₦airaland Forum

Welcome, Guest: Join Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / New
Stats: 1,728,414 members, 3,312,359 topics. Date: Tuesday, 17 January 2017 at 01:52 AM

How Do I Stop Myself From Overthinking?? - Romance (1) - Nairaland

Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / How Do I Stop Myself From Overthinking?? (874 Views)

How Can I Stop My Affair With My Neighbour? / Please How can i stop Masturbation? / Am I Overthinking Or Maybe My Gf Is Slowly Slipping Away? (1) (2) (3) (4)

(0) (1) (Reply) (Go Down)

Re: How Do I Stop Myself From Overthinking?? by ikp120(m): 5:35pm On Jan 11
BluntMadmoiselle:

U mind chatting on WhatsApp
Almost everyone is saying something similar.....I'm kinda confused...
I'm a lady
Lolzzz grin grin
Lady my ass grin grin
You can lie grin grin
Re: How Do I Stop Myself From Overthinking?? by firstking01(m): 6:26pm On Jan 11
stupidity:
this is serious!!!

Meaning you don't have a boyfriend?
If girls gossip doesn't interest you and you feel unsecured around guys!!!

Have nothing else to say. This one pass me.
Very very true...i think what she needs is a psychiatrist.
Re: How Do I Stop Myself From Overthinking?? by BluntMadmoiselle: 6:34pm On Jan 11
ikp120:


Lolzzz grin grin

Lady my ass grin grin

You can lie grin grin

undecided

ı ɖơŋŧ ɧą۷ɛ ą קřơცٳɛm ɯıŧɧ ყơų ცɛٳıɛ۷ıŋɠ mɛ ơř ŋơŧ, ı ơŋٳყ ɯąŋŧ ყơų ŧơ ɛҳקٳąıŋ Ćɛřŧąıŋ ŧɧıŋɠŞ ŧơ mɛ undecided
Re: How Do I Stop Myself From Overthinking?? by ikp120(m): 6:44pm On Jan 11
BluntMadmoiselle:


undecided

ı ɖơŋŧ ɧą۷ɛ ą קřơცٳɛm ɯıŧɧ ყơų ცɛٳıɛ۷ıŋɠ mɛ ơř ŋơŧ, ı ơŋٳყ ɯąŋŧ ყơų ŧơ ɛҳקٳąıŋ Ćɛřŧąıŋ ŧɧıŋɠŞ ŧơ mɛ undecided

Alright
Re: How Do I Stop Myself From Overthinking?? by BluntMadmoiselle: 6:49pm On Jan 11
ikp120:

Alright
Şơ, ɧơɯ ɖơ ɯɛ ɠơ ąცơųŧ ıŧ??
ı Şɛŋɖ mყ ĆơŋŧąĆŧ ơř ų Şɛŋɖ ųřŞ ??
Re: How Do I Stop Myself From Overthinking?? by abayomi93(m): 7:44pm On Jan 11
Hello,my friend.please just try to free your mind.I suffered from this,and it almost cost me my life.if u want to think about something,just think about it and put it off your mind.if you check your Blood pressure now you will see that it is high.because you are overworking your heart.I had an attack in 2015,and I am still recovering from it now.
Re: How Do I Stop Myself From Overthinking?? by TakeMeSerious: 7:45pm On Jan 11
BluntMadmoiselle:
I've recently noticed uncontrollable thoughts popping in my head and it's happening more and more. It seems that whenever I plan on interacting with someone or going somewhere, I'm coming up with different scenarios and running through the dialogue in my head. Half the time, I don't even think I realize that I'm doing it. But, I've caught myself doing it more and more.


This is something I think I've done my entire life. And it's pretty much the only thing I'm thinking of. It's not thoughts of what I should do or will be doing, or any negative thoughts of me etc. What I do in my mind pretty much 24/7 is making these fake scenarios in my head. It's either about past events where I edit the conversation to things I wanted to say or should have said it, or it's about scenarios that "may" happen where I imagine what I would say (I'm always so witty and cool in these made up scenarios).

I sometimes feel cut off from the world, just looking into it but not interacting with. My social life has been ruined by this as I do not feel comfortable doing the gisting gisting thing, all I wanna do is to be alone and travel to "Thinkland". It is very difficult to socialize with people because I'm never there.

I make scenarios in my head that might probably never gonna happen. I seldomly wander off into my thoughts, fantasizing about things happening paying less attention to the outside world.

I know this is a psychological issue but the question is "HOW CAN I GET MYSELF OFF THE HOOK OF IMAGINATIONS". IT'S DRIVING ME NUTS ALREADY.

Lalasticlala, Rocktation,farano


What if I told you I understand exactly how you feel? Would you believe?
Re: How Do I Stop Myself From Overthinking?? by BluntMadmoiselle: 7:47pm On Jan 11
TakeMeSerious:


What if I told you I understand exactly how you feel? Would you believe?

You really do??
Re: How Do I Stop Myself From Overthinking?? by TakeMeSerious: 7:50pm On Jan 11
BluntMadmoiselle:


You really do??

Of course, you are the kind that people that people will never understand. It's a great treasure, trust me.
Re: How Do I Stop Myself From Overthinking?? by BluntMadmoiselle: 7:52pm On Jan 11
TakeMeSerious:


Of course, you are the kind that people that people will never understand. It's a great treasure, trust me.

Exactly. I already gave up on trying to make them see things the way I do.
Re: How Do I Stop Myself From Overthinking?? by BluntMadmoiselle: 7:54pm On Jan 11
abayomi93:
Hello,my friend.please just try to free your mind.I suffered from this,and it almost cost me my life.if u want to think about something,just think about it and put it off your mind.if you check your Blood pressure now you will see that it is high.because you are overworking your heart.I had an attack in 2015,and I am still recovering from it now.

May the good God bless you with quick recovery. Thanks
Re: How Do I Stop Myself From Overthinking?? by TakeMeSerious: 7:55pm On Jan 11
BluntMadmoiselle:


Exactly

Yeh yeh, I want to ask you. I don't know maybe you mentioned it in your posts or I missed it. Are you secretive?
Re: How Do I Stop Myself From Overthinking?? by BluntMadmoiselle: 7:58pm On Jan 11
TakeMeSerious:


Yeh yeh, I want to ask you. I don't know maybe you mentioned it in your posts or I missed it. Are you secretive?

Very very. I tend to keep things to myself, probably because I have no one who's there to listen.
Re: How Do I Stop Myself From Overthinking?? by TakeMeSerious: 8:07pm On Jan 11
BluntMadmoiselle:


Very very. I tend to keep things to myself, probably because I have no one who's there to listen.


smiley

Like I said, I understand every bit of what you feel and nothing's wrong with you. You are unique.
Re: How Do I Stop Myself From Overthinking?? by BluntMadmoiselle: 8:09pm On Jan 11
TakeMeSerious:


smiley

Like I said, I understand every bit of what you feel and nothing's wrong with you. You are unique.

Now, you're making me feel...... cry
Re: How Do I Stop Myself From Overthinking?? by BluntMadmoiselle: 8:10pm On Jan 11
TakeMeSerious:


smiley

Like I said, I understand every bit of what you feel and nothing's wrong with you. You are unique.

Is there a way I can control my thoughts
Re: How Do I Stop Myself From Overthinking?? by TakeMeSerious: 8:16pm On Jan 11
BluntMadmoiselle:


Is there a way I can control my thoughts

I sent you a PM
Re: How Do I Stop Myself From Overthinking?? by TakeMeSerious: 8:20pm On Jan 11
BluntMadmoiselle:


Now, you're making me feel...... cry

Smile Okay smiley. It's all good.
Re: How Do I Stop Myself From Overthinking?? by BluntMadmoiselle: 8:28pm On Jan 11
TakeMeSerious:


I sent you a PM

I already lost access to my alternative email. Kindly email me via donatusbusayo@gmail.com
Re: How Do I Stop Myself From Overthinking?? by TakeMeSerious: 9:41pm On Jan 11
BluntMadmoiselle:


I already lost access to my alternative email. Kindly email me via donatusbusayo@gmail.com

Check your mail dear
Re: How Do I Stop Myself From Overthinking?? by BluntMadmoiselle: 9:45pm On Jan 11
TakeMeSerious:

Check your mail dear
Seen
Re: How Do I Stop Myself From Overthinking?? by wizrose(m): 9:46pm On Jan 11
(How Do I Stop Myself From Overthinking??). THE ONLY WAY Is TO COMMIT SUCCIDE ...I DO THAT ONCES AND I DIE HERE I AM AGAIN ...grin grin

1 Like

Re: How Do I Stop Myself From Overthinking?? by Jayk1(m): 12:17pm On Jan 13
i swear her mata tire me too
stupidity:
this is serious!!!

Meaning you don't have a boyfriend?
If girls gossip doesn't interest you and you feel unsecured around guys!!!

Have nothing else to say. This one pass me.

(0) (1) (Reply)

Toast To Nairalanders On This Special Valentine Day. / What Do U Really Say / Falling In Love With Ur Friend!

(Go Up)

Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health
religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket

Links: (0) (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9)

Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2017 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 72
Disclaimer: Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland.