stillwater:

I don't know. They should sort out their own mishap. I'd rather he tied strings together than for me to pay for my engagement ring. And that's like a one in a thousand cases. We are talking about when a man buys the ring.

Regardless of who bought it, personally, it was a gift and the giftee shd keep the ring and she is free to do whatever she wants with it.
It is like you telling me that the ring belongs to the man, even thought they are together and doing well

michelin89:

It's just 3 to 1. Chill bobo!

Sorry but I have my own ways. I had male friends who bought me gifts and now that we aren't in good terms anymore, I have problems wearing those earrings and necklaces. If I could I'd gladly return them but they told me they didn't want them back.

Well, that is why u saying that then, cos if you would even return ordinary gifts, i wont be surprised if you wanna return underwear sef to them . . .
ratio of 3:1 is not too bad, but i still dey chill

I return returnable gifts. Haba why person go return underwear?

michelin89:

I return returnable gifts. Haba why person go return underwear?

Cos be like say, u just like to return stuff . . . .

If the guy is ok with it, I'll return whatever he bought for me.

I dont pray for disappointment

She said no to my proposal so why should I give her the ring again? Engagement ring is never a gift. If she said no then I will check the next door. See o

Considering you had already given it to her, would you want it back?

michelin89:

If the guy is ok with it, I'll return whatever he bought for me.

If he is ok, you will return the lingerie he bought u?

michelin89:

Considering you had already given it to her, would you want it back?

Nothing i give to a woman that i will ever wanna gget back

Mr blazer:

I dont pray for disappointment

No one does.

xynerise:

She said no to my proposal so why should I give her the ring again? Engagement ring is never a gift. If she said no then I will check the next door. See o  

Say she said YES and you gave her the ring and some months later, u messed up, would u ask for the ring back?

He wants to sell them or wear them?

By the way no guy has ever bought a lingerie for me. Only my girlfriends have for brithdays and festivities. Besides I like to surprise my boo by buying the underwears myself.

michelin89:

He wants to sell them or wear them?

By the way no guy has ever bought a lingerie for me. Only my girlfriends have for brithdays and festivities. Besides I like to surprise my boo by buying the underwears myself.

A woman buying u lingerie, watch out oh, cos they might be checking u out.

Fhemmmy:

Regardless of who bought it, personally, it was a gift and the giftee shd keep the ring and she is free to do whatever she wants with it.
It is like you telling me that the ring belongs to the man, even thought they are together and doing well

It doesn't sound right in my ears. Give back the ring and be free from every attachment you had with him. I think it clears the mind on the girl's part. It's a good step in finding peace from what may have transpired between you two.

If she has it already? Well I will beg her to forgive me where I go wrong, but is not the reason she is rejecting me then I will tell her '' Oya! Oya pull my ring give me abeg, Mary don beg me make I propose to her because of you I bone am. Give me my ring! '' her papa.

stillwater:

It doesn't sound right in my ears. Give back the ring and be free from every attachment you had with him. I think it clears the mind on the girl's part. It's a good step in finding peace from what may have transpired between you two.

My dear, regardless of what was returned or not, there are so many things that will forever make the relationship stands out in your head, have u ever loved someone so much and it ended, and you and your new man started ending up at same place u used to go with your former?
The kiss, the lovemaking, just too many things to remind you and make your heart beat faster at all time, so it is not the ring.
Like Micheline said, there is more that the woman cld have contributed if they were married than the worth of the ring, so also the emotional headache that she cld have gone thru all by dating.
The woman shd keep the ring

I also buy them hot sex lingeries. I even got a pair of handcuffs for my girlfriend.

xynerise:

If she has it already? Well I will beg her to forgive me where I go wrong, but is not the reason she is rejecting me then I will tell her '' Oya! Oya pull my ring give me abeg, Mary don beg me make I propose to her because of you I bone am. Give me my ring! '' her papa.

You are just funny.
She refused to give yu and said, it is hers cos you gave it to her, then, what?

Then there will be homicide . Dont mind me I kid a lot. If ring is what she wants then let her have it. I know I will see a gal prettier than her .

xynerise:

Then there will be homicide . Dont mind me I kid a lot. If ring is what she wants then let her have it. I know I will see a gal prettier than her .

If you keep looking at the prettiness of the babe, you will buy so many rings be4 the real one oh.

I dont actually mean facially pretty alone. I actually meant to say someone better than her.

xynerise:

I dont actually mean facially pretty alone. I actually meant to say someone better than her.

Okkkkkkkkkkkk

I did not want to start a new tread for this but I want to ask this question.


In Nigeria when a guy proposes to a girl, does he give her a ring?

I am asking because in Nigeria we have Engagement ceremony were rings are exchanged. Is it the same ring that is exchanged or does the guy buy another engagement ring?

I think this is a great question and i will like to know what people will say, and if the couple break up, who will keep that ring.?

Fhemmmy:

I think this is a great question and i will like to know what people will say, and if the couple break up, who will keep that ring.?

maybe i should start a new thread.

I am asking the question because I see some people (Nigerians) that their boyfriend proposed to them with rings and I just wonder will the boyfriend give another one during the engagement ceremony and wedding.

I think the lady keeps the ring since the guy gave it to her.

naijatoday:

maybe i should start a new thread.

I am asking the question because I see some people (Nigerians) that their boyfriend proposed to them with rings and I just wonder will the boyfriend give another one during the engagement ceremony and wedding.

I think the lady keeps the ring since the guy gave it to her.

That is what i would expect too.
Start a new thread for it

The woman should give it back.

If it doesn't work out--- the woman should gladly give it back and move on

posakosa:

If it doesn't work out--- the woman should gladly give it back and move on

if it is a cheap ring, I will encourage her to give it back. If it is expensive, the girl should sell it and keep the money.

mama-gee:

The woman should give it back.

Why shd she give a gift back?

naijatoday:

if it is a cheap ring, I will encourage her to give it back. If it is expensive, the girl should sell it and keep the money.

Lol

posakosa:

If it doesn't work out--- the woman should gladly give it back and move on

Works out or not, it was a gift and shd not be returned.
That ought to be for her to keep, sell and use the money to clean your heart of the Nigro