armyofone:
I'm wondering too. I think that woman should move on with her life. She should tell him in very clear English to move on with his too.
How are you Efe, hope good.

Happy New Year dear!

Yeah, it's been a while but I'm good. Hope you are too.

George22016:
The man is the head of the house yield to him

You're an idiot

Help him pack his things and bid him farewell to his village

You need to do a little study of your husband's psychology, loosing a job isn't easy for any man. How you pamper his ego is very important. In fact you need to be more loyal now that he doesn't have a job. Get a friend/ relative to codedly talk to him without him having any knowledge of your discussing with such a person. Remember you too can also loose your job. Villa isn't the best . Stoop as much as you can to conquer a broken man. This is when he needs you most.

I can't believe the woman is still seeking opinions on what to do about the marriage.

If it was me I would have laughed long and hard in his face and thanked him for ridding me of the burden of his jobless, insecure arse.

If this story is true, Op, kindly tell your husband to park well. Why is he trying to drag you down because he lost his job? If the marriage will end, so be it. How can a husband be so blind and uncaring to even suggest what he is suggesting ?

You have responsibilities, so face reality.

nnamdiokere45:
let dem gt divorced....she wld mke d biggest mistake of her life if she moves with him. she has her parents too so why wld u lose ur job cus of a jobless man

Gbam. You nailed it. Men. So that the joblessness can make all of them wallow in poverty.

Laird:
Madam money has no mood swings, does not make you unhappy, takes care of Your needs, solves your problems,

Emotions do not pay school fees, emotions do not buy children's books, emotions do not buy drug medication, no hospital asks You to settle Your bill with emotions

Ask him diplomatically and tactifully to provide You a source of income in the village before moving to the village.
If not, please calmly, kindly peacefully keep making Your Legit Money. Softly spoken

You are too much.

Glad you are dear, I'm good too. Can't wait for the cold season to be over.

EfemenaXY:


Happy New Year dear!

Yeah, it's been a while but I'm good. Hope you are too.