WHAT A MOTHER TOLD HER SON A DAY BEFORE HIS WEDDING TO KEEP MARRIAGE SAFE IN PEACE MODE
with your father.

We were screaming, Tempers were high. I was angry and He was angry. Then I called him an idiot! He was shocked,

He looked at me asking
how dare I call him that, Immediately started calling him idiot, fool, stupid, crazy, I called him all sort of name.

Guess what he did? He didn’t raise his hands to hit me. He just walked away, banging the door as he went out.

My Son, If your father had hit me and destroyed my eyes, how will you feel sitting here with me today? How will you regard him as your father?

Would you have been proud of him or would
you be blaming me for calling him names?

Never hit your wife! No matter the provocation
just walk away and things will be normal.

Whenever she offends you, think of this story I
just told you, it could have been your mum!

After he left, I was filled with guilt. We slept on same bed that night and I went to him the next day.

I pleaded with him, I did all I could to show am sorry and he forgave me. That day I cooked his favourite food, yes you know he loves Pounded yam & Vegetable soup right?

After that day, I never called him names, my respect for him was ten times stronger.

There is something very important you must always do, my son listen very carefully, defend your wife. When she is under pressure, stand by her. If your friends hates her, it is your duty to make them see her as a Queen. Your Uncle, I mean Uncle Yusuf, never liked me.

But Ur father was always supportive until his perception changed.

There was a day your Father was going to host the owner of his company and friends. They were three of them.

That day I was in the
kitchen cooking for them and your father went to buy drinks.

When the table was set and food was served.

Everyone started eating. Then I
remembered I did not add salt in the food. I
was embarrassed.

Your father tasted the food and looked at me. He immediately turned to the guests. He told them that he instructed his wife last month not to add salt whenever she is cooking because of some problem with his body.

He said it in a funny way and everyone laughed!

The guests understood and he asked me to
bring salt and everyone added according to their taste. He managed to eat the food without salt.

After the guest left, he went on his knees and
asked God to forgive him for lying.

Your wife is like a baby, sometimes she don’t
know what to say or do. Stand up and speak for her!

Now let me talk to you about S*x. You see S*x
is a wonderful thing.

Do not be surprised if your wife enjoy and need S*x more than you do.

There were days, I needed Sex more than your father and there were days he needed it more than me but the important thing is to always try to satisfy the other when they need you.

Don’t always think of your self.

There was a time things were hard and I
needed to do two jobs to support your father.
One night I was so tired. When I got to bed he was in the mood. He try to make love to me and I didn’t refuse him. I was tired but I felt I needed to be there when he needs me.

When he tried undressing me, he saw my look and he stopped. He asked what was wrong and I said nothing. But he understand me better.
He stopped and then started telling me stories until I fell asleep.

My son, S*x is best enjoyed when the two
parties are physically and mentally ready for it.

Sometimes, read your wife and understand her.

Make it a habit to go anywhere with your wife. Beside your job, move around with her.

If anyone invite you to his house and told you not to come with your wife then be very careful.
Use wisdom.

I know you love mummy… I know you will tell me all your problems. But now things will be different.

Let your wife be the first to know before me. Let her be the first to see before me.

When you have problems with her don’t run to me immediately.

Wait for a day to pass and then talk to her about it. Pray about it.

Report her to nobody but talk issues out within yourself.

Finally, don’t forget to come and visit me with
your wife every month!

I know you will have a happy home.

You will always be mummy’s boy.

God will bless Ur
home.

Pls don't forget God, pray & seek His
assistance always..

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Very educative,the only problem with this generation is that we aren't ready for the challenges.The important thing is to always try to satisfy and stand for the other when they need you.Mutual respect and understanding is key word.

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This is really beautiful. God bless this mom and God bless every man /woman who try against all odds to make their marriage work

This is truly a beautiful piece of advice.

If only our lovely sisters will understand.

A word they say is enough for the wise #Wisdom

Unfortunately people "contract" marriage for by e wrong reasons these days.

Most peeps aren't ready to settle down.

The guy wants to look responsible and gets married but still wants his freedom So he sleeps around.

The gal wants to get married before she gets too old so she gets married, but she has not prepared herself to be a mother and a wife.

Nice post. Bookmarking this.

Nice post

The salt saga made me laugh out loud!
...but come to think of it, you could have safe any woman's face like that and she won't love you for the rest of her life. Men like that are rare though.

Ioannes:
Unfortunately people "contract" marriage for by e wrong reasons these days.

Most peeps aren't ready to settle down.

The guy wants to look responsible and gets married but still wants his freedom So he sleeps around.

The gal wants to get married before she gets too old so she gets married, but she has not prepared herself to be a mother and a wife.

Nice post. Bookmarking this.

Exactly.
Many girls are very ready for the pre-wedding picture, wedding pictures, the ceremony, but they are never ready for the marriage.
They don't know how to talk, cook, maintain a house, even to accommodate in-laws is war.
Above all, they are good at seeing the husbands family as demons and enemies to pray against.
Also, many guys are not ready to control their temper and fist, you can't go into marriage as Bruce Lee o. We must learn to walk away at some point, and even learn to end some arguments when it is getting heated.