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The 3 Categories Of Women You Will Meet before dating by Kalatium(m): 12:25pm On Jan 14, 2017
In this thread I will give you a detailed explanation of the 3 different categories of girls you are attracted to and how they will behave towards you. I implored you to read this thoughtfully. But before I continue I want you to note something.
Note
If you don’t find a woman attractive,
don’t approach her, don’t hit on her, don’t do anything. it’s
just desperation.
You have to decide whatever you like in a woman by your own standards. If you like big girls or
curvy girls, go for it. If you prefer black girls with dreadlocks, more power to you. If you like older
women or younger women, cool. Don’t pressure yourself to live up to someone else’s standard.

So let's continue....
For practical purposes, women you’re attracted to can be categorised into three,
they are :
1. Unreceptive
2. Neutral and
3. Receptive women

1. WOMEN WHO ARE RECEPTIVE

Women who are Unreceptive are usually unavailable and/or uninterested in having a
romantic relationship with you. The most common reasons that put women in this
category are the following:

- You’re far lower status than she is, and she’s therefore not attracted to you.
- She has a boyfriend/husband and is happy in her relationship.
- There’s too much friction/differences preventing her from being willing to date you, such as difference of
values, difference of interests, beliefs , etc.
- She’s not interested or looking for any man at the moment.
The way to tell if a woman is Unreceptive is if she repeatedly does not reciprocate your signs
of interest and/or shows you signs of disinterest. If you invite her out and she insists
on bringing one of her friends, then she’s Unreceptive. If you call her three times and she never
calls back, then she is Unreceptive. If you approach her and she explains that she just wants to
spend time with her friends tonight, then she is Unreceptive. If you hang out with her and she
talks about how frustrated she is with her boyfriend and how you’re such a good listener, then
she’s Unreceptive.
No exceptions. Many men waste a lot of time convincing themselves that Unreceptive women
may actually like them. Usually they don't.

2. WOMEN WHO ARE NEUTRAL

The next category is Neutral. This category can be difficult for men to understand because it’s
not as common for us as it is for women. Typically, a man knows within a few seconds if he’s
willing to meet and sleep with a woman or not.
Women aren’t like that. They spend a lot of time being unsure about a man and need to be
swayed one way or the other. They’re fence-sitters in many situations.
Women in this category are usually women who you’ve just met or have only a little bit of time
with. The important thing to know is that women do not ever stay in this category. They
eventually polarise(polarise means the various techniques you use to make a girl attracted towards you) one way or the other .And if you never make an advance or show interest in
them, then they will always polarize towards being Unreceptive (this is the Friend Zone, which
I believe you have heard before )

Neutral women generally, will not turn down your offers, but they won’t
offer or reciprocate it themselves.
Sometimes, they just haven’t considered you in that way yet. A Neutral woman for instance, if
you touch her on the back will not move away, but she will not move toward you or give you
any signal that she likes it.
The goal with Neutral women is to attract them through your behavior. This may mean being
more attractive by speaking your mind(confidence) . It may mean flirting with them or teasing them. It may mean asking her on a
date. Whatever it is, the goal with Neutral women is to take an action that forces her to make
a decision about how she feels about you. Which side she polarizes to is less important than
actually taking action and forcing her out of her neutrality, but remember, if you leave her to her
neutrality, she will always eventually become Unreceptive and not see you as dating material.
And remember, showing your desire arouses women but being over invested turns them off. So it
all comes down to how you show them your desire. It comes down to how you polarize them either towards being Receptive or Unreceptive. Be a man who can polarize quickly and confidently.


3 . WOMEN WHO ARE RECEPTIVE

And in the final category, women who are Receptive are already romantically/sexually attracted to you the
moment you meet them. You can recognize women who are Receptive in two ways:

1.They
initiate with you and/or they reciprocate your actions enthusiastically.
Some examples of a woman initiating with you:

- She makes strong eye contact with you and doesn’t break it.
- She approaches you.
- She touches you unprovoked.
- She asks for your number or invites you out with her/her friends.
- She asks you a lot of questions about yourself and seems genuinely interested in you.
- She introduces you to her friends.
- She gives you her number.
- She comes up with some excuse/story/reason for you to hang out with her, or spend time
with her.
These are all concrete examples of a woman initiating with you. To Some of you who’re reading
this , many of the girlfriends you’ve had only happened
because she initiated it with you.
That’s fine. But just going about your life, unless you are extremely good-looking or have a
great lifestyle, or manage to meet women through good social contacts, few women are going
to initiate with you and the few who do won’t initiate often.
In fact, most women, especially hot women, even if they’re attracted to you, won’t initiate with
you. Remember, women tend to be less invested before sex, therefore they (usually) expect
men to initiate in the beginning. There are also strong cultural pressures on women to wait for
the man to initiate.

2. The other way women demonstrate that they’re Receptive is when they reciprocate. It’s
important to recognize the subtle difference between a woman reciprocating your advances
and a woman being neutral toward your advances. A woman who is Neutral will simply not
respond at all. For instance, if you touch a Neutral woman on her back while you speak to her, you will act like your hand isn't there.

Thanks for reading!!!
Re: The 3 Categories Of Women You Will Meet before dating by emmanuel596(m): 12:26pm On Jan 14, 2017
Re: The 3 Categories Of Women You Will Meet before dating by Nobody: 12:28pm On Jan 14, 2017
Number one should be non receptive.
Unreceptive aint worth it, the feel too cool. I prefer the neutral.
Cos the receptive are usually flirty tongue
Re: The 3 Categories Of Women You Will Meet before dating by Kalatium(m): 12:30pm On Jan 14, 2017
Cc Lalasticlala
Re: The 3 Categories Of Women You Will Meet before dating by thehedge(f): 12:50pm On Jan 14, 2017
what about the woman who is all three under different circumstance?
Re: The 3 Categories Of Women You Will Meet before dating by Kalatium(m): 3:13pm On Jan 14, 2017
thehedge:
what about the woman who is all three under different circumstance?
Is not possible
Re: The 3 Categories Of Women You Will Meet before dating by Paulpaulpaul(m): 3:31pm On Jan 14, 2017
thehedge:
what about the woman who is all three under different circumstance?

That one chameleonic
Re: The 3 Categories Of Women You Will Meet before dating by Kalatium(m): 5:24pm On Jan 15, 2017
Paulpaulpaul:

That one chameleonic
Very funny

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