A Ghanaian counselor has warned intending couples to avoiding marrying anyone who puts passwords on their phones.

Counselor Adofoli wrote:
If you are single and thinking of marriage then please don't marry anyone who puts passwords or locks on their phone as a form of security to prevent you from accessing their conversations.



They can surely do this for other security measures, but you must not be the reason for this action. I am very much aware that passwords or lock are for security purposes but one thing I don't approve of is when a spouse becomes the reason for that security measure.

There is nothing like secrecy or privacy in marriage, let no one deceive you there is, and let no one tell you he or she is doing that to save you from getting hurt. Marriage is a holy institution, there is nothing like hiding. Marriage is made for life and one of the very things that can destroy it is acts of hiding things.

The bible says in Genesis 2:25 (TLB)
"Now although the man and his wife were both naked, neither of them was embarrassed or ashamed". What are you embarrassed or ashamed of your spouse seeing? If you can't be truthful, honest and transparent with them, then there is no need getting married to them. It doesn't matter how you feel about them.

Mark 10:8 (NLV) says
“The two will become one. So they are no longer two, but one”. I therefore suggest to you, if he or she is hiding things from you, it simply means they don’t want to become one with you. Such a marriage won’t last.

Many people don't know trust is more important than love in any relationship especially marriage. Love without trust is empty. Trust enhances love, it makes it beautiful and fortified. Trust is very essential. Not even thieves can work together if they can't trust each other. An employer and employee cannot have a good relationship if trust doesn't exist. It takes trust for citizens to elect one of their own as their leader or president. It takes trust for God to perform miracles in our lives as humans.



Your relationship is bound to fail if you agree to marry someone you don't trust. The simple question is, if I can trust you with the most important organ in my life which is the heart, that which holds my life in the name of love, then why can't I trust you with a phone conversation or chat? If the chat is more important than me, then you don't need me in your life. I'm supposed to be the most important person in your life and can't stand the competition with passwords.


Once I agree to marry you, it means I trust you, and there is no need to suspect you, or secretly read your chats etc. in your absence. In Ephesians 5:21 (TLB) bible instructs spouses to "Honor Christ by submitting to each other".

In other words, respect each other and for that matter If I need to have access to your phone or social media account, I need to seek your approval or ask for your permission.

Our goal in marriage is to be good couples. A good wife will be the husband's peace and a good husband will be the wife's protection. If you are married but find yourself guilty by this message, please change. You might not understand the damage you are causing your marriage and spouse until the same thing is done to you.

In conclusion "If you do the right thing, honesty will be your guide. But if you are crooked, you will be trapped by your own dishonesty" - Proverbs 11:3 (CEV).

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lalasticlala

What if she tells u the code for the password?

dhoor whu this one

hahaha...

Nobody should tell Me security


Security from who?


Some people will even overdo it

Unlock phone : Password

Phone : Password

Messages : Password

File manager : Password

Gallery : Password

Browser : Password

Music : Password

Videos : Password

Calender : Password

Calculator : Password

Whatsapp : Password

Settings : Password


What exactly are they hiding?

Crap!!! I password my phone because of my kids

Friendzone:
I still don't get why people use passwords

Privacy Sir, Privacy.

But they can marry me na... I use fingerprint

Ok

auntysimbiat:
hahaha...

u dey laugh,that kind of a person will be secretive,that just what it mean's

Who u epp?

Security code for me's very important nd of cus my spouse must know my password, so what else?

I Do Password Ma Fone because Of Ma Friends Nd Rumate. Ma Fiance Dnt Even Go Close To Ma Fone I Dnt Knw Y Buh He Giv Me His... He Knws D Code Thou

I agree 100 percent

Excellent nonsense!

Many counsellors are mad, few are roaming.

Say wetin? I don't password my phone cos of my own secrets only but I also have other people secrets there and my phone is meant to be personal sef. Some people will just be using your data or airtime anyhow without permission. If my partner gat issues with that na wahala o.

Abeg forget that parole jor, before GSM come 9ja ppl been dey run package.

All these i too know sef.

Anyway, i still dey enjoy my change

Fingerprint!

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STORY

Putting a password on phone is not a big deal if only you try to understand the reason behind it,

1) phone is like his own private space so let him be
2) the fact that he or she put password does not mean he/she can't give you the password to allow you access
3) kids, younger ones and some friends could also be the reason behind the password
4) he or she could also have confidential information's like company info, client info etc which he is bound to protect leading to the password on the phone
5) have you also considered the phone getting misplaced or stolen and the person who gets it will have instant access the everything on the phone(which may even include your nude pics/videos) which is why he or she pass worded it

Please I understand Buhari is our president but we all must not also reason like him please,
the fact that mmm freezed our marvros does not mean we should also freeze ore brains please

I don't belief in on dis bullshit hafico

People are just giving useless advice everyday

So if my profession requires me keeping confidential info on my device that may be accessed at any time, make I leave am open ehn?

You try, you try very well

I agree.

Laveda:


Privacy Sir, Privacy.

I hope it will be okay for your rich husband to password his bank account?

hahahahah

I pray o..mk she con log into my nairabet account go spoil my bet