I have a minute problem, a beautiful one which is making me confused.
I am a Pharmacist, I just met a girl that I want to marry and we are so good. She is so cute, humble, more than a friend, respectful asides all these, she is a final year Pharmacy student. I just got to realize that she is from a very comfortable home (wealthy).

A job brought me to another state and the boss is into politics and oil. He made me the MD of his company which is just kicking off. We hope to import drugs and pharmaceuticals. He called me into his bedroom and was saying stuffs like 'he likes how I handle business and am so humble and respectful that he hopes his family gets to know my family'. Though I didn't take it serious because you know how politicians and men of such status can buy into your emotions. Me am a business minded dude and to be frank, I put a lot of hardwork and energy into setting the office up from recruiting of staff to organization of activities to policy making etc. He just got me an apartment in his compound and is seriously furnishing it. I must say it is extremely comfortable. He was talking of getting me a ride too, and I know him as a man of his words.

The in-problem is this.....he has a daughter who is studying Medicine in Covenant University and from his body language, he wants me to settle with his daughter so we manage this company together.

Guys, as am here writing this am very confused. This man is not a proud man and his family ain't this proud pragado type..the kids so far so simple and well behaved and he is so disciplined.

Am so confused right now...this is what I do see in Nollywood but its now happening before my eyes.

Let Nairaland fans/family help me out.

I've learnt to be open in whatever I do and I'll advise you to do same.
Not every relationship will lead to marriage and not every marriage will start from a relationship.

Wait until you get to that bridge before you cross it. The man's daughter may be all you'll need in a wife or she may be a Jezebel.

For one thing, never toy with your current girlfriend.

Hmmmm, Gold diggers will jump at this offer.

Just roll with the tides but don't lose your manhood by settling with his daughter. Be a man. Patapata you tell him you got a fiancée. If he sacks you, u will get another job.

J111333:
I've learnt to be open in whatever I do and I'll advise you to do same.
Not every relationship will lead to marriage and not every marriage will start from a relationship.

Wait until you get to that bridge before you cross it. The man's daughter may be all you'll need in a wife or she may be a Jezebel.

For one thing, never toy with your current girlfriend.

Thanks sir/ma...This part got me

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AwkaetitiBabe:
Hmmmm, Gold diggers will jump at this offer.

Just roll with the tides.

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CosmicPhoenix:
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Yiu too fast

So he got you an apartment, he is about to buy you a car, he wants to choose a wife for you. Yea if you don’t want to be in control of your marriage go ahead with your boss’s daughter.

I think you should have a "man to man" discussion with him and tell him (meekly and without anxiety) about your current relationship. Based on some of his qualities you revealed, I think he'll be willing to listen, and considerate.

and you are one of them

AwkaetitiBabe:
Hmmmm, Gold diggers will jump at this offer.

Just roll with the tides but don't lose your manhood by settling with his daughter. Be a man. Patapata you tell him you got a fiancée. If he sacks you, u will get another job.

@onlinewell, please do not marry the politician's daughter. It may look like a juicy offer, but remember that every happenings in ur marriage will be made known to her father, who is your benefactor. When there are issues in the marriage, he would always side with his daughter, and will use the employment he gave you to manipulate you and put u in check. You are a pharmacist, and it a very lucrative course to study, I know you can make it in life with or without this politician. Since you say you are very resourceful to this politician, believe me, he values you, and would not also want to loose you, if you stand ur ground and make him know you have some else you want to marry. He may be disappointed, but he'll definitely not sack you coz of ur refusal to marry his daughter.

lefulefu, franchasng. Your inputs are needed here oh

There's a story like this in a book I read...

The Millionaire Mind

Riches and Relationships are an opposite spectrum - to me

One can destroy the other. And as much as you can have them both, you should never choose one over the other.

I suggest you read the book

op I really got no advice for u other than this...look at it as a game where you have to hold on to that job, marry the person your heart is with and still keep that man pleased with you.
but i can't help thinking what the answers from most ladies would have been had the story been from a lady...just saying...

There is no medical school in covenant university ota yet

OnlineWell:
I have a minute problem, a beautiful one which is making me confused.
I am a Pharmacist, I just met a girl that I want to marry and we are so good. She is so cute, humble, more than a friend, respectful asides all these, she is a final year Pharmacy student. I just got to realize that she is from a very comfortable home (wealthy).

A job brought me to another state and the boss is into politics and oil. He made me the MD of his company which is just kicking off. We hope to import drugs and pharmaceuticals. He called me into his bedroom and was saying stuffs like 'he likes how I handle business and am so humble and respectful that he hopes his family gets to know my family'. Though I didn't take it serious because you know how politicians and men of such status can buy into your emotions. Me am a business minded dude and to be frank, I put a lot of hardwork and energy into setting the office up from recruiting of staff to organization of activities to policy making etc. He just got me an apartment in his compound and is seriously furnishing it. I must say it is extremely comfortable. He was talking of getting me a ride too, and I know him as a man of his words.

The in-problem is this.....he has a daughter who is studying Medicine in Covenant University and from his body language, he wants me to settle with his daughter so we manage this company together.

Guys, as am here writing this am very confused. This man is not a proud man and his family ain't this proud pragado type..the kids so far so simple and well behaved and he is so disciplined.

Am so confused right now...this is what I do see in Nollywood but its now happening before my eyes.

Let Nairaland fans/family help me out.

Mister man, Convenant University does not have medicine

AgentGoat:
There is no medical school in covenant university ota yet

Thank you fa, what a lie.

Fountainofyouth:



Thank you fa, what a lie.

why are you like this. Some mere fantasies are good ooo

Beadex1:
why are you like this. Some mere fantasies are good ooo

Lmao

The best thing is to be open about your relationship. Let the man know u're already involved with someone.

Even if you eventually did not get married to ur current lady, it's best to avoid marrying ur boss' daughter.

If you do, u'd lose your privacy and control over your life. You'll always be their 'slave'

Before I commented on threads I always gone the ops previous threads to ascertain the genuiness of their stories.

From my findings so far, this thread is nothing but a bunch of lies.

Thoniameek:
There's a story like this in a book I read...

The Millionaire Mind

Riches and Relationships are an opposite spectrum - to me

One can destroy the other. And as much as you can have them both, you should never choose one over the other.

I suggest you read the book

Love your nails, can we be "Friends"?

Offpoint1:

Love your nails, can we be "Friends"?

Thank you. Sure, we can be "Friends"

Thoniameek:
There's a story like this in a book I read...

The Millionaire Mind

Riches and Relationships are an opposite spectrum - to me

One can destroy the other. And as much as you can have them both, you should never choose one over the other.

I suggest you read the book

Is there a soft copy publication of the book?

Fountainofyouth:


Mister man, Convenant University does not have medicine

he wanna cause confusion here....maybe he is referring to Bowen university

Freehuman:



Is there a soft copy publication of the book?

I've never bothered to check. You can do the findings for yourself though

Thoniameek:


Thank you. Sure, we can be "Friends"

That's very welcoming of you, can I exchange contact?

I'm broke though if you don't mind adding another broke "friend" to your friends list.

Offpoint1:

That's very welcoming of you, can I exchange contact?

I'm broke though if you don't mind adding another broke "friend" to your friends list.

So long as you don't want to stay broke, you're welcome

Thoniameek:

So long as you don't want to stay broke, you're welcome

Stay broke ke? who on earth wanna stay broke?
The hassle and hustle is 24/7 fa...
Slow and steady

bad boy