Was chatting with a friend(a lady actually) this night and she sought my help on something which I will like nairalanders to proffer a better solution.

The lady in question is in a relationship presently and she loves her boyfriend so much but now her ex-boyfriend shows up out of the blues(friendly with her at first) and he later started insulting her calling her names(wayward, irresponsible and a slut) then he dropped the bomb (sent a nude picture of her) which she never sent him all through when they were dating.

Then for her to realize he had he Facebook password, which he used in logging into her account and coping all the chat she had with her boyfriend(the pictures were actually sent to the current boyfriend).

Now the ex boyfriend is demanding for sex from her or have her nude pictures exposed. She hasn't told her boyfriend about it also.

Pls what do you think she can do please matured minds.

U mentioned the nudes have been sent to her current boyfriend so I don't see any reason why she should continue giving her ex attention again.. He has done his worst....


Sometimes when I tell ladies to always mention things that may cause issues in their current relationship, they won't hear.... They start being defensive of their ex boyfriends.. Mchew.

Have sex with the Ex... Afterall they were having it before. But will it stop him from requesting for more?

Hell No.

Only solution is involve the police and they arrest the dude and force hi to sign an undertaken.

best solution.

dingbang:
U mentioned the nudes have been sent to her current boyfriend so I don't see any reason why she should continue giving her ex attention again.. He has done his worst....


Sometimes when I tell ladies to always mention things that may cause issues in their current relationship, they won't hear.... They start being defensive of their ex boyfriends.. Mchew.

Yes the nudes were meant for her current boyfriend but what if he ends up exposing the nudes on social media. How can she stop him from going further with his plans of cheap blackmail

BiafranBushBoy:
Have sex with the Ex... Afterall they were having it before. But will it stop him from requesting for more?

Hell No.

Only solution is involve the police and they arrest the dude and force hi to sign an undertaken.

best solution.

Thanks

lawngmahan:


Yes the nudes were meant for her current boyfriend but what if he ends up exposing the nudes on social media. How can she stop him from going further with his plans of cheap blackmail

mchew.... She should request for change of password from Facebook na.. Dey will send a link to her email address, she changes it.. This is 2017, I detest dumbness

The op is not typing the truth.. I'm sure she sent him those nudes... If not you should she have nude pictures of herself... Or is she a porn model?... Some girls are too naive...

That's how a stupid was crying.. That she wanted to travel for school, then she decided to take nude pictures of herself on his phone.... In other for him to feed his eyes whenever he's Hot... The idiot called her two days later telling her his phone along with her nudes were stolen...

The foolish girl was openly crying and wailing....

The bottom line is that the girl in question has nothing else to do... Than to accept her mistake and learn from it

(I don't mean she should give her body to the dog she calls ex)...

... Give him a stern warning, If he insists on pushing through with his plans; press charges!

Let her arrange a sexual rendezvous with the ex. Arrange some goons who will burst in as the sex is about to happen. Get the guy's nudes as many as possible and wipe off the memory card of the ex.
It's simple

But why would a girl be sending her nudes to a guy she's dating??,,,

Just involve the police, charge him for blackmail. Finish.

Pls be reasonable for once...

BiafranBushBoy:
Have sex with the Ex... Afterall they were having it before. But will it stop him from requesting for more?

Hell No.

Only solution is involve the police and they arrest the dude and force hi to sign an undertaken.

best solution.

HOnesty is a character. i would advice her to open up and talk to her boyfriend about "her past life" =. if the boyfriend really loves her, he would stand with her through thick and thin...but SHE MUST NOT GO BACK TO THE FORMER GUY. He is a Pervert...a weaklin and a big fool...

She should tell d current bf, they should strike a deal nd she should pretend to accept her Ex's request, go meet we him in d company of her current guy(in a confidential manner) seize his phone nd delete everything 'bout her nd den go to her facebook acct nd change the password. Shikina!
Epic right? Ya, dat's how it should be. Epic situatn requires epic decision

peter0071:
Pls be reasonable for once...

Mr reasonable... give her a better idea!!

firstking01:
But why would a girl be sending her nudes to a guy she's dating??,,,

Should we believe you've never asked a girl you're dating for nudes?.

At least she knows her enemy. Let her get the law involved with hard evidence against the guy; chats, recorded calls ,messages etc

And she should tell her current bf ASAP..

Benita27:
Should we believe you've never asked a girl you're dating for nudes?.

And you are guilty of this in otherwords?

BiafranBushBoy:
Have sex with the Ex... Afterall they were having it before. But will it stop him from requesting for more?

Hell No.

Only solution is involve the police and they arrest the dude and force hi to sign an undertaken.

best solution.

God bless you.. pray you are not an atheist though.

firstking01:
And you are guilty of this in otherwords?

Lol.
Don't always show your temperamental nature, you sounded like you've never asked for nudes.

Bye!.

datmadman:
God bless you.. pray you are not an atheist though.

Who atheist epp?

I am a pure christian bro.

Bless you too

Benita27:
Lol.
Don't always show your temperamental nature, you sounded like you've never asked for nudes.

Bye!.

You guessed wrongly dear, i'm not quick to get angry but i was just curious to know why you should indulge in such an ungodly thing

firstking01:
You guessed wrongly dear, i'm not quick to get angry but i was just curious to know why you should indulge in such an ungodly thing

Here we go again. I know you've demanded for nudes before so stop the pretence.

Benita27:
Here we go again. I know you've demanded for nudes before so stop the pretence.

I understand why you are saying this, but truth is, impressions are not always the true determinant of expressions....again, the next time he ask you for nudes, stand your ground and say NO...What if he decides to blackmail you and leak it online tomorrow

firstking01:
I understand why you are saying this, but truth is, impressions are not always the true determinant of expressions....again, the next time he ask you for nudes, stand your ground and say NO...What if he decides to blackmail you and leak it online tomorrow

I don't know what you just typed about @ the embolden...lol.

Benita27:
I don't know what you just typed about @ the embolden...lol.

Well, i can't help it.

Tell them to remain virgin, dem no to hear.. Foolish girl.

keep on disgracing yourself online.... if u have nothing good to say, abeg enter gambia

BiafranBushBoy:


Mr reasonable... give her a better idea!!

firstking01:
But why would a girl be sending her nudes to a guy she's dating??,,,

the thing tire me oo

My dear the only solution is to tell the current boyfriend about her past life with her Ex.from there the boyfriend will take everything on his hand.if he cannot handle by himself then he should involve police.

stanleyjacinta:
the thing tire me oo

Are those your kids??