO” (You are married or you are not).

6. Only two people are important in your mArriage; your spouse and God. Get their approval (Orphans understand this).

7. Dont be shy propose/lead him to propose (stop the pretense,there is no time for that).

8. Have faith, start planing a simple wedding.

9. If partner not marriageably forthcoming, end it; you are not getting younger.

10. Its not a prediction of doom but know this, it will be more difficult for you/people to get married next year.

You can add yours or ask questions.

MYND44 LALASTICLALA. Let's provide help for people planning to marry this year.

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