why is that some girls let the good thing that is to come to them go and say had i known at last. u want to love them they say u are there mugu . u decide to take them anyhow they say u are not careing. what can one do to make them happy pls nairalanders help. i have a girlfriend that i love and wants to marry am in far away taraba doing a work that will fetch me huge money. when i call her she will say that i dont love her am not around her but its to make money and marry her i went for pls what should i do ?

Try keep yourself happy with the notion that she's there for you, sure you'll find a lady suitable for you when you're ready for married.
Nevertheless, she's supposed to miss you. What do you expect her to say to you?

i know but is this money that will make us ok and i told her that we will plan on how to be visiting each other when i come back for christmas

Remind her that although love is needed, but you will not eat love. If you are out there trying to make money for the potential family she should undertsand. Or maybe she is just giving you hints on the fact that she might be ready to leave you. By the way does she work or go to school?? if you married her today, what will she bring to the table

dogzymallo:

i know but is this money that will make us ok and i told her that we will plan on how to be visiting each other when i come back for christmas

No worry brother, they're all like that, acting like a baby whenever given an attention

she is still in school in her second year

My broda, u can never understand women, i will advice u dnt stress urself on this issue, just make ur money, and come back, u will see plenty other women that will see u as a caring loving guy so far u got the dou.

i have asked her several times whether she wants a break up she will not answer

No she doesn't want to break up. Just be patient and keep petting her all she needs is ur attention. Don't feel pressured to abandon ur work.

@ Poster thank GOd, u said 'some girls"

yes some cause some are real good.

dogzymallo; i once had this dog, beautiful pitbull, as beautiful as can be. well, i'd go to work, come home feed the dog, take it out for a walk, nurtured it etc. bottom-line i was this dog's papi. but did this ungrateful dog ever say thank u for all that i did nope!!! this dog never welcomed me with gleeful yelps or licks like u see other dogs doing their owners in t.v commercials. instead, this fucker used to destroy my furniture, bite my friends, bite me ; to the extent i didnt have any galfriends cus they all ran away cus they was scared of Bruno. to top it off, this dog used to give me the look like "where have u been??" and on the weekends when i'm home, it used to look at me like "why are u here? shouldnt u be somewhere working for the money that'll buy my food". well, i got tired of this ungrateful son of a bitch and put it in my car, pretended we were going for an outing on the beach in a city 1700 miles away, left it there and drove back home. problem solved.
why am i telling u this? my man, make ur money and ignore ur gal's nonsense. she's complaining now, if u dont have money she'll complain louder. dump her,she's unreasonable,
last i heard, bruno was working as a male prostitute on 42nd

tanimz:

@ Poster thank GOd, u said 'some girls"

Exactly!!!
No more generalizing.

the funny path is that i asked her whether she wants to leave me she text me and asked wether i want her to then i told her that i dont have to make her decisions for her. then she said i should not make her leave me. honestly she cant afford to lose me but i don't know what else she wants

that is my plan from next year cause this year is almost out

she just called me now pretending. i knew she would call cause i boned her since.this girls na wah for them they just open there mouth just for talking sake