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Is He/she Meant For You? by CyberGypsy(m): 7:24am On Jan 27, 2017
Determine your [size=19pt]Relationship[/size]

sometimes, it's hard to tell if you and your partner will be forever. Don't worry, here are ways to know if your relationship has a future.

[size=20pt]I[/size] t's equal and sharing
A healthy relationship is equal and sharing. You should never feel "obligated" to your partner when he or she does something nice for you. If you buy a present, your partner shouldn't have to buy one in return to even things. Me course, if you're living together, you have to share the bills. It won't always be equal, but there shouldn't be any sense of guilt if one person says more than the other because one person makes more money. In other words, you and your spouse should share things willingly and not evenly.

The little things
Any relationship can make it part the big things, but the little things can drive you insane. Can you get over the way she forgets to put the cap back no the toothpaste, or he throws his clothes in a drawer without even folding them?

In all honesty, if you con't get part there things and he or she is not willing to change, you might want to reconsider your relationship. You have to live with this person and sometimes, it's the little things that drive people apart. If your man or woman means more to you than wrinkled clothing, then you might have a future in ecstasy together. But but if he or she makes you mad every day. Then you might want to take a break and think it through.

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Re: Is He/she Meant For You? by CyberGypsy(m): 7:30am On Jan 27, 2017
You still want to be together
If both of you have been together for years and you still want to be together, then, your relationship has a future. Wanting to be with each other is always the most important part of having a future together. Some relationship fizzle out, but if you're still going strong, you probably have a keeper

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Re: Is He/she Meant For You? by CyberGypsy(m): 7:34am On Jan 27, 2017
You have an open communication
you cannot have a relationship if you can't communicate with each other.One of the most important things to remember is accepting him as he is since you won't be able to change him. Because of that, you need to make sure this is someone you trust openly. If you cannot tell him or her everything that's no your mind, the person might not be the one for you.

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Re: Is He/she Meant For You? by CyberGypsy(m): 7:38am On Jan 27, 2017
You both think alike
If you want to have a future together, both of you have to think alike. You don't need to agree with everything at all time, but, you have to have the same goals and dreams. You and your spouse must have the same views on the dutre in order for your relationship to have a future.

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Re: Is He/she Meant For You? by CyberGypsy(m): 7:43am On Jan 27, 2017
You can be apart
One of the most crucial ways to know if your relationship has a future is by being apart from each other comfortably. Sometimes, being some distance away from your spouse makes you happier. If that's the case, you need to rethink your future with this person. Sometime, you feel completely insecure when your're apart and you can't stand it. This is also unhealthy and way too dependent. However, if you can be apart from each other, without it tearing you apart, then you have a healthy relationship

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Re: Is He/she Meant For You? by CyberGypsy(m): 7:53am On Jan 27, 2017
Argue with each other
If you have never had an argument with your partner, then you need to sit down by yourself and think your relationship through. Arguments are healthy in a relationship. You don't have to yell, scream and throw things at each other or fight and call each other names, but you need to have an argument once in a while. If you can do that without holding any grudges and without making it more than it is, you probably have a future with this person. It isn't always easy to be in a relationship, but it's even harder to finding the right one to spend your entire life with.


So there you have it, they are quite simple and easy to practice.

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Re: Is He/she Meant For You? by Nobody: 8:32am On Jan 27, 2017
Space booked cheesy

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