I'm married with a child.There is a certain guy who had an affair with my wife some years back.When I dicovered it,we talked over the issue and concluded that there should be no contact again btw them as she claimed nothing happened btw them.2yrs after our discussion, I just discovered that she has assisted the said guy financially and she is not aware of my awareness. Is there any need to keep on with her?

It all depends on what you want , a disobedience wife is not a good thing, talk to her about it and see her reason for helping him out.

biznessben:
I'm married with a child.There is a certain guy who had an affair with my wife some years back.When I dicovered it,we talked over the issue and concluded that there should be no contact again btw them as she claimed nothing happened btw them.2yrs after our discussion, I just discovered that she has assisted the said guy financially and she is not aware of my awareness. Is there any need to keep on with her?

Tell her your fully aware of what tramspired.
And that if you find out again, your kicking her out.
To put fear in her mind just tell her you have got private investigators.
But please above all love and cherish her, atimes women make mistakes even when it isnt their intention.

Justdulla:

Tell her your fully aware of what tramspired.
And that if you find out again, your kicking her out.
To put fear in her mind just tell her you have got private investigators.
But please above all love and cherish her, atimes women make mistakes even when it isnt their intention.

that's the thing with trust, once it's gone, it's gone.

Jibril659:
that's the thing with trust, once it's gone, it's gone.

Very true..
But first try to talk to her..at least then you'll be sure that you have done everything you could.. To break it's easier than to glue again

O boy, dis your grammar no bi here oh!

Well, is the guy aware that you are aware of the financial help?

I beg, package her and send her home with immediate alacrity. Her head done enter bush, and when a woman enters bush like dis, she is irredeemable.

Please, make sure her mom is aware of all the awares that you are aware of.

Vapiti:

Very true..
But first try to talk to her..at least then you'll be sure that you have done everything you could.. To break it's easier than to glue again

It happened the first time and a second time, It's likely to happen again

Interesting is the reason why she helps that guy..because of her kind and soft heart or any other matter.. And if she only assist him financially or they have something more.. Ok I explain, as it is in my life, almost all my Ex still are my good mates and we sometimes keep in touch or help each other or even can go out..without any continuation.. So we don't know what is going on there between his wife and that guy.. That's why I offer to talk again..and let her know that she risk to lose family

Vapiti:

Very true..
But first try to talk to her..at least then you'll be sure that you have done everything you could.. To break it's easier than to glue again

You a russian?

firstking01:
You a russian?

Yes, but as I've noticed..not so much difference how it works between russians and between nigerians or even between russians and nigerians in heart things ))

Vapiti:

Yes, but as I've noticed..not so much difference how it works between russians and between nigerians or even between russians and nigerians in heart things ))

Wow, you sound so convincing, btw, what do you mean by "heart things"?

1. She's beautiful

2. She's a good cook

3. She's hardworking

4. She's good in bed

5. She's promiscuous

No.5 is an attribute that weighs more than 1-4 all together, I will never think twice to send her to her parents, good riddance to bad rubbish.

firstking01:
Wow, you sound so convincing, btw, what do you mean by "heart things"?

I mean Love, Relationship, Marriage ))) and even light Flirt too )))

You want to send someone's client (maga) packing?

Anyway, If I were in your shoes, I'd do it.
I don't even know what people see in this marriage sef... They just get married then complain about their partners for the rest of their lives.

Tajbol4splend:


.. I will never think twice to send her to her parents, good riddance to bad rubbish.

There is a kid.. That fact must make them to think twice more..

Vapiti:


There is a kid.. That fact must make them to think twice more..

Promiscuity weighs to me more than any offense, I really wish I could stand it

Vapiti:

I mean Love, Relationship, Marriage ))) and even light Flirt too )))

Nice to know...but you are nt an english speaking country?

biznessben:
I'm married with a child.There is a certain guy who had an affair with my wife some years back.When I dicovered it,we talked over the issue and concluded that there should be no contact again btw them as she claimed nothing happened btw them.2yrs after our discussion, I just discovered that she has assisted the said guy financially and she is not aware of my awareness. Is there any need to keep on with her?

Dude really ? ! RIP English

firstking01:
Nice to know...but you are nt an english speaking country?

Nope, as you can see my english is poor ((

Vapiti:
Interesting is the reason why she helps that guy..because of her kind and soft heart or any other matter.. And if she only assist him financially or they have something more.. Ok I explain, as it is in my life, almost all my Ex still are my good mates and we sometimes keep in touch or help each other or even can go out..without any continuation.. So we don't know what is going on there between his wife and that guy.. That's why I offer to talk again..and let her know that she risk to lose family

Are you married? We are talking about a married woman here.

truthsayer007:


Dude really ? ! RIP English

can you tell me what makes it wrong? I mean that line you embolden.

Did he have an affair with her when you guys were married?
Did you find out why she assisted him?
Don't jump into conclusion. Find out the reason why she assisted him.

linearity:
O boy, dis your grammar no bi here oh!

Well, is the guy aware that you are aware of the financial help?

I beg, package her and send her with immediate alacrity. Her head done eat bush, she is irredeemable.

Please, make sure her mom is aware of all the awares that you are aware of.

forget grammar nd help a brother, now that you are aware of all of his awares

Vapiti:

Nope, as you can see my english is poor ((

But on the contrary, you so far you 've been typing correctly...

OP, take this to family section, that's where you'll get worthy advises

nikkypearl:
forget grammar nd help a brother, now that you are aware of all of his awares

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4tunebest:


Good day Madam.

I understand you are into building construction. I sent you a pm. Awaiting your prompt response.

Thanks

ok ma'am