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Re: Your Dad Or Your Husband: Wives, Who Would You Obey? by ChappyChase: 10:46am On Feb 24, 2017 |
delishpot:Bro the truth is this matter is a broad one, and it was never written that the guy was shouting at the lady's dad but they were both arguing. I believe that the lady aligence now lie with her husband. Cause she's now the husband responsibility and no longer the dad. So I see it as childish and insensitive for a married lady to place her dad over the husband. And please do you mind making your point without insulting me (calling me a kid) ? |
Re: Your Dad Or Your Husband: Wives, Who Would You Obey? by delishpot: 10:55am On Feb 24, 2017 |
ChappyChase: So a lady must have some man responsible for her brain and function? She is not a human that should have her own dignity to ask, to contribute and to be? She has a husband and a dad. Her aligence lie with both. Non should command her like a commodity. She is the victim here. She should do what ever suits her in this instance. She doesn't have to listen to any of them. I did not insult you. You it was who said the dad should marry his daughter. I replied, it is a childish way of thinking. I do not think I said anything insulting. If E vex you, then abeg, no vex again. I no plan to vex you today. 4 Likes |
Re: Your Dad Or Your Husband: Wives, Who Would You Obey? by ChappyChase: 11:07am On Feb 24, 2017 |
delishpot:You neither here nor there. In context of the question asked, what do you expect the lady to do? Sit down and get soaked in the heat of the quarrel (which she might likely say something she will regret) or kindly leave both of them(which will be going to the car)? |
Re: Your Dad Or Your Husband: Wives, Who Would You Obey? by delishpot: 11:10am On Feb 24, 2017 |
ChappyChase: Going to the car was the husbands command. Not her own reaction to what is on ground. I said, she should do what ever suits her. She doesn't have to follow any of their commands and non should have the feeling like they own her. She is an adult, she can decide for herself without being see in as a bad wife or daughter in this situation. 1 Like |
Re: Your Dad Or Your Husband: Wives, Who Would You Obey? by Nobody: 11:14am On Feb 24, 2017 |
pocohantas: Well...thats a tough one. Since I am married, I know the authority shifts automatically to the man, because I am a Christian. So... I will walk up to my dad, kiss him goodbye and walk to the car. But... My husband and I will settle such insolence when we get home. ... Whatever happens a Responsible man should not make his wife be put a position where she has to picks sides with him and her family. ... |
Re: Your Dad Or Your Husband: Wives, Who Would You Obey? by engrobidigbo: 11:57am On Feb 24, 2017 |
Sanchez01: I'm sorry to say this but it is you that don't understand the basics of marriage!!! You got married to a lady... you didn't purchase her from her parents dude She's your wife doesn't mean she don't have a family where she grew up.... In our clime, a marriage between two people is actually a marriage between 2 families.... If the husband has any iota of respect, he won't let any misunderstanding get to the point of exchanging words with his father in-law... This got nothing to do with Telemundo or Zeeworld or Africa Magic, this is about our African values.... I was trained not to exchange words with my elders, what about you? 3 Likes |
Re: Your Dad Or Your Husband: Wives, Who Would You Obey? by obstead200(m): 12:47pm On Feb 24, 2017 |
LaylaAli:YIMU So u are feeling strong cos ur dad is an ex soldier? What if u were unfortunate enough to marry another soldier much higher in rank to ur dad and also with double the ego ur dad has? In that case, I guess ur lot and that of ur dad will be bruises, brutalization and a disgraceful divorce (specially for u). |
Re: Your Dad Or Your Husband: Wives, Who Would You Obey? by Nobody: 5:57pm On Feb 24, 2017 |
obstead200: Like I said speak for you and yours. My father comes first even if it leads to a divorce. I would never make my man choose between me or his mum so I shouldn't have to choose and if I must my loyalty will always be to my parents. 2 Likes |
Re: Your Dad Or Your Husband: Wives, Who Would You Obey? by chikk(f): 9:32pm On Feb 24, 2017 |
hedonistic: Unfortunately, I see neither male, female nor even hermaphrodite attached to your handle. Meaning you are a NOBODY and thus, definitely undeserving of a typical response. 1 Like |
Re: Your Dad Or Your Husband: Wives, Who Would You Obey? by Fx55(m): 10:25pm On Feb 26, 2017 |
PaperLace:Can your FIL shout at you and get away with it? Just asking.... |
Re: Your Dad Or Your Husband: Wives, Who Would You Obey? by Nobody: 10:47pm On Feb 26, 2017 |
Fx55:I would ignore him, which is what I expect my husband to do too. |
Re: Your Dad Or Your Husband: Wives, Who Would You Obey? by Fx55(m): 10:56pm On Feb 26, 2017 |
PaperLace:Ignoring him isn't same as he getting away with it. Re-read my earlier question and provide a better answer. This time it should be well thought out and articulate. |
Re: Your Dad Or Your Husband: Wives, Who Would You Obey? by Nobody: 11:07pm On Feb 26, 2017 |
Fx55:K |
Re: Your Dad Or Your Husband: Wives, Who Would You Obey? by Nobody: 5:07pm On May 04, 2017 |
Pocohantas Did you ever had an old monicker? |
Re: Your Dad Or Your Husband: Wives, Who Would You Obey? by pocohantas(f): 5:24pm On May 04, 2017 |
Vorpal:No...but I plan getting a new one. |
Re: Your Dad Or Your Husband: Wives, Who Would You Obey? by Nobody: 5:29pm On May 04, 2017 |
pocohantas: Why? I was wondering for you to have shared that post but perhaps as a result of the peeps you follow. |
Re: Your Dad Or Your Husband: Wives, Who Would You Obey? by pocohantas(f): 5:31pm On May 04, 2017 |
Vorpal:You're right, one of my 'following' shared it. I liked the story and decided to share, wonder why I am just seeing such a beautiful love story. Why a new acct? I want to repent... |
Re: Your Dad Or Your Husband: Wives, Who Would You Obey? by Nobody: 5:38pm On May 04, 2017 |
pocohantas: Repent from what? I look forward to your hilarious posts oh, do not let me fall into depression. Some day i may repay you with a fat cheque |
Re: Your Dad Or Your Husband: Wives, Who Would You Obey? by ayokellany: 12:46am On Jul 31, 2017 |
Xcelinteriors: Sorry to ask but from this comment am forced to ask if you are married to a man or a boy ? |
Re: Your Dad Or Your Husband: Wives, Who Would You Obey? by monex(m): 11:51am On Sep 19, 2017 |
queenjuli: first, the thing is that this scenario is highly unlikely as men respect themselves more. Wifey in a heated argument with mum is more likely. secondly, in African culture, i respect my father-in-law even more than my own father. so for me and father-in-law to be having a shouting match, it means some serious shit has happened. Wifey is to stand by me at that hour. irrespective of whether wifey stands by me or not, or whether her dad is right or wrong, I would still have to go and prostrate to her father based on African culture things. However, Wifey standing by me determines where her loyalty lies. |
Re: Your Dad Or Your Husband: Wives, Who Would You Obey? by revolt(m): 10:13am On Oct 14, 2017 |
[quote author=PaperLace post=52650917][/quote]any man that abuses u is a fool. Why would he even power play with your father. If he'd trained he'd simply drop a heated argument wit the old man. Afterall nobody can force him to do what he doesn't want to do. |
Re: Your Dad Or Your Husband: Wives, Who Would You Obey? by revolt(m): 10:16am On Oct 14, 2017 |
engrobidigbo:if you're married I'm very sure u will never have a broken home. Good women don't keep homes, its politicians that keep homes. Unfortunately this can't be learnt. Its inborn. 1 Like |
Re: Your Dad Or Your Husband: Wives, Who Would You Obey? by rikamann: 11:25pm On Dec 29, 2017 |
Just kneel down, appeal to your father lovingly to forgive your hubby while winking at your hubby to take it easy......love wins and that could be the end if done well |
Re: Your Dad Or Your Husband: Wives, Who Would You Obey? by Diamond23(f): 11:53pm On Dec 29, 2017 |
[color=#770077][/color]Simple.....u obey both by sit nd stand, go into d car nd cum out den walk away |
Re: Your Dad Or Your Husband: Wives, Who Would You Obey? by darlenese(f): 11:54am On Dec 30, 2017 |
wetin I dey obey my papa for ? the one when I obey am b4 marriage never reach |
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