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Re: Living Under Same Roof With Inlaws……how Does It Look Like? by aameyah(f): 10:44am On Feb 07, 2017 |
seguno2: Association of family house husbands. Una weldone o. |
Re: Living Under Same Roof With Inlaws……how Does It Look Like? by aameyah(f): 10:46am On Feb 07, 2017 |
derato: See your mouth like marriage is not a bed of roses. Another family house husband at work! |
Re: Living Under Same Roof With Inlaws……how Does It Look Like? by aameyah(f): 10:48am On Feb 07, 2017 |
shyling: Yes o. A woman must suffer and smile. |
Re: Living Under Same Roof With Inlaws……how Does It Look Like? by Nobody: 11:10am On Feb 07, 2017 |
dokyOloye:Now i understand better sir!. Have a nice day!. |
Re: Living Under Same Roof With Inlaws……how Does It Look Like? by cecegorz(m): 11:10am On Feb 07, 2017 |
Lizzyangel: Sorry dear. Any man that cannot rent his own apartment, even if it's a one room, is NOT READY to marry. I don't care if the family house is a mansion, unless your husband has a different wing in the building that ensures some privacy. 2 Likes |
Re: Living Under Same Roof With Inlaws……how Does It Look Like? by Harinholar(f): 11:20am On Feb 07, 2017 |
shyling:You are foolish.... Yeah u are!!!!....Give her your advice (the merciful) #Ode# and stop quoting me with silly words..... Am entitle to my opinion... |
Re: Living Under Same Roof With Inlaws……how Does It Look Like? by samhay: 11:29am On Feb 07, 2017 |
Its a NO NO for me 1 Like |
Re: Living Under Same Roof With Inlaws……how Does It Look Like? by glossy6(f): 11:41am On Feb 07, 2017 |
Lizzyangel: Take a chill pill, pretend they are not just there, with time, things will sort out themselves |
Re: Living Under Same Roof With Inlaws……how Does It Look Like? by Hannysmilez(f): 11:42am On Feb 07, 2017 |
You're the real VIP-4yrs isn't a joke. You need patience.There's nothing you can do about it,it's only for a while.Treat them well even when they're annoying and never badmouth them to ur husband. It's really annoying but you gotta stand by his side |
Re: Living Under Same Roof With Inlaws……how Does It Look Like? by Hannysmilez(f): 11:58am On Feb 07, 2017 |
[quot author=Lizzyangel post=53451537] You've got to change your mindset,tell urself its only for a while. Treat them like royalty even when they treat you like a slve,apologise evn wen theyre wrong. Determine never to let them get to you. All the best |
Re: Living Under Same Roof With Inlaws……how Does It Look Like? by NemzySeries(m): 12:10pm On Feb 07, 2017 |
shyling:? |
Re: Living Under Same Roof With Inlaws……how Does It Look Like? by Nobody: 12:14pm On Feb 07, 2017 |
Pidgin2: My dear you got it all wrong.it depend on the kind of family you found yourself in.mine was not like that. |
Re: Living Under Same Roof With Inlaws……how Does It Look Like? by snowblaq(f): 12:22pm On Feb 07, 2017 |
Cutesexy1:...you are funny ....but honestly.. Wisdom is really needed |
Re: Living Under Same Roof With Inlaws……how Does It Look Like? by delishpot: 12:38pm On Feb 07, 2017 |
onome2013: Naija woman would never dare do that o. Her man may be the type that his mother would bring new wife for him and he would say his hands we're tied he couldn't do anything but sleep with her and give her bele. Then he would blame OP for giving his mommy chance to go bring the new woman in the first place. That is why she is respecting herself and enduring. That man no be the type wey go tell his mom and dad no. Imagine custom that says a man can't leave his parents unless he is moving into his own home. So if his career takes him to another city now, he will carry his parents house on his head with him to the new location? 2 Likes |
Re: Living Under Same Roof With Inlaws……how Does It Look Like? by Nobody: 12:40pm On Feb 07, 2017 |
TheGreatIYANU: i just did…… thanks for the eye opening comment. 1 Like |
Re: Living Under Same Roof With Inlaws……how Does It Look Like? by shyling(f): 12:54pm On Feb 07, 2017 |
Harinholar:Then take responsibility for comments on your opinion |
Re: Living Under Same Roof With Inlaws……how Does It Look Like? by chris31(m): 1:08pm On Feb 07, 2017 |
Lizzyangel:You have made the big mistake already just learn to deal with it. If u truly deserve peace with them u have to adjust ur life to please them all. To all single ladies pls dont marry becoz u love him most rather marry becoz he loves u most so dat he will be d one dat will bear d burden of d marriage. This is situation u find urself when love overshadowed u when choosing a spouse. 4 Likes |
Re: Living Under Same Roof With Inlaws……how Does It Look Like? by jimb(m): 2:04pm On Feb 07, 2017 |
I found my self in ur shoe and now am enjoying every bit of it cos I killed both parents... :DI |
Re: Living Under Same Roof With Inlaws……how Does It Look Like? by viktor01(m): 2:42pm On Feb 07, 2017 |
Seriously, it is not advice able for a man to marry a woman and put her in his father's house... Jeez....! I trust my mum, she will kill her for me especially if it happens to be an inter ethnic marriage. Woman, It is better to move back to your parents house too so that he can come for you when he is ready than allow yourself to be killed before your time. 1 Like |
Re: Living Under Same Roof With Inlaws……how Does It Look Like? by Bobbyunitedfc(m): 8:01pm On Feb 07, 2017 |
samhay: bro i need to talk u asap......been following your posts a lot on uae thread but u ve been quiet there lately,cant post this on thread so i find u come here.....dunno if u can reach me on my mail.....omololu51@gmail.com please try abeg |
Re: Living Under Same Roof With Inlaws……how Does It Look Like? by SalomonKane: 8:23pm On Feb 08, 2017 |
Hannysmilez:Hi. |
Re: Living Under Same Roof With Inlaws……how Does It Look Like? by Hannysmilez(f): 7:00pm On Feb 10, 2017 |
SalomonKane: Hello buddy |
Re: Living Under Same Roof With Inlaws……how Does It Look Like? by ShaqFu: 1:48pm On Feb 11, 2017 |
Hannysmilez:Hey Hahn. What happened to thee? |
Re: Living Under Same Roof With Inlaws……how Does It Look Like? by Emioga: 2:48pm On Feb 12, 2017 |
Lizzyangel their is absolutely nothing you can do about it. Speaking from experience, it will get harder and you have to get stronger. For me it's my hubby's house but my mil stays with us(even though she built her own house) worst is anytime I am pregnant I have to move out so she won't see me in pregnancy (crazy right). You will feel alone, unloved but be strong. I have brother in law too. Quick question, do you and your hubby fight alot cos this tends to happen. Be strong and don't report any issues to your husband. You will become the bad person. Hugs 1 Like |
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