i've alwayz have my believes n reservation abt who a perfect soul mate shud b, soo through out my years of Dating experiences i operated based on dos principles, i've bin oportuned to meet real nice ladies who truely loved me for me. but based on believ mst of dos relation lead to no wer, it was full of passion, romance n hot sex sections, i knew wat women wants n hw to control dem phycologicaly so dy can b emotiomally dependant on me! but above all i was nice n honest n wud tell dem d relationship wud lead to knw wer due to some reasons i wudnt want to disclose soo i was d perfect inocent play boy! who specializes in datein girl wit boyfrnds , witout dem having to quit der previous relationship soo dy can go back to der boyfrnds wen we ar done!

I'll b turnin 29yrs later dis yr! n lately it dawn on me dat it is time to get serious n finally settle down soo i meet dis prity gir2l of my dream we spoke well n communicated perfectly we both fell in love n i decided we may get married later dis yr if everytin goes well D problem nw is dat shez currently in an unserious relationship wit no hopes of d dude settle down wit her! but she cant stil get over him because d've bin sexually intimate! dy both scool in d some university, while am based in Abuja! i've bin callin my bae'z no. since yesterday n it switch off! i cant stand d fact dat d dude mait b bleepin her right nw i cudnt even sleep at night! i guess d law of Karma is finally catchin up wit me!

Karma didn't catch up with you, because karma doesn't exist.

Bro this your write up is discouraging me

Which Karma?
Guy, talk sense into dat girl or leave am because time no dey

makydebbie:
Bro this your write up is discouraging me

dnt b discouraged! too lengthy i guess?

vicben27:
dnt b discouraged! too lengthy i guess?

Its not the length, I'm not just cool with short hand

makydebbie:
Its not the length, I'm not just cool with short hand

ooh! sorry dear i was jst tryin to mak it as brief as possible

Xensity:
Karma didn't catch up with you because karma doesn't exist.

Its only a fool that believes it doesn't exist

My opinion tho

vicben27:
ooh! sorry dear i was jst tryin to mak it as brief as possible

Okay

chimdi101:
Which Karma?
Guy, talk sense into dat girl or leave am because time no dey

sure bro! we'll b havin a long talk later! cant afford to b havin BP! because of anybody right nw!

Not a gram of F-U-C-K shall be given

Well, it was bound to happen sooner or later, spinning plates is all good n fun til u start catching feelings. Deal with it.

So you brought this online I swear,i wont let her go till February... And if u cant stand it,commit suicide...

makydebbie:
Its not the length, I'm not just cool with short hand

His phone has asthma

doctorkush:
So you brought this online I swear,i wont let her go till February... And if u cant stand it,commit suicide...

lol ur definately nt d dude no sakes!

kesikeller:
Not a gram of F-U-C-K shall be given

ur fu-ck wil definately nt b relevant

vicben27:
sure bro! we'll b havin a long talk later! cant afford to b havin BP! because of anybody right nw!

Yeah, that's the spirit

ikombe:
Its only a fool that believes it doesn't exist

My opinion tho

Great. You expressed your opinion, beginning with an insult. That's really mature.

So, in the same vein, let me do mine, but more eruditely. Anyone who believes in the law of karma, that posits that whatever action an individual carries out, would influence his life in the future, in that he would be punished or rewarded according to the nature of his actions, doesn't have the intellectual resources that enable critical thinking.

One really needs to have a circumscribed and myopic view of reality to subscribe to inherently flawed beliefs like the belief in Karma, and sadly, you seem to accurately fit this disposition.

Yes, the law of reciprocal proportion is at work.
The law of sowing and reaping at work.
The law of karma.

Always live by the golden rule if you want your life to be trouble free.

" DO TO OTHERS AS YOU WOULD HAVE OTHERS DO TO YOU"

Op, live with it and endure it because its real.

Kondomatic:
His phone has asthma

Sure?

Xensity:


Great. You expressed your opinion, beginning with an insult. That's really mature.

So, in the same vein, let me do mine, but more eruditely. Anyone who believes in the law of karma, that posits that whatever action an individual carries out, would influence his life in the future, in that he would be punished or rewarded according to the nature of his actions, doesn't have the intellectual resources that enable critical thinking.

One really needs to have a circumscribed and myopic view of reality to subscribe to inherently flawed beliefs like the belief in Karma, and sadly, you seem to accurately fit this disposition.

believe it or nt wat goes arud comes arud! one way or another we all get to pay 4 our sins! soo keep havin a good time!

vicben27:
believe it or nt wat goes arud comes arud! one way or another we all get to pay 4 our sins! soo keep havin a good time!

Nope. We don't all get to pay for our sins, the same way we don't all get rewarded for our good deeds. You see, good and bad happen to us all, but then taking the bad and drawing a parallel between the bad and possible bad actions that we might have committed in the past, is really where most of us have it wrong. Humans are pattern seekers. We seek patterns in everything. We love to connect dots that don't even exist. We are very susceptible to confirmation bias. We love to ascribe agency to things we see and experience.

Take for instance a one time thief who believes in karma. If after two years, one of his own possessions gets stolen, he'd automatically believe that karma has caught up with him. But is it actually karma catching up with him, or did he just become a victim of theft, just like everyone else?

Look around you. There are good people who don't get rewarded despite all the good they do, but there are also good people who get rewarded for their good. But is this Karma at work? There are also bad people who don't face any overt repercussions for their perpetual bad actions, but there are still bad people who face repercussions for their actions. Is this Karma at work or just a product of randomness and sheer luck? So why then do we cheery-pick only the ones that support or confirm our beliefs?

Xensity:
Karma didn't catch up with you because karma doesn't exist.

There are somethings you'd do today and it will come hunting you tomorrow...berra mind the kind of sins you commit,.esp in your youthful age.

What goes around,comes around
Welcome to the club
Hope you know she will be doing some serious bj with the guy
She will carry the same mouth come kiss you

Xensity:


Nope. We don't all get to pay for our sins, the same way we don't all get rewarded for our good deeds. You see, good and bad happen to us all, but then taking the bad and drawing a parallel between the bad and possible bad actions that we might have committed in the past, is really where most of us have it wrong. Humans are pattern seekers. We seek patterns in everything. We love to connect dots that don't even exist. We are very susceptible to confirmation bias. We love to ascribe agency to things we see and experience.

Take for instance a one time thief who believes in karma. If after two years, one of his own possessions gets stolen, he'd automatically believe that karma has caught up with him. But is it actually karma catching up with him, or did he just become a victim of theft, just like everyone else?

Look around you. There are good people who don't get rewarded despite all the good they do, but there are also good people who get rewarded for their good. But is this Karma at work? There are also bad people who don't face any overt repercussions for their perpetual bad actions, but there are still bad people who face repercussions for their actions. Is this Karma at work or just a product of randomness and sheer luck? So why then do we cheery-pick only the ones that support or confirm our beliefs?

well said!

pls if this your written english is same as spoken

then karma don catch u

Your subconscious mind is just playing games with you, man up! Besides how could you be staying with someone who can't get over an unserious dude, especially because of intimacy?

Are you sure you really wanna settle down with such a woman?

wizard007:
Your subconscious mind is just playing games with you, man up! Besides how could you be staying with someone who can't get over an unserious dude, especially because of intimacy?

Are you sure you really wanna settle down with such a woman?

Same way the boy friends of those his then girl friends stayed with them when he was bleeping them. Life goes in circles dear hence the law of karma. It's is the law of natural justice, it makes no mistake bcz it's not the law of man.

Op help her to get over the guy if you can, if you can't, look for another and pray it work out well.

Xensity:
Karma didn't catch up with you, because karma doesn't exist.

karma does exist. IT REALLY DOES.