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Re: Your Dad Or Your Husband: Wives, Who Would You Obey? by Lankyscot(m): 10:40pm On Feb 23, 2017 |
engrobidigbo: This Is Simply Hilarious! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Your Dad Or Your Husband: Wives, Who Would You Obey? by Drabrah(m): 10:43pm On Feb 23, 2017 |
engrobidigbo: Wake up frm ur dream! My dear, there're fathers & there're fathers and there're husbands & there're husbands. This ur theory does not hold for every family. |
Re: Your Dad Or Your Husband: Wives, Who Would You Obey? by Origin(f): 10:52pm On Feb 23, 2017 |
The fact is you will sit without thinking. For about twenty years one man has been ordering you about without you revolting. Automatic reaction is you obey your dad's orders. This is a purely unconscious reaction. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Your Dad Or Your Husband: Wives, Who Would You Obey? by BobHIGHNESS(m): 11:17pm On Feb 23, 2017 |
I'll get into d car and sit down |
Re: Your Dad Or Your Husband: Wives, Who Would You Obey? by Alezy(m): 11:18pm On Feb 23, 2017 |
Answers to this question shows we have only very few wise ladies in the house. 1 Like |
Re: Your Dad Or Your Husband: Wives, Who Would You Obey? by delishpot: 11:26pm On Feb 23, 2017 |
obstead200: So in your entire life, you have never seen a woman with kids marry again? You are too childish calling a woman second hand because she has once married. The world has advanced beyound your reasoning. No one is forcing you to marry her. A woman is better being single than being with a closed minded an like you, who considers her worthless because she was once married to you.Hence she can never find happiness if she leaves. She has only one father, but can marry many men. Just as your wife can not expect you to dump your mom over her . Stop behaving like a child. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Your Dad Or Your Husband: Wives, Who Would You Obey? by delishpot: 11:27pm On Feb 23, 2017 |
Alezy: What do you consider wise? |
Re: Your Dad Or Your Husband: Wives, Who Would You Obey? by Alezy(m): 11:46pm On Feb 23, 2017 |
delishpot:a lady up there said what's proper to do but I think the OP didn't ask the question in the right manner. Let's say Ur husband needs 50k same time Ur father needs 50k and u have just 50k. will take lot of experience to know that ur husband is the right person at that moment to give(depending on priorities) u can argue on this but I urge you to ask some married folks first. |
Re: Your Dad Or Your Husband: Wives, Who Would You Obey? by bilulu(m): 11:50pm On Feb 23, 2017 |
Benita27:towards d car I guess |
Re: Your Dad Or Your Husband: Wives, Who Would You Obey? by kuchikau1: 12:08am On Feb 24, 2017 |
PaperLace:am sorry 4 u, very sorry. |
Re: Your Dad Or Your Husband: Wives, Who Would You Obey? by kuchikau1: 12:24am On Feb 24, 2017 |
delishpot:sometin is wrong wit u, seriously |
Re: Your Dad Or Your Husband: Wives, Who Would You Obey? by Nobody: 2:29am On Feb 24, 2017 |
obstead200: You can't talk for me and mine, but you can talk for you and yours. Africa is a continent with many different cultures and countries and what works in your little corner of Africa isn't what happens all over. Our culture and traditional beliefs wouldn't accept my husband to shout at my father 1. Secondly, only a disrespectful low life would shout at his father in law and I wouldn't pick such a man. My father is ex army man so trust me he would send men that would not be begging! Basically, what I'm trying to say is speak for yourself! Not me. 2 Likes |
Re: Your Dad Or Your Husband: Wives, Who Would You Obey? by Nobody: 4:08am On Feb 24, 2017 |
PaperLace: From ur comments, its obvious u don't have a happy marriage. U dey beef ur husband. From ur points, it seems ur hubby no pay ur bride price or u ain't in love with him anymore. Be it from the Bible , Quran or Traditional worship view, ur husband is the head, the leader. That's if u r rightfully married. Cos u dey talk like small, inexperienced pikin. 1 Like |
Re: Your Dad Or Your Husband: Wives, Who Would You Obey? by haryomikun(m): 4:27am On Feb 24, 2017 |
See blackmailer engrobidigbo: 1 Like |
Re: Your Dad Or Your Husband: Wives, Who Would You Obey? by oshorstan(m): 7:01am On Feb 24, 2017 |
[quote author=PaperLace post=52650917][/quote] My mother will begin to make my food henceforth... And I will never consult u again.. rubbish |
Re: Your Dad Or Your Husband: Wives, Who Would You Obey? by jerrymej(m): 7:36am On Feb 24, 2017 |
Bleep Husband... |
Re: Your Dad Or Your Husband: Wives, Who Would You Obey? by horlanray(m): 7:56am On Feb 24, 2017 |
U obey ur husband word cos he's more authority over u than ur father after marriage on some issue.. According to scripture #alquran #sunnah #roaullullah #saw |
Re: Your Dad Or Your Husband: Wives, Who Would You Obey? by NemzySeries(m): 8:04am On Feb 24, 2017 |
i kw sum of d ladies her here wud say blood is thicker dan water therefore d'll obey deir dad and disobey deir hubby but remember dat wat u do wit water can't d replaced by blood...... leearn to obey ur husbands and respect dem especially in front of ur parents jst like ur mum wud do to ur dad....... exceptin life threatening situation u'll all to withdraw |
Re: Your Dad Or Your Husband: Wives, Who Would You Obey? by NemzySeries(m): 8:08am On Feb 24, 2017 |
LaylaAli:wat if ur bobo na Ex cultist nko? u kw who hin go send for ur papa |
Re: Your Dad Or Your Husband: Wives, Who Would You Obey? by Nobody: 8:25am On Feb 24, 2017 |
PaperLace:Me nko? Any woman who watches and does nothing while her husband shouts at her father should be regarded as nothing but a bastard. All these hypocritical men quoting you left and right to yarn opata would never ever condone any woman, let alone their wives disrespecting their mums. All those talks about husbands having the absolute authority over their wives is nothing but archaic bullshit. Men holding these 15th century school of thought forget that one day, they would move from husbands to becoming fathers too. Then they will understand how it feels when their own daughter takes side with her husband while watching her husband shout down on them. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Your Dad Or Your Husband: Wives, Who Would You Obey? by engrobidigbo: 8:31am On Feb 24, 2017 |
Sanchez01: If only you understand the strength of a woman, you won't write what you wrote! Women can turn the game against you with the cheapest blackmail tactics.... Women can mould and foster peace with a mere smile and shear strength, or they can destroy a home in a sec with their own hands.... The scenario i gave is tested and trusted!!! 1 Like |
Re: Your Dad Or Your Husband: Wives, Who Would You Obey? by engrobidigbo: 8:34am On Feb 24, 2017 |
Pray: My brother face the truth, some things we see on Zeeworld and Nollywood and hollywood have become the reality of our society |
Re: Your Dad Or Your Husband: Wives, Who Would You Obey? by engrobidigbo: 8:38am On Feb 24, 2017 |
Drabrah: Guy, no matter how tough the father in-law or the husband feel, or how much of a "James Bond" they believe they are, if the woman react in a way they've never ever seen her react, it will send seismic waves down their spine!!! |
Re: Your Dad Or Your Husband: Wives, Who Would You Obey? by engrobidigbo: 8:38am On Feb 24, 2017 |
haryomikun: |
Re: Your Dad Or Your Husband: Wives, Who Would You Obey? by Nobody: 8:54am On Feb 24, 2017 |
LastMumu:You know I love you pass fufu. See as they are quoting me from all angles, I know how to get them talking. My husband can't shout at my father and get away with it, same way I can't shout at his mum. If for any reason he tries it, he would bear the consequences...that's all. This is NL na, the rule changes when it's a woman. Na why I no dey answer them again, when I made a comment on how I can go to any length for my husband, they all prayed for a wife like me... , today they say I have an unhappy marriage...lols. 3 Likes |
Re: Your Dad Or Your Husband: Wives, Who Would You Obey? by Sanchez01: 9:01am On Feb 24, 2017 |
engrobidigbo:What on God's earth are you talking about? When a woman is married to a man, she drops her father's name and answers her husband's. The implication is that she belongs to a different family now and her access to her father's house can be greatly controlled or monitored by her husband. The principles of marriage are clear on this. Should a woman do otherwise, she is termed immature and, or a rebel. Again, should a father and his son-in-law get into an argument and both men decide to flex their authority on the vulnerable wife/daughter, she is to heed to her husband's call before any other. She's her father's daughter but she answers to a man before others now. She could make a reconciliatory move afterwards but there and then, she just has to answer to her man. A contrary move or action could be termed as whatever and might cause her to lose her place in her home. Perhaps she could marry her father then. Marriage vows and principles are like the terms and conditions of marriage. Your assertion seems to be the product of Telemundo. I honestly don't mean to slight you but it's the truth. 1 Like |
Re: Your Dad Or Your Husband: Wives, Who Would You Obey? by Ebulonse(m): 9:18am On Feb 24, 2017 |
engrobidigbo: |
Re: Your Dad Or Your Husband: Wives, Who Would You Obey? by purpleNG(f): 9:38am On Feb 24, 2017 |
Will jejely get in the car and sit down At least in obeyed them both |
Re: Your Dad Or Your Husband: Wives, Who Would You Obey? by ChappyChase: 9:49am On Feb 24, 2017 |
YOUNGrapha:Bro I no be hypocrite like you! |
Re: Your Dad Or Your Husband: Wives, Who Would You Obey? by ChappyChase: 9:50am On Feb 24, 2017 |
delishpot:Hahaha haha. Make the man kuku marry him daughter. |
Re: Your Dad Or Your Husband: Wives, Who Would You Obey? by delishpot: 10:04am On Feb 24, 2017 |
ChappyChase: Quite childish way of thinking. Reverse the case and put yourself in her shoes. What you quoted was a response to another quote. But if you choose to be ignorant and pick what suits you carry go 2 Likes |
Re: Your Dad Or Your Husband: Wives, Who Would You Obey? by eminent007(m): 10:35am On Feb 24, 2017 |
Xcelinteriors: It's been a while I quote a comment but I couldn't but quote you. Sorry to say this but you've got it wrong. No be quarrel ooo. If you wan know why, you can say so and I will tell you. |
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