royallord1:

nah your phone before...?
her phone her privacy... u sound like someone wit inferiority complex... guy if u no trust d babe dont push it...
i dont knw why guys would want a girlfriend to behave as fulltime housewifes.... when she isnt...
guy u want full access to her marry her!

Don't mind that guy.

Jay542:

But would you be comfortable the other way round? Sincerely, most of the girls I know won't.

Hmmm me I let my man see my phone all the time on all my devices but when I ask him for his phone he behaves strangely maybe I need to start panicking too.

Guys get angry when you don't give them your phone but when you ask them for theirs they start behaving funny.

Hmmmm. Lord deliver us from wicked people and people who are cheaters/heart breakers. There is enough of them already in this world.

Filashade:


Hmmm me I let my man see my phone all the time on all my devices but when I ask him for his phone he behaves strangely maybe I need to start panicking too.

Guys get angry when you don't give them your phone but when you ask them for theirs they start behaving funny.

Hmmmm. Lord deliver us from wicked people and people who are cheaters/heart breakers. There is enough of them already in this world.

I stop giving my girl my phone cos she was always keeping tabs with my whatsapp and text messages

Girls have to learn to always feel secure about their man.

Jay542:


I stop giving my girl my phone cos she was always keeping tabs with my whatsapp and text messages

Girls have to learn to always feel secure about their man.

Loool I do understand what you mean.

At least u used to give your girl your phone. Mine has NEVER given me his phone.

I would usually start thinking dirty things in my head if it was in the past but God always has a way of exposing things even when you dont ask for it. So I know if my man is cheating, God will reveal it to me. I am so patient mehhhn.

People seem to forget that even if you are brilliant at hiding a dirty secret, it will always come out in the end and that is when you realise you lost something very precious.

I have all the patience in the world.

Both your responses seem out of place. She should not have anything that hurts you on her cellphone nor you should have to stress about the contents of her phone.

You are in a relationship and yet have mutual mistrust, can you see the problem?

Filashade:


Loool I do understand what you mean.

At least u used to give your girl your phone. Mine has NEVER given me his phone.

But if you were cool with that from the onset, it shouldn't be a problem now.

I would usually start thinking dirty things in my head if it was in the past but God always has a way of exposing things even when you dont ask for it. So I know if my man is cheating, God will reveal it to me. I am so patient mehhhn.

Just talk to him about it. Don't stress the thoughts. There should be a great sense of understanding in relationships.

People seem to forget that even if you are brilliant at hiding a dirty secret, it will always come out in the end and that is when you realise you lost something very precious.

Lol. That's if my nigga is guilty sha

I have all the patience in the world.

Patience is key dear. Just have that in abundance and you'll always be fine

iamdynamite:
baba forget that thing......take your share of the honey pot and walk

this is now u are talking sense.I thought u were suggesting that we keep a public toilet as gf and take her seriously.Once u notice she is a public toilet,treat her as such and immediately dump her.

COdeGenesis:
Is it just me or it is something that happens in all relationships. My gf keeps on locking her phone and when i ask for the passsword she won't give me. She gives me silly excuses like she doesnt want me to see things that will hurt me. Please help me , I am thinking of dumping her

Is it your phone?

♣ • → two can play the game
But wait first, is it ya phone? ™ °°

trust ezz a very dangerous thing ..you better start looking for backup or you be a better boyfriend ..show her you have nothing to hide and let her know you love her ... she will confess all her sins herself !!

Precioussilas10:
this is now u are talking sense.I thought u were suggesting that we keep a public toilet as gf and take her seriously.Once u notice she is a public toilet,treat her as such and immediately dump her.

that is exactly what have been trying to say...me keep a public toilet as wife, when my village people no dey do me.

Jay542:


But if you were cool with that from the onset, it shouldn't be a problem now.



Just talk to him about it. Don't stress the thoughts. There should be a great sense of understanding in relationships.



Lol. That's if my nigga is guilty sha



Patience is key dear. Just have that in abundance and you'll always be fine

I don't have a problem with it but something just seems off with him at times. I dont know. I am not one of those ladies that date a lot coz I literally find it very hard to trust people.

Benita27:
Don't mind that guy.

Hope you will say same thing if you guy locks his phone and u don't hve access to it. D problem is not her locking her phone, it's her hiding her password. It makes it so obvious she is hiding something. I hve long forgotten about it

Filashade:


I don't have a problem with it but something just seems off with him at times. I dont know. I am not one of those ladies that date a lot coz I literally find it very hard to trust people.

It's well dear