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Re: My Man Thinks That The Money He Earns Is His And Not Ours by nwabobo: 3:43am On Jan 29, 2017 |
sisisioge: I live in a 'civilised' world and it's a joint effort. In the days of our grand father's where the man was sole provider, the women were stay at home mum's and never worked nor earned income. |
Re: My Man Thinks That The Money He Earns Is His And Not Ours by dingbang(m): 5:11am On Jan 29, 2017 |
airminem:the worst parr is that u are still arguing its ur money.. Continue 1 Like |
Re: My Man Thinks That The Money He Earns Is His And Not Ours by dingbang(m): 5:13am On Jan 29, 2017 |
airminem:u call taking care of ur own children "work"... Look nobody will pity u in this thread trust me... 1 Like |
Re: My Man Thinks That The Money He Earns Is His And Not Ours by repogirl(f): 5:19am On Jan 29, 2017 |
airminem:I can relate with you OP being a stay at home mom but ive been married for longer than you have. Yes, his money should be both your money but the reality is he might not see it that way and forcing him to see it from your angle won't help. Just make some of your own money and be claiming this is your money also. If you say you are not ready to go back to work then you are going to have to live with his bickering for a while. Over a few years he might get to understand that being a stay at home mom is equally a full time job but till then, as long as you have no source of income, this is what you will have to endure. 3 Likes |
Re: My Man Thinks That The Money He Earns Is His And Not Ours by mayoor15(m): 5:38am On Jan 29, 2017 |
airminem:Answer the question now, when you were single and in your papa house, you no dey work and do house duties, why you no ask for paycheck. Now you got married and all of a sudden the things you ought to do for free are things you want pay for... hahaha..... I don't blame the man that is the price of marrying a lazy woman, I don't see a hard working woman that will complain about house duties and sit down at home for months. Get a job and have your own money and contribute to things in the home then you will know how it feels. 1 Like |
Re: My Man Thinks That The Money He Earns Is His And Not Ours by BigIyanga: 5:39am On Jan 29, 2017 |
airminem:Sounds like you ain't in Naija? Then it would be our money, but in Naija, it's his money and yours is yours when u start making money again. |
Re: My Man Thinks That The Money He Earns Is His And Not Ours by 1kinggy(m): 5:39am On Jan 29, 2017 |
How long do you think it takes to become a liability? Site, go find a work or do some business. Make some money then observe the change. You'd be happier. |
Re: My Man Thinks That The Money He Earns Is His And Not Ours by emi14: 6:18am On Jan 29, 2017 |
You're lazing around seeking for self-pity. Are you talking of second job or no job at all? My sister is a teacher and a poultry farmer in port Harcourt. My mum retired teacher with a nursery primary. Sit and wait for our money. Nonsense. 2 Likes |
Re: My Man Thinks That The Money He Earns Is His And Not Ours by Jollymich(m): 6:26am On Jan 29, 2017 |
I wish my wife is a nairalander |
Re: My Man Thinks That The Money He Earns Is His And Not Ours by uzoexcel(m): 6:45am On Jan 29, 2017 |
Paperlace for president PaperLace: |
Re: My Man Thinks That The Money He Earns Is His And Not Ours by uzoexcel(m): 6:48am On Jan 29, 2017 |
I wonder where ur grandfather was from cos in the days of my own grandfather and forefathers...women engaged in selling, trading by barter and all...NOT STQYING AT HOME nwabobo: |
Re: My Man Thinks That The Money He Earns Is His And Not Ours by IMASTEX: 6:50am On Jan 29, 2017 |
Joavid:Abeg tell them jooo. The only thing most women does is spending. And no questions are asked concerning what sacrfice brought the money in. Thereby leading to spending without priorities. |
Re: My Man Thinks That The Money He Earns Is His And Not Ours by Ssthorm(f): 6:53am On Jan 29, 2017 |
U cn imagne...now dese men want a woman to work wia she gets paid?? Stayn @home takin care of a bby is work as wel,its jst an unpaid job. Its d responsibility of d man to take care of d home,wedr she has money or not. U all shudnt make it sound like its an obligatn upon d woman to work fo money wen she has a husbnd. N im nt sayn she shudnt hustle fo money bt idealy...its a mans troble to do dat in d fam. N his money shud b diers.... Dont switch d roles,funy enuf d same men wud begn to rant bout "not being a woman" wen dey r axd to help wt chores @home 1 Like |
Re: My Man Thinks That The Money He Earns Is His And Not Ours by Nobody: 7:01am On Jan 29, 2017 |
My Man Thinks That "The Money He Earns Is His" And Not Ours |
Re: My Man Thinks That The Money He Earns Is His And Not Ours by Rossikki: 7:07am On Jan 29, 2017 |
OP, why are you crying? As if you will not be even more wicked to him if it was YOU making the money and he was depending on you. FUC.KING EVIL WOMEN. Abeg go siddon make we hear something... Look. ANY MAN that finds himself depending on a woman for anything, will know that day the true nature of women. Evil to the core. That is why I don't feel sorry for them when they are in this sort of situation. Those who feel sorry for them are people who are still young and don't know women. Women have no conscience. They are devils. If you don't know, one day you will know. |
Re: My Man Thinks That The Money He Earns Is His And Not Ours by Nobody: 7:11am On Jan 29, 2017 |
airminem: Your story is similar to my aunt's. I used to live with her and I can say for a fact that her decision to "stay at home and take care of the kids" was because of her laziness. I only hope that for your husband's and son case,you're nothing like that. 1 Like |
Re: My Man Thinks That The Money He Earns Is His And Not Ours by ststyreal(f): 7:13am On Jan 29, 2017 |
peacemara54:So how do you sell it and for how much, am interested. Thanks. Will call you |
Re: My Man Thinks That The Money He Earns Is His And Not Ours by Nkepris(f): 7:17am On Jan 29, 2017 |
Hmmm |
Re: My Man Thinks That The Money He Earns Is His And Not Ours by Nkepris(f): 7:19am On Jan 29, 2017 |
Na wa o |
Re: My Man Thinks That The Money He Earns Is His And Not Ours by Prinzofparis: 7:26am On Jan 29, 2017 |
PaperLace: rare gem, with this post, I can say you are one very smart rational Lady. #nice.... spoke my mind |
Re: My Man Thinks That The Money He Earns Is His And Not Ours by Faslite(m): 7:32am On Jan 29, 2017 |
I tink all these as a result of d bad leadership n d economy recession, things are very hard now so everyone are frustrating wt d hardship since u've been supporting b4 u stop working definitely he will feel it somehow hard now d best tink u can do is to resume back to work dts d best solution everyman want to be giving money. |
Re: My Man Thinks That The Money He Earns Is His And Not Ours by boiz2men(m): 8:58am On Jan 29, 2017 |
pcguru1: Bros enlighten me about prepclss I have been having the idea Didn't know there was a name for it |
Re: My Man Thinks That The Money He Earns Is His And Not Ours by YourWife(f): 9:07am On Jan 29, 2017 |
airminem: How much does it cost to employ a house help that would do all those work u do at home? 20k? 30k?? Well... How much would u earn monthly if u were to go get a job? Do your calculations and come to a conclussion. Don't go looking for money in ur husband's pocket, it doesn't make d family any better. Source for d money from another persons pocket, and ur family has an extra income, no matter how little d money might be. |
Re: My Man Thinks That The Money He Earns Is His And Not Ours by airminem(f): 9:07am On Jan 29, 2017 |
mayoor15: Are You Married? |
Re: My Man Thinks That The Money He Earns Is His And Not Ours by airminem(f): 9:09am On Jan 29, 2017 |
dingbang: Sentiments Are Fine. |
Re: My Man Thinks That The Money He Earns Is His And Not Ours by airminem(f): 9:13am On Jan 29, 2017 |
dingbang: Because You Are Not Seeing The Point Of View I Am Coming Okay. |
Re: My Man Thinks That The Money He Earns Is His And Not Ours by airminem(f): 9:15am On Jan 29, 2017 |
1kinggy: Thanks For The Opinion. I Guess You Are Honest |
Re: My Man Thinks That The Money He Earns Is His And Not Ours by airminem(f): 9:19am On Jan 29, 2017 |
Ssthorm: Honestly |
Re: My Man Thinks That The Money He Earns Is His And Not Ours by klevotino: 9:28am On Jan 29, 2017 |
Joavid:You are full of wisdom Ma...... |
Re: My Man Thinks That The Money He Earns Is His And Not Ours by airminem(f): 9:28am On Jan 29, 2017 |
YourWife: Alright, Thank You |
Re: My Man Thinks That The Money He Earns Is His And Not Ours by dingbang(m): 9:28am On Jan 29, 2017 |
airminem:almost 95percent of people commenting in ur threads are confessing that you are the problem but u won't listen... Continue... U want empathy abi? No wahala.. The worst part is majority of the advice coming Ur fellow women against u.., so man up and accept that u are the problem |
Re: My Man Thinks That The Money He Earns Is His And Not Ours by MabraO: 9:41am On Jan 29, 2017 |
airminem: Ur way of seeing things is very wrong No wonder ur husby see his money as his Cos u placing too much importance on irrelevant things Wot is wrong if he calls his money his? A very wrong idea u ve |
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